Aries man cant make me happy.

I'm on the verge of breaking up with him - we've been in a long distance relationship for almost two years. At first - it was great; he always talked about me to his family and friends, never got too jealous, wrote me romantic letters, did whatever i wanted: say if i wanted to play a game - he did just that, more open about his day. Now, his attitude is dull towards me .. he no longer gets excited about speaking with me, I don't get random phone calls during the day, he doesn't talk to me around his friends, won't live with me even after years of being with one another, gets upset if a guy comments on my facebook, makes excuses as to why he doesnt pick up (mostly eating or shower). He used to always shower me with attention, now I feel like a little lost puppy with no where to go for comfort (which is why I'm writing this). I'm lonely, depressed, and clueless as to what to do. I've broken up with him so many times, however, I get very upset and always go back to him. Am I insane? I don't know what to do.

"Aries man cant make me happy"


brights is supposed to make brights happy. You are headed into dangerous territory if you need another person to make you happy.

Obviously cuddling and other x-rated stuff makes you happy - I am talking about the happy on the inside stuff.

An Aries can be your cheerleader, your clown, your pick up when you're feeling down, your moral support when no one else will stick with you, but we can't fix the inside stuff. That's your job.

We can take care of pretty much everything else tho.

I think it has a lot to do with the fact this is a long distance relationship. It becomes a safe fantasy that he doesn't have the gumption to make a reality. That's the problem with meeting online and long distance. Words are easy, actions to make it real is more difficult.

The point is, if/when you meet someone under these circumstances, treat them like a friend and don't get too involved because you really don't know who he is. All the info you get from him is what he's willing to tell you. He could be married, much older or uglier or otherwise involved. Long distance can work if you meet asap and make it a priority to be with each other asap.
Two years is way too long for this to drag out without meeting him. Or did you? Still, you don' t know even if he did visit you what is going on with him personally in his home town. Too many men use online as a way of escape from bad relationships even if they won't leave them. Don't be his escape and take care of yourself first. If he isn't making an effort to be with you then move on and date truly available men in your city.

Well its been 2 years... realistically he can't stay exactly the same as the beginning. My guess is there is someone else - it's just too easy to cheat in a LDR. Also, the fact you broke up with him many times and then go back to him... seems like you're playing a game. Aries has a huge ego, and if you're going to dump him and then come crawling back.. well they're going to lose respect for you and their heart will grow colder towards you.

Does anyone else think Mistery is really Yoda?

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
brights is supposed to make brights happy.

Posted by Mistery
I think it has a lot to do with the fact this is a long distance relationship.

Posted by firewaterair
Aries has a huge ego. They're going to lose respect for you and their heart will grow colder towards you if you're going to dump him and then come crawling back.

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Yoda

Posted by Lady Aries
Smores

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^^^ I think we've summed it all up.

Posted by ReallyNiceAriesPerson
Does anyone else think Mistery is really Yoda?

Thank you, my best I do. 😛