Scorpio male response please

This guy I was talkin to(who is a scorpio) likes me. The problem is im very demanding and direct, so i come off very strong in the beginning. He says hes not sure he can handle that. Anyways i decided to drop him, but then again i dont mind a challenge. Scorpio male response please, would you want a woman to fight for you as in not take "no" in this sittuation? im like that naturally but if its no use i would like to know. It seems as if hes testing me. We cool though.

Maybe if you just show him that you're worth the getting used to then he won't really care about what he can or cannot take!

If you like a healthy challenge, then your challenge is just be worth something to him.

Let's not fantasize about proper chemistry and all that other stuff, because when it really comes down to it.. it's all about sheer work.

Just work for it!

i've been with a scorpio male for almost four years (i'm an aries) and we get along perfectly (a similar question was asked on the aries board a while ago, so my reply here is about the same than the one i gave then):
i guess if i hadn't taken the initiative we wouldn't be together now. he made clear he liked me but didn't really take action at first. but as soon as he knew i was into him too, his behaviour changed completely. so from my point of view you should stop playing games and be blunt and let him know you like him. if he doesn't respond to that, you should give it up really.

showing your feelings works wonders with scorps 😉

Oh yea that's a very good point.

Scorpions kinda want to have you psychologically before having you physically.

So if you just show him he has you then he'll have you, and if you can't give him that safety, that trust, and that certainty of step, then it's edgy like antibling said.

Thanks everyone for the advice!


"Maybe if you just show him that you're worth the getting used to then he won't really care about what he can or cannot take!

If you like a healthy challenge, then your challenge is just be worth something to him.

Let's not fantasize about proper chemistry and all that other stuff, because when it really comes down to it.. it's all about sheer work.

Just work for it! "


Ok, newest update! He likes me.... he says he doesnt think he will be content with the way I come off. I personally think we could work, i'm balanced and extremely versatile. I am very aggressive in the beginning until I feel I can trust the person and feel they can deal with it, normally I have no need to be as aggressive but its always an option it just I have no need to display it. I'm like that simply because I know how extreme I can be and want to make sure when I must display my strength, the person cant say I changed on them, I perfer things open and upfront, people should know what they are dealing with. Problem now is.. its the only side he has seen so far because now we cant get past it. So I was like, thats me, so next ------>

Also He told me "I like a woman to give alot because eventually I will... I have no problem with making the decisions and I dont mind confrontation" Im not sure what he meant, anyone wanna take a stab?

"It's true,in my opinion also...A little edgy until I know a girl's interested...then it's a case of finding the right time to pounce on you!!!"

you guys are so right,.i was at the movies with my scorp and he asked me how will he know if i really like him because i am supposedly friendly with Everyone. I told him i would tell him,.at which i already have. But he will take 5 steps forward,.then a couple days later he will take 6 steps back,.I think this is because i didnt express my "liking him" in a serious manner or maybe he felt it wasnt comming from my true heart.

my problem is this,.i like him because he's not Fake, he not a liar always where he says he gonna be he seems to be a good man so far ,.but i'm not feeling anything as far as chemistry,.im attracted to him alittle but something missing,.maybe after 4 months it still alittle early to feel anything yet. And then theres' the Halitosis issue,....ok let me pose this question,..let say you guys are out on a date and her/his breath hits you smack in the face and gum doesnt help,.does this matter to you? or do you just act as if you dont smell a person breath? this can be real turn off for some people,.is this something that would be important to you?

depends on the smell 😉 i can live with someone smelling like cigarettes or the pizza he had half an hour earlier. but if his breath smells like a rotten corpse...i'm out