Scorpio freeze out

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sarasweetgemflo
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Scorpio had to help me with an issue regarding an application to install on my computer at work.

I was very matter of fact with him just going about business as usual and he went about doing what he needed to do.

The whole time he was there testing my system he couldn't look me in the eye even though i was making eye contact regarding the work we had to discuss.

He seemed really uncomfortable and it showed in his body language even though he was trying hard to suppress his emotions.

When I came back the next morning my computer had been set up with a solution to the problem.

Then today he was in and out of my office fixing other computers but we had no contact.

Right when I was leaving work we bumped into each other in the hallway and he looked up and i was coming in the other direction towards him and when he looked up and looked at me he gave me a blank look and immediately looked away. It was all very cold.

I said hi and he didn't respond.

Is that scorpio's way of indicating he's moved on and I no longer exist to him?

He had sent me a text message regarding a fight we had and I did not answer 2 days ago.
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DeathbyScorpio
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While a lot of scorpios share similar traits, not all of them react the same. My ex and I work together and have been off and on for a year after our first break up. Most of the time, he acts how you just described. He avoids looking at me at all costs. He won't even walk by my desk (he goes way out of his way to avoid that) unless he has to. On the rare occasion we have had to talk because of work stuff, I could tell he was nervous, but tried to play it off. He mostly either avoids me like the plague, or avoids me and also does things to try to piss me off and hurt me. Any normal person would take that as he is done and he's an ass. However...in a year, he hasn't been done. Whenever his wall is broken down, he gushes to me about how much he has missed me, loves me, etc. Scorpios have incredible will power to stay away (probably for self-protection), even if it's not what they want. I usually have to initiate contact. I have found that if I'm nice (even when I want to punch him in the throat for being so selfish and mean) and reach out to him, that tends to smooth things over. If I act like him, or throw things in conversations with others he will hear that may hurt him, he will continue to be distant and be even more of an ass. He can dish it out, but can't take it back.

I think you still affect him, and he still has feelings. He may be trying to move on, but maybe he is not able. Who knows. Everyone is different. My ex told me he can't be around me because he has feelings.

If you want him back, maybe try to kindly approach him in private and ask if he would like to get lunch or something. If I ever asked to "talk," he said no. I would have to make it something non-confrontational or threatening like lunch or a movie.

If you need closure, you could always ask if he is really done and if you should move on. My ex never will answer that when I ask...
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Posted by sarasweetgemflo
Scorpio had to help me with an issue regarding an application to install on my computer at work.

I was very matter of fact with him just going about business as usual and he went about doing what he needed to do.

The whole time he was there testing my system he couldn't look me in the eye even though i was making eye contact regarding the work we had to discuss.

He seemed really uncomfortable and it showed in his body language even though he was trying hard to suppress his emotions.

When I came back the next morning my computer had been set up with a solution to the problem.

Then today he was in and out of my office fixing other computers but we had no contact.

Right when I was leaving work we bumped into each other in the hallway and he looked up and i was coming in the other direction towards him and when he looked up and looked at me he gave me a blank look and immediately looked away. It was all very cold.

I said hi and he didn't respond.

Is that scorpio's way of indicating he's moved on and I no longer exist to him?

He had sent me a text message regarding a fight we had and I did not answer 2 days ago.



His way of saying so long screwy. Bon voyage. Don't call us we'll call you.