What does this Scorp guy want from me??

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Hello everyone. I really would like some insight from some other Scorpios. I've worked with this Scorp guy for around a year and a half. I would say we've become fairly good friends within that time, and I will admit I've developed a bit of a crush on him. The problem is, I can't figure out how he feels about me. He's definitely very flirty with me, example: he's said things like, "I bet you never have to pay for any drinks at the bar, all the guys get them for you", crap like that. He seems to have a soft spot for me, he'll drop whatever he's doing to come help me if I need it, and I can get away with things others wouldn't. (He's a shift leader) I catch him staring at me all the time, to the point where other coworkers frequently mention it to me. He'll be silly and do whatever to get me laughing, while being serious and kinda unapproachable towards others. Im basically the only person he'll talk to. He's opened up and told me some things that are very personal and will share his feelings and thoughts with me (not too much though😂) he'll stay past his shift so he can hang around me, and he hates when I talk to other male coworkers (one in particular) too much, to the point where he'll shut down and ignore me/be snippy the rest of the night. Or he'll make snarky comments about the other guy to me, making fun of them basically. He tells me how nice I am to have around, how he doesn't deserve someone like me. However, there's days where he acts like I don't exist, as if I'm annoying the hell out of him by just speaking to him. This will last a week or two, then he's back to his old self. I don't get why he's so hot and cold. So really I wanna know, does he just wanna be friends? More than that? There's just a sweetness to him that I really only see, and everyone else thinks he's weird, creepy, or a dick. I'd appreciate any insight into helping understand him better!
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Hello everyone. I really would like some insight from some other Scorpios. I've worked with this Scorp guy for around a year and a half. I would say we've become fairly good friends within that time, and I will admit I've developed a bit of a crush on him. The problem is, I can't figure out how he feels about me. He's definitely very flirty with me, example: he's said things like, "I bet you never have to pay for any drinks at the bar, all the guys get them for you", crap like that. He seems to have a soft spot for me, he'll drop whatever he's doing to come help me if I need it, and I can get away with things others wouldn't. (He's a shift leader) I catch him staring at me all the time, to the point where other coworkers frequently mention it to me. He'll be silly and do whatever to get me laughing, while being serious and kinda unapproachable towards others. Im basically the only person he'll talk to. He's opened up and told me some things that are very personal and will share his feelings and thoughts with me (not too much though😂) he'll stay past his shift so he can hang around me, and he hates when I talk to other male coworkers (one in particular) too much, to the point where he'll shut down and ignore me/be snippy the rest of the night. Or he'll make snarky comments about the other guy to me, making fun of them basically. He tells me how nice I am to have around, how he doesn't deserve someone like me. However, there's days where he acts like I don't exist, as if I'm annoying the hell out of him by just speaking to him. This will last a week or two, then he's back to his old self. I don't get why he's so hot and cold. So really I wanna know, does he just wanna be friends? More than that? There's just a sweetness to him that I really only see, and everyone else thinks he's weird, creepy, or a dick. I'd appreciate any insight into helping understand him better!

Lol everyone else thinks he is a dik?

Anyway I dont think he has a crush on you, just flirty

Whats ur sign
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Yeah lol he's not super chatty with others so I think it's mistaken as him being rude. I'm an aries
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doodlestrudel12
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Posted by dilettante

well first thing: scorpios are moody. if he is acting like you annoy the hell outta him & there was genuinely no reason... it isnt you, it’s just a mood he’s in. we are, generally, brooders. don’t take our moods personally. in fact, this is something i tell most dudes when i start hanging out with them romantically. “if i am brooding, it probably isn’t you. i am very moody.”

it sounds like he likes you? romantically, i dunno. however, i do find that if a dude is talking about his emotions, he is likely interested.

it would be best if we knew his chart. i have a lot of air so i talk about my emotions a lot & dudes tend to confuse that as me being interested in them. they mistake emotionality for romantic intimacy.


Here's his chart:

Rising: Sagittarius

Sun: Scorpio

Moon: Pisces

Mercury: Scorpio

Venus: Libra

Mars: Virgo
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Posted by doodlestrudel12 I'm an aries

SSSSKKKKRRRTTTTT!!!!!!

danger zone, you are approaching a danger zone. unless he has strong fire placements, or you, water, this will be a HUGE trash fire.

tread lightly, my friend. this can be a v painful & disastrous combo.
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Yeah I've heard it can be a real shit show. If it helps, this is our charts:



His-

Rising: Sagittarius

Sun: Scorpio

Moon: Pisces

Mercury: Scorpio

Venus: Libra

Mars: Virgo

Mine-

Rising: Sagittarius

Sun: Aries

Moon: Virgo

Mercury: Pisces

Venus: Aries

Mars: Cancer
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Posted by dilettante
Posted by doodlestrudel12
Posted by dilettante
Posted by doodlestrudel12 I'm an aries

SSSSKKKKRRRTTTTT!!!!!!

danger zone, you are approaching a danger zone. unless he has strong fire placements, or you, water, this will be a HUGE trash fire.

tread lightly, my friend. this can be a v painful & disastrous combo.

Yeah I've heard it can be a real shit show. If it helps, this is our charts:



His-

Rising: Sagittarius

Sun: Scorpio

Moon: Pisces

Mercury: Scorpio

Venus: Libra

Mars: Virgo

Mine-

Rising: Sagittarius

Sun: Aries

Moon: Virgo

Mercury: Pisces

Venus: Aries

Mars: Cancer

ok, this isnt the worst i’ve ever seen. this could actually be ok.

his moon sign is what makes me worry lol

just beware that you may be too direct for his sensitive ass moon.
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yeah i think ive hurt his feelings a couple of times already lol but he seems to get over it 😂
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Posted by Phantom_Dangus

I have seen Scorpio men act this way with women when they didn't want anything at all except to be the guy she liked and talked to most in that environment.

Thank god I never ever let scorpio man in.

This some kind of crazy level.

Or maybe just selfish. Or maybe they changed their minds. Who knows?
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Maybe 😅