scorpio girl having trouble with pisces man

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scorp222
@scorp222
11 Years

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i am a free spirit girl, dont believe in tagged traditional relationships, i just go with the flow... if i like someone, i tell them and let nature run its course.... i met this pisces man 2 weeks ago, at a cafe. we shared eye contact a few times, went back the next day he was there again and so on for about 3 times. he looked sad and i felt a connection, just from the eye contact. anywho, i told him i liked him, we went out, went to his house, had sex...

we were both very excited to see eachother again. i went to his house 2 days later, and during sex, he told me hes not comfortable with what we are doing, because he just got ut of a relationship and i said ok and left.

it was terrible, you can imagine that. we texted and i told him im sorry i even attracted him into this and that i know we wont be seeing eachother again. then he told me to let him recover for a few days. i told him ok. then he said nevermind, lets see eachother again tomorrow night, but he sounded high or something and i said i cant tomorow night, then he started questioning me about myself, implying i lied about something, sounding very paranoid.

i told him to calm down and that i will contact him when i can meet him. so the next day i went to the cafe, he was there with friends, i was there with friends. we shared a few looks and that was it. i texted him later asking if he still thinks i lied, and never got an answer. the next day i asked if he decided not to speak with me and got no answer. and then in an attempt to atract him i told him i was available the next night (wich is tonight) and that if he wants to, to contact me. never got an answer. and that was it.

i really really like him, and i dont care about a relationship and commitment, i just want to see him again, (yes to have sex too cause im a scorp). my instincts are telling me he needs time alone because i confused him even more given that he just broke up, but im so impacient and i dont understand the silence. why not tell me straight forward leave me alone or let me think for a while?

do you have any idea what this silence is supposed to mean? i cant think straight because im involved in this. please help me out...
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Noreallynow
@Noreallynow
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I'm a scorp and I've known my pisces friend for 8 years. One thing that I know about them is that they will tell you how they feel. Maybe he needs time to think things through. Or it could be that you felt a connection and he didn't. It may have just been sex with him. One think I noticed about us Scorps is that we get so consumed into our own thoughts. Then we start making assumptions based on how we feel. Just give him a few days or so. Wait a few days and then ask him. Let him come to you. Repeatedly contacting him is not going to help. It will be ok.