A fool in love or just a fool?

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I have been dating this Gemini for 2 1/2 years. He declares his love for me but I have caught him cheating on me twice since we have been dating. Taking him back was completely out of my nature. (That's when I knew how hard I had fallen for him). Our signs are not compatable according to any chart but it hurts to be with him and it hurts to be without him. Our relationship has lasted longer than any he has ever had and we've experienced things that we never had in any past relationships. I feel like I can't control my money since I've been with him because he makes me feel so free. There's so many things that I love about him. I'm not perfect either. Do I need to have more patience or get out of it?
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Your situation sounds so familiar to me. This was once me. I had to come to the realization that I was worth more and worthy of someone who could love me and be faithful to me ONLY! You will get tired soon (unless you are a soul that loves drama) and kick him to the curb. If you caught your man cheating, not once, but twice, what makes you think he is going to stop? You yourself sald that it hurts to be with him and without him. If fidelity and a mutually trusting relationship is what your are seeking, I don't think you'll find it here. If you are seeking fun and good times, then this may be the place for you. My advice is to dump him....but you and only you have to make that decision and stick with it. Love yourself more.
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I understand what you are going through.
I am in a similar situation. I have been a relationship for 7 years and now seperated for 1 year. They do not change. You just learn to put up with more. It was one of the hardest things
I have ever done...leaving someone you love. A year later, I still love him and he is still dating other women. At least now I do not have to go through all the agony that I went through when we were together and he cheated.
Let him go, he doesn't deserve you.
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That is strange..I hope not all Geminis are the same..this guy is headover heels in love with me....and he's sweet..but I'm scared of the idea he could cheat on me anytime. Right now he claims his sister is visting him..and he now doesn't have time to return my sms or talk to me on the phone. We did talk for a little while but something was very strange. I really don't need this right now in my life..I have sacrafised my old relationship. Someone who cares much about me. For someone who might now care but later get bored. I told this Germini If his love is strong enough & true..then it will be possible us to be in a good relationship.
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You can't assume all Gemini men are all the same. I do know this...flattery gets them everywhere and they know it. I am a Taurus and my boyfriend is a Gemini. We went through what I consider to be HELL at first. Now we respect each other greatly and plan on a wonderful future together. My gemini and I had to experience some growing pains. He had to mature and I had to learn to be woman enough to speak up for what is right and risk letting him go if things were not working out right. Get to know him...actually both of them! You'll see what I mean if you don't already know.
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I have been dating this Gemini for 2 1/2 years. He declares his love for me but I have caught him cheating on me twice since we have been dating. Taking him back was completely out of my nature. (That's when I knew how hard I had fallen for him). Our signs are not compatable according to any chart but it hurts to be with him and it hurts to be without him. Our relationship has lasted longer than any he has ever had and we've experienced things that we never had in any past relationships. I feel like I can't control my money since I've been with him because he makes me feel so free. There's so many things that I love about him. I'm not perfect either. Do I need to have more patience or get out of it?
Yes I think you should have more patience. Are you still with him?
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I have been dating this Gemini for 2 1/2 years. He declares his love for me but I have caught him cheating on me twice since we have been dating. Taking him back was completely out of my nature. (That's when I knew how hard I had fallen for him). Our signs are not compatable according to any chart but it hurts to be with him and it hurts to be without him. Our relationship has lasted longer than any he has ever had and we've experienced things that we never had in any past relationships. I feel like I can't control my money since I've been with him because he makes me feel so free. There's so many things that I love about him. I'm not perfect either. Do I need to have more patience or get out of it?
Yes I think you should have more patience. Are you still with him?
Lol 16yrs later...

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I have been dating this Gemini for 2 1/2 years. He declares his love for me but I have caught him cheating on me twice since we have been dating. Taking him back was completely out of my nature. (That's when I knew how hard I had fallen for him). Our signs are not compatable according to any chart but it hurts to be with him and it hurts to be without him. Our relationship has lasted longer than any he has ever had and we've experienced things that we never had in any past relationships. I feel like I can't control my money since I've been with him because he makes me feel so free. There's so many things that I love about him. I'm not perfect either. Do I need to have more patience or get out of it?
Yes I think you should have more patience. Are you still with him?
Lol 16yrs later...


Do you think she is still with him?


Nope

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Hummm I think they are still together...
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I have been dating this Gemini for 2 1/2 years. He declares his love for me but I have caught him cheating on me twice since we have been dating. Taking him back was completely out of my nature. (That's when I knew how hard I had fallen for him). Our signs are not compatable according to any chart but it hurts to be with him and it hurts to be without him. Our relationship has lasted longer than any he has ever had and we've experienced things that we never had in any past relationships. I feel like I can't control my money since I've been with him because he makes me feel so free. There's so many things that I love about him. I'm not perfect either. Do I need to have more patience or get out of it?
Yes I think you should have more patience. Are you still with him?
Lol 16yrs later...


Do you think she is still with him?


Nope


Hummm I think they are still together...


After taking him back twice after cheating I guess anything is possible. 😛

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Let's hear from her. She probably got a notification to her email account.

Let's wait...
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I have been dating this Gemini for 2 1/2 years. He declares his love for me but I have caught him cheating on me twice since we have been dating. Taking him back was completely out of my nature. (That's when I knew how hard I had fallen for him). Our signs are not compatable according to any chart but it hurts to be with him and it hurts to be without him. Our relationship has lasted longer than any he has ever had and we've experienced things that we never had in any past relationships. I feel like I can't control my money since I've been with him because he makes me feel so free. There's so many things that I love about him. I'm not perfect either. Do I need to have more patience or get out of it?
Yes I think you should have more patience. Are you still with him?
Lol 16yrs later...


Do you think she is still with him?


Nope


Hummm I think they are still together...


After taking him back twice after cheating I guess anything is possible. 😛


Let's hear from her. She probably got a notification to her email account.

Let's wait...
Why on earth are you interested in a 16yr old thread. Lol.

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I'm curious.
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I have been dating this Gemini for 2 1/2 years. He declares his love for me but I have caught him cheating on me twice since we have been dating. Taking him back was completely out of my nature. (That's when I knew how hard I had fallen for him). Our signs are not compatable according to any chart but it hurts to be with him and it hurts to be without him. Our relationship has lasted longer than any he has ever had and we've experienced things that we never had in any past relationships. I feel like I can't control my money since I've been with him because he makes me feel so free. There's so many things that I love about him. I'm not perfect either. Do I need to have more patience or get out of it?
Yes I think you should have more patience. Are you still with him?
Lol 16yrs later...


Do you think she is still with him?


Nope


Hummm I think they are still together...


After taking him back twice after cheating I guess anything is possible. 😛


Let's hear from her. She probably got a notification to her email account.

Let's wait...
Why on earth are you interested in a 16yr old thread. Lol.


I'm curious.
What for? Curious on why you're curious. 😛

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You seem to be a very curious person...

I still know what you did last year.
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I have been dating this Gemini for 2 1/2 years. He declares his love for me but I have caught him cheating on me twice since we have been dating. Taking him back was completely out of my nature. (That's when I knew how hard I had fallen for him). Our signs are not compatable according to any chart but it hurts to be with him and it hurts to be without him. Our relationship has lasted longer than any he has ever had and we've experienced things that we never had in any past relationships. I feel like I can't control my money since I've been with him because he makes me feel so free. There's so many things that I love about him. I'm not perfect either. Do I need to have more patience or get out of it?
Yes I think you should have more patience. Are you still with him?
Lol 16yrs later...


Do you think she is still with him?


Nope


Hummm I think they are still together...


After taking him back twice after cheating I guess anything is possible. 😛


Let's hear from her. She probably got a notification to her email account.

Let's wait...
Why on earth are you interested in a 16yr old thread. Lol.


I'm curious.
What for? Curious on why you're curious. 😛


You seem to be a very curious person...

I still know what you did last year.


Well I am. 😛

And what was that?

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I'll tell you in 16 years when I bring this thread up again.
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I have been dating this Gemini for 2 1/2 years. He declares his love for me but I have caught him cheating on me twice since we have been dating. Taking him back was completely out of my nature. (That's when I knew how hard I had fallen for him). Our signs are not compatable according to any chart but it hurts to be with him and it hurts to be without him. Our relationship has lasted longer than any he has ever had and we've experienced things that we never had in any past relationships. I feel like I can't control my money since I've been with him because he makes me feel so free. There's so many things that I love about him. I'm not perfect either. Do I need to have more patience or get out of it?
Yes I think you should have more patience. Are you still with him?
Lol 16yrs later...


Do you think she is still with him?


Nope


Hummm I think they are still together...


After taking him back twice after cheating I guess anything is possible. 😛


Let's hear from her. She probably got a notification to her email account.

Let's wait...
Why on earth are you interested in a 16yr old thread. Lol.


I'm curious.
What for? Curious on why you're curious. 😛


You seem to be a very curious person...

I still know what you did last year.


Well I am. 😛

And what was that?


I'll tell you in 16 years when I bring this thread up again.
We might be dead in 16yrs. 😛

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Not really. I have a plan.
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I have been dating this Gemini for 2 1/2 years. He declares his love for me but I have caught him cheating on me twice since we have been dating. Taking him back was completely out of my nature. (That's when I knew how hard I had fallen for him). Our signs are not compatable according to any chart but it hurts to be with him and it hurts to be without him. Our relationship has lasted longer than any he has ever had and we've experienced things that we never had in any past relationships. I feel like I can't control my money since I've been with him because he makes me feel so free. There's so many things that I love about him. I'm not perfect either. Do I need to have more patience or get out of it?
Yes I think you should have more patience. Are you still with him?
Lol 16yrs later...


Do you think she is still with him?


Nope


Hummm I think they are still together...


After taking him back twice after cheating I guess anything is possible. 😛


Let's hear from her. She probably got a notification to her email account.

Let's wait...
Why on earth are you interested in a 16yr old thread. Lol.


I'm curious.
What for? Curious on why you're curious. 😛


You seem to be a very curious person...

I still know what you did last year.


Well I am. 😛

And what was that?


I'll tell you in 16 years when I bring this thread up again.
We might be dead in 16yrs. 😛


Not really. I have a plan.


I know what your plan is.

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Was it horrible? How was he with you when you were together?

My Taurus has been in love with me for sometime and we got together 8 months back and we were so great together!!! I expected him to get bored of me or something but things got even better which is unbelievable but recently I messed up and things went downhill. And he had to move to NY and we didn't get a chance to meet after the big misunderstanding 😢

He refuses to get into an argument with me, wouldn't discuss what happened and ends it with something like, " Let's not fight" "Anything for you" "I don't wanna talk about it " Man, he is so stubborn!!


Hi so you still haven't kissed and made up, you guys been together for a while?
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Was it horrible? How was he with you when you were together?

My Taurus has been in love with me for sometime and we got together 8 months back and we were so great together!!! I expected him to get bored of me or something but things got even better which is unbelievable but recently I messed up and things went downhill. And he had to move to NY and we didn't get a chance to meet after the big misunderstanding 😢

He refuses to get into an argument with me, wouldn't discuss what happened and ends it with something like, " Let's not fight" "Anything for you" "I don't wanna talk about it " Man, he is so stubborn!!


Hi so you still haven't kissed and made up, you guys been together for a while?

I would love to kiss and make up/make out :p

I'm so bored without him.... Can't believe I got addicted to a Taurus!! Lmao No offends you guys are great and all but I like being so random and this is different. Being without him is very depressing and I can't believe he left!

I can't believe he left without seeing me.... I am so gonna use this , " You remember the time you left without saying bye to me...." to get everything from him! Okie I'm kidding... Not!

If he were to fight with me, then I can be the crazy girl, take a flight to that country and drop in at his work place and kick him on his arse and get right back to my country.... And I won't even speak a word to him.



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I'm good hun. I'm getting my windshield replacement today they come to me to do it. Maybe it would be a fine handyman as well. Lol.
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What have you been up to are you ready for Christmas?

You are naughty! Maybe he will be a cute handyman lol



Idk what to do for Christmas..... Spend it with my guy's parents. He has said he will visit me but hasn't confirmed! It will be horrible to be alone on Christmas eve 😢

I need to buy gifts!!!

And you? Busy shopping?

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I'm working that entire weekend holiday and get holiday pay both days Eve and Day. And I also work New year eve and day. But my vacation is coming soon and I'm trying to get my braces on while on vacation. Are you cooking me anything FedEx Shipping.