Scorpio & Virgo

Hello, I'm not really new to the site but this will be my first post. =)
I need help with a Scorpio woman I??ve met. There is a back story, so I do greatly appreciate anyone who??s willing to read through it all & still give advice.
I am a Virgo woman, broken up with a Taurus woman & have met an enticing Scorpio woman.
I met the Scorpio online while in a relationship with another girl, the Taurus. I didn't actively go online to do it. I had an account already & that's how I met the girlfriend I had at the time. I didn't like dating online, I was pretty much cutting the small talk & asking to meet up over a coffee if I knew for sure id want to meet them. But when this girl contacted me through it, it was at a time where I was fighting with my girlfriend and was feeling quite down. It wasn't working between us & I'm annoyed I didn't clue into that earlier. ANYWAY! She reached out to me and instead of talking about my problems, we focused on her. And she brought my spirits up. So we talked every now and then. Weeks in between, getting on with our lives, but still checking in with each other. I was still dating my girlfriend & slowly getting to know the girl, now on FB. I never went behind my girlfriends back to meet her. But we ended anyway. I was stupid enough to go back to her after she cheated on me & she still dumped me. SAYING I DESERVED BETTER. What gets to me about that is that I didn't care for her faults, id forgiven what she did & accepted who she was. This is a completely separate issue that I wont delve into anymore.
I pretty much broke down — took it hard. And this girl again, out of nowhere, reached out. Checked in with me. Mind you, she knows nothing of that relationship with the taurus, Id never vented to her about it.. kept our conversations pleasant. I knew i couldn't meet up with her & look into the idea of her & me, at a time like that. I wasn't ready. So I became —busy?? and didn't have time to see her when she asked a couple times. Instead I rebounded with other girls. I didn't like doing that. But it got me back from my slump and I felt better. I didn't hide what id been through to those girls, they deserved to know. I didn't want them to feel used, as most would after knowing they??re seeing someone fresh from a hard break up. I remained honest & am still friends with them, to an extent they were on the same page as me. I didn't want the Scorpio woman to be a rebound of something tragic. And

After a while, I decided to meet up with this girl. I was ready and didn't want to muck around anymore. So I asked her to a festival, and she was cool with it, we went with some of her friends. We met some guys at the place and I became quite friendly with one because of the mutual friends we had & talked about who we knew. I could feel her staring almost every time I had a conversation with him. At one point, she asked if I was gay & I gave her a blank, thinking —How on earth did we meet again— (Gay dating site)—Yes—? I said. It was so weird, it threw me off. Clearly I was doing something wrong. We got really close while dancing, touchy, feely, and flirtatious. But it went no further than that. A week past and I asked her out to a movie & drinks after. She agreed, and picked the movie. Through the duration of it, it felt like we were both reserved but there was still something there. At the end of the movie, I was excited for a drink, but she said she was tired & ended up calling it a night? Then she blew off the plans we had that following weekend to go clubbing with her mates, saying she felt sick and if she felt better the next day we??d hang out. No call or text the next day.. Then she fb messages a few days after asking to hang out. And then a week later, i asked her what she was doing & she invited me to a twister party. Which she then blew off to go to a mini festival. She asked me for advice about the festival and then was like —Oh do you want to come— ..So I ended up going with her n her mates. A conversation came up when her guy mate asked what we preferred, blondes or brunettes. We both said we were uninterested to dating blondes.. (IM BLONDE!?) Later in the night she was being really flirty. Asking to dance & being quite close like we were at the last festival. But when we all wound back at hers, early morning, I found myself sleeping on the couch, in her living room. I had to leave early morning, but came to the resolve that this was nothing more than a friendship and leave it. About a week later I came over when she had friends around & we weren't flirty at all. She wasn't flirting with anyone else & neither was I, and the evening had to end abruptly because of one of her friends and she was quick to sort out me getting home. No —Do you want to hang out and watch a movie anyway— type thing. I didn't want to start liking this girl more than I already had, so I decided to just not contact her. But she still wants

I didn't want to start liking this girl more than I already had, so I decided to just not contact her. But she still wants to hang out. I don't understand. She asked me to hang out yesterday, movie at hers & drinks. I said I couldn't but gave her the options of the next three days. She chose to hang out today. And now she can't because she is sick. I don't know whether to believe it or not.
I don't get want she wants. Reading back on this now, it seems she may only want a friendship. But we can get really flirty but nothing comes from it. And if I stop messaging, Ill still get a message from her, in the future, to hang out. What does she want from me? Is she playing a game? If she is, and ive heard Scorpios can play terrifically, then im out. Ive had my mind played with enough. Im not willing to play games for awhile.
A lot of feedback would be really helpful. I would just like to know if I stay and see where this is going or, perhaps I had it wrong from the beginning.
Please do let me know if it lacks depth, detail or just doesn't make sense & id be happy to clarify. =)

This is what you called KARMA!

plain and simple.. even if you were cheated it still doesnt give you a right to cheat too.

You deserve what you got.

Start over again with focusing on yourself.

Excuse me Libra, that being the first reply to my first post, I cannot help but be offended. Quote me where you think I've cheated. Are you implying the rebound girls?,
With whom knew wasn't exclusive and am still friends with because I was honest from the beginning. Please do explain your accusation and I'd be happy to explain . Being on the shit side of cheating, I really really loathe anyone that does.

"You deserve what you got"
You know what Libra? Don't worry about explaining yourself. You've completely misunderstood and I can't be bothered hashing out miscommunication with you.

"I met the Scorpio online while in a relationship with another girl, the Taurus."
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What does this mean then?

I was still dating my girlfriend & slowly getting to know the girl, now on FB.
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And this is considered already as emotional cheating.

maybe we have different standards of loyalty so maybe thats why you think i was harsh on my comment.. your on a forum anyways so your post was subjected to public opinions.

but imo you have messed situation and i dont think its a good time to even think of jumping on something you think isnt a good idea.

if you think this will be a mess than it will be mess.