Scorpio & texting

Hello All!

I am in a relationship with a scorpio...I am an aquarius btw Everything is going great. We have been together for 7 months.

A while back (around the beginning of the relationship) he said to me he likes a woman who can make his mind tick...what does that mean?

On the days we don't see each other we usually text one another...I want to keep things fun and not routine...At the beginning of the relationship it was all fun and flirty, now things are getting serious but I don't want conversations to be routine like the usual hi babe, how are you, wuu2 etc.

Going back to what he said, how can I make his 'mind tick' over text messaging? What are some things I can say/do?

Thanks for reading

I don't know how much fun you can have over texts, you can spice things up like inviting him for treks/ camps or a game of tennis or picking halloween pumpkins on bicycle etc outdoor stuff or even opera or plays or other events it usually keeps things from dying down out of boredom. my boyfriend and I used to jump fence into deserted houses and sneak to the roof and lie down to chat under stars.

BUT if you wanna stick to texts, then you can try sending him unexpected dirty jokes, discuss noir cinema or naughty facts or question him on his spiritual/ political/ moral beliefs and discuss it etc.

whatever be the case don't forget to keep it funny that's what would make most men's minds tick

Posted by Reincarnation
It means little.

He just wants to feel a connection. It's a water thing.

Ah, really!? I thought he meant something like mental stimulation...things that would make him think

How about refraining from texting especially mundane stuff. Just for a while. Allow yourselves to miss each other a bit. Simple but effective. It's tricky trying to establish any 'connection' via texting.

Posted by AgentP911
How about refraining from texting especially mundane stuff. Just for a while. Allow yourselves to miss each other a bit. Simple but effective. It's tricky trying to establish any 'connection' via texting.

I don't mind not texting but he usually messages me first. I don't want to be rude and not reply back plus he may find it offensive? We generally message everyday but don't reply instantly to one another, its whenever we are free.

We also don't talk on the phone everyday..I wouldn't like that if we did lol...its perhaps twice a week.

It's difficult as we see each other around once a week - usually the weekend. We both work full time and live approx. a hour/ a hour and a half away, so seeing each other during the week is a bit hard and that's maybe why he texts me frequently.

I'm a Pisces dating a Scorpio. We don't see each other often but text almost everyday. I see his initiation of interaction like waves from the ocean: deluge and recession.
I check in on the major things I know he's weighing in on;school or work. Send emails or links to topics we've talked about but I think letting him know I'm not going anywhere but not anticipating anything from him is the catch 22. I see when he's preparing for the deluge: plans dates, met his family and an influx of attention.
Funny thing is we haven't made it official verbally and I think that's what he's brooding on.

Take into consideration his Merc as well.
I'm a female Scorp, and while I do have a good amount of Scorp in my chart, I have a Merc in Libra, an air sign, so I tend to be more social and chatty than the average Scorp. I like to text a lot, talk on the phone, Skype, etc.

His moon is taurus and Mercury is scorpio. He does have a little air and fire in other aspects of his chart though.

I think he only calls/texts certain people he likes. He's not really into using his phone. I say that because one time we were together his phone battery had died, he said something along the lines of 'good my phones dead, I don't want to talk to anyone.' Lol.

We are not constantly texting. We prefer seeing each other face to face. He's the one who usually initiates the conversations via text/phonecalls.

I don't like texting all the time. I just like to check in on him and ask how he is and to have a good day etc. It's really the little things like that.