What if I can't get over him?

Hi. It's been 2 months since I cut all communication with a Scorpio dude that sometimes gave me signs of interest. He always made an effort to talk to me and acted really sweet and caring around me. However, I decided to pull away from him because I realized he was chasing another girl at the same time he was talking to me. So I took that as a bad sign because I don't like playing games. The problem is that I really miss talking to him!!!! I feel so DEPRESSED. I thought it was going to be easy to forget about him and move on but I can't because all I do is think about him. I felt a strong connection with this Scorpio and I feel bad letting him go without even knowing what his true intentions were and if that other girl means anything to him or he's just flirty with her. Should I continue with my plan of getting over him (even though my heart is aching) or continue talking to him but try to keep my distance? I think by doing that I can be more mysterious and he'll be able to figure out what he's looking for since I'm giving him space to miss me. I think he's worth having as a friend but since I like him I don't want to get my hopes up either. What's the best thing to do?

I dont think I read anywhere that said u two were in an relationship...why cause yourself pain over sumthin that doesnt belong to u? Continue to talk to him if he makes u that happy..U only live once. Go nuts

Youre welcome 🙂

Posted by Ellygant
Oh wait you guys never actually dated?

I need to not speed read so much when there aren't paragraph breaks. Whoops.

If you never made any interest clear and y'all were just a casual flirtation then for sure ask him to coffee or something, if he doesn't have a girlfriend.

I've belittled more than a few DXPers from "speed reading" lol I had to cut that out..

Posted by purplekitty88
Hi. It's been 2 months since I cut all communication with a Scorpio dude that sometimes gave me signs of interest. He always made an effort to talk to me and acted really sweet and caring around me. However, I decided to pull away from him because I realized he was chasing another girl at the same time he was talking to me. So I took that as a bad sign because I don't like playing games. The problem is that I really miss talking to him!!!! I feel so DEPRESSED. I thought it was going to be easy to forget about him and move on but I can't because all I do is think about him. I felt a strong connection with this Scorpio and I feel bad letting him go without even knowing what his true intentions were and if that other girl means anything to him or he's just flirty with her. Should I continue with my plan of getting over him (even though my heart is aching) or continue talking to him but try to keep my distance? I think by doing that I can be more mysterious and he'll be able to figure out what he's looking for since I'm giving him space to miss me. I think he's worth having as a friend but since I like him I don't want to get my hopes up either. What's the best thing to do?

Get a fidget spinner and move on 🙂

I think you should continue with honoring your flawlessly mature intuition. You are going thru the 5 stages of grief; right now it sounds like you may be bouncing from bargaining to depression and then back to denial, anger and then acceptance. Try not to let your fluctuating emotions interfere with the decisions that comes from clear-thinking and rational logical reasoning.

Things to consider... how strongly is he showing an effort to connect with you again since you have withdrawn? Also how is it that you have the time to think about him all day are you currently working or in school maybe you need something to do cuz I noticed that as soon as I work my mind is not on that situation at all!

Go easy on yourself and be patient with yourself maybe you just love a little stronger deeper and real than a lot of people so when you create a bonded long lasting give yourself some time.

Nope! We haven't dated. This is only the initial stages of him persuing me but he hasn't asked me out. I don't feel comfortable making the first move because I did that once and I didn't had luck.

I'm just so sad right now 😢

I don't know how I'll move on. He's one of those guys that are rare to find because we get along so well. But being in competition with other girls sucks and that's how I feel

Posted by purplekitty88
Nope! We haven't dated. This is only the initial stages of him persuing me but he hasn't asked me out. I don't feel comfortable making the first move because I did that once and I didn't had luck.

I'm just so sad right now 😢

I don't know how I'll move on. He's one of those guys that are rare to find because we get along so well. But being in competition with other girls sucks and that's how I feel

No offense but this has to be one of the dumbest things I ever read...