Are tauruse having good days lately?

Just wondering... whats happening?

Ok. Ok. Yes, Tauruse is having happy days.

Not me! Well things are not going the way I've planned them for at least a year now. But, you know how us TAuruses are. We will prevail!

I truly hope Taurus prevails -- and soon! I have a special male friend (out of state) and we suddenly lost contact with each other. I do miss him. He suggested we give it a rest, probably due to the fact that he is going through major life changes --career/divorce, so right now I guess I don't fit into his life at the moment. I hope we reconnect again one day soon. I don't think Taurus people are one to forget special people that come into their lives (especially once they have stated that to a person), but I could be wrong.

Hope your well soon.

Aries female

You're not wrong Aries female. Taurus people never FORGET people that touched their lives. He probably needs to get things straight in his head and in the right prospective and if your relationship was good and secure he'll reconnect with you.

Thanks but right now I'm having one of my impatient moments; It bothers me that he hasen't been in my life -- and has stopped communicating with me for three months now. Yes I'm aware of his career/divorce problems and he needs to get his life straight -- and perhaps I don't fit into his life at the moment but I feel like telling him he is a bit of an a** for not giving me a true explanation. Ok -- he has told me I'm special, but if I am, why state "we should give each other a break"?

I'm not one to take things personal but what choice do I have as the months go by? I truly miss him. Maybe I'm too there for him and he definitely knows of my feelings for him and he may not be ready for someone like me in his life.

So -- do I go off on him a bit or bite my tongue and wait for him to come to me. We were speaking (phone, chatting everyday) because we live in different states and cannot see each other at this time.

I don't want to be taken advantage of.

I know what you mean. I have a relationship with a taurus male and when we're together it's sooo good, then he disappears for like weeks. He says he needs to get his head straight and that he likes me a lot. His mother passed last year. he is raising his son with the mother but they are not together and he has problems trying to see his son cause the mother and him don't get along well. and he out of work right now. That's enough on anybody's plate to get their head straight. but I know he loves me and when taurus people are not stable in their minds, they withdraw within themselves. I konw when things straighen up for him, we'll be together cause he is consistent when involved with me and his focus on me is sooo strong. he knows things about me without me tellin' him. So dear, it probably has nothing to do with you, but a lot of things are going on with your friend at the moment with divorce, etc. But what I need to know to make a clear picture is 1) that when he IS around you. are you two CLOSE. cause if he has the slightest doubts (cause taurus people PONDER a lot and a long time)about you and the relationship he will not let you into his world cause he won't feel secure and safe with you. 2) Did you two have a discussion about each other SERIOUSLY, on how you feel your life's plans, etc. or are you two just "friends" but you want more and he is unaware of it. you must tell him your feelings cause he'll never know.

Hi,

Thanks for your reply. I'm aware it's all him at the moment but right now, all we have is phone and chatting because we just got reconnected with each other -- we have not seen each other in years.

I believe he knows I want more than friendship because about four months ago, he said to me, "You want more". I didn't deny it --but I didn't come out and admit it either; I was afraid to because about eight months ago, he would get all irritated when I mentioned it -- as he stated at that time he just wanted to be friends. Maybe he's been thinking more and that's why he brought it up first but I don't know if a Taurus male works that way.

Anyhow, things have changed between us since then. He now realizes I'm something long term; he has told me I'm special. But I think it's more frustrating on his end -- especially going through a divorce. He probably isn't ready for anything long term. And don't forget we have another strike against us -- we live far apart. Maybe he views me as too much effort and his suggestion of taking a break was a way of saying goodbye. I don't know

But this is happening for a reason -- as most things do. And a person cannot come to another unless their heart is healed. My guess is that he's having a difficult time letting go of his previous relationship.

If we are meant to be it will happen. I'm so tired of worrying about it but at times, I do want to get in touch with him but not sure if it's the right thing to do. He is aware I truly care for him as I did tell him that.

Thanks again.

Frustrated Aries woman

Sorry...one more thing. He has told me he really trusts me too and he doesn't trust many people so I would say your right about him getting his life together and that my heart is telling me the right thing. I don't believe he has doubts of me at all.

I wanted to say as well, I hope yours works out too. He sounds like he's got a lot on his plate and a lot of issues to deal with but sometimes the struggles and the wait we go through is worth it in the end.

Thanks.