Scorpio women -do you put out?

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Okay, first I want to put a foreword to this, I'm a woman too, and don't really like the term too much, but I'm don't know how else to phrase it. I guess my question is, how easily do you let a man into your privates, nevermind your private world? (we all know that world is reserved for special people most of the time). Do you mind if a guy is moving too fast for you, and if he does, does it really turn you off. do sex and emotions go together for you? I'm just curious. thanks scorps.
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Hey, now.... you don't let them get the goods until they earn the golden ticket...😉

Personally sex and emotions.... hell yeah of course they can mix.. in my world sex is a very spiritual and emotional thing. And sexy.

If I really like someone, obviously I am going to want to have sex with them.. if I had just met them, I would NEVER want to just have sex until I can completely trust them, and they got to be on the same wavelength as mine.

Moving too fast? Depends on what you mean. If I just met them, I don't mind making out if we're both attracted to each other, in fact I love it. But "let's have sex let's have sex" yeah kind of a turn off... makes me feel used. Also don't appreciate the lack of control and impatience.
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No i don't, but honestly i used to. Most Scorpios i know in fact do go through a "player phase" where they don't care about the emotions as much, they're just trying to get off with an attractive person. But in time life teaches them that being sexual is 10 times better if you are in love with the person. That's why so many of them start to be celibate after being a bit slutty, they realize that all they want is just to find love and sex can't really replace it no matter how attractive or how many partners they've had.
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Okay, first I want to put a foreword to this, I'm a woman too, and don't really like the term too much, but I'm don't know how else to phrase it. I guess my question is, how easily do you let a man into your privates, nevermind your private world? (we all know that world is reserved for special people most of the time). Do you mind if a guy is moving too fast for you, and if he does, does it really turn you off. do sex and emotions go together for you? I'm just curious. thanks scorps.



I have my own bubble my own space and I love that. When I'm getting to know a guy I tend to be on the observant stage. Its like I'm testing him.. asking him questions or seeing how he acts around me or in a situation. If the guy gets too clingy or forcing/ rushing me, I will back off and become cold.

When I am attracted to a guy physically and mentally feel that intense connection (which rarely happens), I will make a cheeky move. The more comforting he makes me feel, the more I would break that wall and let him in.
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I don't know.. I mean, I'm very loyal to a fault. I don't change partners just like that. I'm just now starting a serious relationship, and I've only had two of those before (I'm in my mid thirties), in fact I've had a steady partner for the past 13 years prior to this one. I only started having intimate relations with this most recent guy because I wanted him and so I had him sexually until he wanted me emotionally.

I think I only did it in this order because I had the intuition that I could pull it off. I tested another guy before him and sensed it wasn't going to work out between us and so I never got intimate with him (and thank god, I don't think I could handle another Aquarius and I'm so grateful for my Cancer guy, even though it was a couple of emotional months for me before he really let himself fall.)

If a guy sees me as a conquest I'm so turned off it's not even funny.

So really, it highly depends.