What the hell do I do!? (Scorp man/ Virgo woman)

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girlnobody
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13 Years

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I met a scorpio in the summer. We hit it off, hung out, slept together (for a month) etc. He told me from the get go that he had committed to being single for a set length of time and I was of the same mind too. I'm a virgo, so I'm rather prudent and polite at first, but it didn't take long for him to wear down that shell and the raw passion to come out of me. Something about him collapsed my walls quickly. Now given what he had said about the single thing, and the fact that I was starting to develop feelings for him, I began to retreat. I felt like I was being clingy. He never said that, but this is where the lines blur. Around the end of the summer he became hostile to me, out of what seemed like nowhere. Now I??ve read that when a scorp man does that, you??ve already done something to cause that reaction and its usually too late. I reacted by pretending I wasn't hurt, and turning on him too. We would still see each other out but it was about as cold as 2 old high school rivals crossing paths. Months later, I called him out on it and we actually kind of laid that to rest or so it seemed, but the commitment to —single?? came up in convo again and once again I told him that I wasn't trying to come in and ruin his plans. I felt he was being genuine, so he likely was. It felt good and we continued to hang out the rest of the night at a party. A week later, we were at a friend??s house, and this guy came in. I was attracted to him, but I develop little crushes often. We began chatting each other up, and the scorpio one got flirty with me at one point and in what seemed like reverse psychology kept telling me to —go to my boy?? (the new one I had been chatting with). Even at one point takes it upon himself to tell this new guy he needs to know what buttons of mine to push. Now we've been out before, and I??ve straight up seen him turn away when I hug a guy. This new guy and I have started seeing each other, but the shit part is I cannot get the Scorpio out of my head, and it's been this way for months. Every time I'm in the same room as him its electric. Im dating someone cause I'm trying to move on, and feel for someone agan cause it's always seemed like this scorpio I'm in love with doesn't want me. I'm worried what if he really did feel something for me, maybe even felt like we could get back to level after that talk, then I go and start dating someone and he's jealous, hurt, who knows. I don't know what the hell to d
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We have a tendency to leave a lasting impression on the opposite sex for years! Some good impressions, sometimes horrible impressions. Either way, we can become the never ending story. "Its Hard to move on to the next one, When you always regret one - J.Cole"
You should get some type of closer with this Scorpio. Send him a email or a novel text explaining how you feel. Say every single thing you feel don't hold nothing back. Don't talk about wanting to get him back, don't jeopardize your new relationship. Just let him know you feel about him and how his still on your mental. He most likely has been thinking about you too. You will feel better about getting it off your chest trust me. I bet you'll be able to move on and move past this old fling. I can almost guarantee he is a little hurt and jealous. He wanted you to choose him, but we have such a big ego that we won't come out and say it.