Scorpio man - here today, gone tomorrow

I've been chatting by text and phone to a scorp guy I met online on and off for months. The first time we agreed to meet he disappeared at the lastinute due to health concerns That resurfaced. I didn't know until he wandered back into my radar a couple of months later.

The last few weeks we've been talking constantly by text and phone and last night agreed to meet today as he wants me to go to a function next week that we would both enjoy. He lives two hours away and was going to call me this morning to finalize arrangements for lunch. He was very keen.

This morning I didn't hear from him. Close to lunch I texted to see if he was still coming. Nothing. I tried calling because our phone Convo last night ended weirdly and I thought maybe something had happened health wise.

I must say that last night he told me the details of his health issue and I was initially a bit shocked. It said it was something I could come to terms with and was not a deal breaker for me. He was paranoid that he'd never hear from me again because of it.

Finally tonight I sent a message and said if he avoided meeting me today because of the health thing, that I could handle it as I said. I also told him if he just wasn't interested in me anymore then he had that right and I would not contact him again. I ended the message with the invitation to call me if he wanted.

I feel a bit sad because we had a great rapport and we were both keen to meet.

Did I handle this right and what is likely going on in this Scorpio mans head?

Ivy

Yes. I'd say you handled things well on your part. and Because you accepted him unconditionally just as he is.. sick & all. He will appreciate you to the UPMOST degree. Just give him sometime to "process" the situation and how you two will process it from there. He may feel embarrased but the hard part is over now. Wish you well. and stay safe.

Thanks taurusbelle. There's not much I can do. I just wasn't sure if it was the right thing to do letting him know the ball is in his court. In hindsight it kinda felt like burning bridges and I'm not sure that's a good thing to do with a scorp.

Is it possible he got a bit scared? He was nervous about meeting but kept insisting he loved my company on the phone.

If I haven't heard from him in a few weeks I might just shoot off a friendly text as I would have if I hadn't made that. I contact pledge.