scorpio friend?

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Posted by xoaminahxo
I have a scorpio friend who hasn't made the brightest decisions. Of course everyone makes mistakes, so I stuck by her side. She had a boyfriend, neglected me, then when he cheated, she came back to me. As a pushover cancer, I said nothing and accepted her w/ open arms even though during her relationship she didn't acknowledge me, and was always on edge. There even came a time where she ignored me. I'm stubborn and I confronted her, I love confrontation and she hates being confronted with anything. She says I'm too blunt. When confronted, she made up excuses. I dropped it. About a month later, she takes me out for and expensive lunch and buys me an expensive present. The conversation is unusually light and she's acting very friendly and sweet. Is this her way of saying sorry? Ugh I always have a scorpio somewhere in my life and I love it and hate it..haha



Well i hate to say it but it sounds like she is brown nosing you maybe because she feels guilty about how she treated you...she knows what she did was wrong and yes she is trying to say she is sorry but i think your friendship is more than an expensive luch and nice gift. Why dont you tell her how you feel and build your realtionship on some nice quality time together like sign up for an art class and/or take a yoga class it will stop her from neglecting her relationship with you and help her find some balance Lord knows all us scorpios need that!
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CancerianGoddess is right. When involved with someone, our focus turns completely on that person. Love is a wrecking/overwhelming experience for us. But our friends are always deep down in our hearts and minds. It is just that our minds take off to Elsewhere Land when in love.

The expensive gift, IS for a 'feeling sorry' gesture, but it also shows she cares for you more than you might be aware of. She most possibly likes your heart-ass honesty with her. She knows she can trust you. Don't underestimate her gift, we don't give expensive gifts to buy your ass if we don't care for you.

My aries colleague (female friend) used to buy me gifts at every occasion, but when I felt we were best friends, I started buying her expensive gifts. I didn't even see that as expensive, because I saw her like my sister/family.
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true friends don't always have to hang out with each other all the time. I mean, if they have the luxury to be together at every given occasion, then that's great.

To me true friend is the one with who you can get back with, as no days have past in between even if many years have past by. And when you see each other again after many years, you still continue sharing your secrets without worry and with eagerness. And I do have friends like that...