What is it about gemini girls....

I can't seem to get along with them. All my experiences with them have been bad. I've had 2 gemini girls try and take past boyfriends away and i'm currently dealing with one now. She's a real pain in the ass and i can see through EVERYTHING she is doing. If she thinks i can't...shes kidding herself. No offense to any gemini girls who are on these boards but ....bloody hell...are they always so competitive when it comes to guys?...there is something about them i dont trust. Even when they are being nice...it's seems so sly and fake. the only one i do get along with is my niece and she's 3! lol

Posted by Scorpchick
I can't seem to get along with them. All my experiences with them have been bad. I've had 2 gemini girls try and take past boyfriends away and i'm currently dealing with one now. She's a real pain in the ass and i can see through EVERYTHING she is doing. If she thinks i can't...shes kidding herself. No offense to any gemini girls who are on these boards but ....bloody hell...are they always so competitive when it comes to guys?...there is something about them i dont trust. Even when they are being nice...it's seems so sly and fake. the only one i do get along with is my niece and she's 3! lol

She's not being competitive, she wouldve just been flexing her muscles. They tend to do that. But being die hard romantics (at least I am), we find it adorable if the guy starts to ignore us of become uncomfortable because he has a girlfriend. We will then befriend the guy and genuinely want to know more about the relationship, and they are now in "friend" zone. But their idea of friendships are sometimes too much for girlfriends, because we then become one of the guys, and may become a bit physical, or not think twice if its just them and us late at night. To us, its innocent so wtf?

PS: We get into trouble with our own boyfriends for this too.
And its not sly or fake, its the fact that we're going full on for a guy we don't even care about that throws scorpios off. Relax though, if your man makes it clear he's taken, she will back off. If she didn't he didn't tell her (who's fault is that?) or he seemed unhappy with you and led her on.

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Posted by Scorpchick
I can't seem to get along with them. All my experiences with them have been bad. I've had 2 gemini girls try and take past boyfriends away and i'm currently dealing with one now. She's a real pain in the ass and i can see through EVERYTHING she is doing. If she thinks i can't...shes kidding herself. No offense to any gemini girls who are on these boards but ....bloody hell...are they always so competitive when it comes to guys?...there is something about them i dont trust. Even when they are being nice...it's seems so sly and fake. the only one i do get along with is my niece and she's 3! lol

She's not being competitive, she wouldve just been flexing her muscles. They tend to do that. But being die hard romantics (at least I am), we find it adorable if the guy starts to ignore us of become uncomfortable because he has a girlfriend. We will then befriend the guy and genuinely want to know more about the relationship, and they are now in "friend" zone. But their idea of friendships are sometimes too much for girlfriends, because we then become one of the guys, and may become a bit physical, or not think twice if its just them and us late at night. To us, its innocent so wtf?
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You know, with geminis and aquas there is always the whole fake, shallow, superficial label thrown around. I've learnt on this forum a well as in real life that some people only see what they want to see.

This is in no way aimed at scorpios or scorpiochick herself, who's feelings on the matter are jusifiable.

Sometimes when I try to put people at ease TO PUT MYSELF AT EASE some translate it as being fake or having an ulterior motive (Who the f**k doesn't have an ulterior motive in interactions, anyway? Even jolly old "I'm not a threat" pisces hae ulterior motives).

I keep it saying it though, some just don't realise you've got a bad side as larger-than-life as your good one.

With these people you can only make one first impression. Which is sad. And of course, their loss.

"some just don't realise you've got a bad side as larger than life as your good one"

And vice versa.

Which is dumb if you think about it. Wouldn't you rather see a person's flaws and accept them right then and there for who they are knowing you can easily walk away from them (as some specific air and water signs are notorious for doing) later on down the line...

...than have your vision clouded by thir good side and then have the bad sprung on you much later on when you're emotionaly invested in these people?

Ah well...

Posted by &2gedanow

Wouldn't you rather see a person's flaws and accept them right then and there for who they are knowing you can easily walk away from them (as some specific air and water signs are notorious for doing) later on down the line...

Okay so I'm just gonna go ahead and add "If they don't change" to the end of that sentence there.

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Posted by &2gedanow

You know, with geminis and aquas there is always the whole fake, shallow, superficial label thrown around. I've learnt on this forum a well as in real life that some people only see what they want to see.

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I've always wondered what that means, you know.

Does it hve something to do with closing a thread or...?

Posted by Scorpchick
I can't seem to get along with them. All my experiences with them have been bad. I've had 2 gemini girls try and take past boyfriends away and i'm currently dealing with one now. She's a real pain in the ass and i can see through EVERYTHING she is doing. If she thinks i can't...shes kidding herself. No offense to any gemini girls who are on these boards but ....bloody hell...are they always so competitive when it comes to guys?...there is something about them i dont trust. Even when they are being nice...it's seems so sly and fake. the only one i do get along with is my niece and she's 3! lol

I was raised by a gem mom, one of my bookclub members is a gem, spent 2 years with a gem man, and one special gem that I don't see but communicate often.

Then there is my sons Godmother (sigh)I cut her off after a headed argument. Not to mention, she has way to much drama in her life. She is 40 was married for 15 yrs and just got divorce about 3 years ago. She has been off the hook since. She was the one that pressured me to meet the gem I dated for 2 yrs.

I remeber when we talked after the first blind date she set me up with the Gem. I told her I would say thank you if it works and take her out to dinner. She still has not got a thank you and I don't even talk to her anymore. I have cut her off. And the Gem Man periodically ask me have I spoke with her. And I always say. "No, I cut her off"

With that being said I can only say the older gem women are much more calmer and relaxed. They no longer feel the need to run the streets. And they all have a special man in their life that they freely show affection in public.

I'm a Cancer and don't like them either. They are very manipulative, and I find them to be insecure regardless of being an air sign and very intelligent and blah blah blah. I see the insecurity and need for attention and validation.