Scorpio guys and cold shoulder?

If not into someone I know it right away. I may go on a date anyway as to see if my intuition is right. He may have just gone out just to make sure his gut was right

Kinda sounds like once he got to know you a little bit, he didn't like it...

Agreed

Posted by ScorpioFemale79
If not into someone I know it right away. I may go on a date anyway as to see if my intuition is right. He may have just gone out just to make sure his gut was right

I'm like that too!

And obviously, I'm into this guy. And we've known each other a long time so this wasn't the first time we went out. The only thing is that the 'dates' have been spaced out. Either he will contact me out of the blue, or I'll start the conversation. But this time he seemed as if he was really looking forward to go out but then just changed his mind last minute? Which leads me to think that maybe he's playing games or maybe read my signals wrong or something else is up.

Posted by PP
Kinda sounds like once he got to know you a little bit, he didn't like it...

Yeah this seems probable. Can't explain his actions any other way..

"What was the conversation when he suddenly turned cold?"

Well it wasn't exactly the conversation itself, but the general attitude. I have this habit of reading people's emotions and moods and can feel right away that something is up. Well, when I went out with him previously, his attitude was more positive and engaging. This time, the conversation was lacking.

This is a typical cancer trait, but I tend to react to how others are feeling. So when i felt like he was acting a bit off, i closed up as well (I started to think that maybe I had read his signals wrong and that he wasn't really into me). So yeah, the night was pretty dull and just not exciting.

"hmmm, see if that was me (meaning you)...I'd have to ask him directly if he was uncomfortable with the date. I don't understand how some women can be with a man, know something isn't right and not ask and communicate. No offense to your crab shell and how Cancer's are either. I get it..but the wondering alone would bother me a lot. I have to ask..don't you wish you did ask him?"

I always try to be direct, but with him there is something that doesn't let me. Dunno why. But I agree with you! and I do
wish I had outright asked him instead of keeping it in and then going crazy wondering about it later. And of course only he can answer the question 100% . But I let my fear of rejection get the best of me! 😢

This is part of the problem - women start dreaming up crazy stuff and then... they are scared to death.

I've witnessed this - They might look at me positively, one day and the next, scream as though I were Jack the Ripper
for no reason at all.

I don't know if they are going through that time of month or if they have been talkin' to friends but....
their imaginations run wild.

Imagine A Sag and Cancer doing the exact same thing... one cannot help but wonder..
I thought "You two are just alike!"

In short, don't let your imagination feed the bears, or you'll say something stupid and the relationship's goin' bye-bye.