Confused by his actions!! HELP

Hello all. I am a libra female in love with a Taurus man. I'm 29 and he's 34 if that helps. I'm going to try to make this story short. We have been dating for a year and a few months. And I fell madly in love with him. When we first got together neither one of us wanted a relationship. He just went through a divorce and I went through a similar situation. So I thought we were on common ground. Well he has taken me to a guys house that hooked up with right before him (hey I do have needs). Oh yeah I did not tell him about the guy. It was before him. After the guy kept randomly showing up to the places we were at I finally told him me and the guy got together he then told me him and the guy were friends. I brushed that situation under the rug. Since he is having me followed. I did confront him about this and he finally said he was. And to top the cake a guy I used to talk on the phone with (a taurus too) after our first real argument about the following thing; sent me 5 different texts the next day saying he's in love with me and he misses me! I believe these 2 guys are related! Ive seen signs to prove my theory correct. I'm still totally in love with my guy but I am spoof confused by his actions. Please help!!!!

Hello all. I am a libra female in love with a Taurus man. I'm 29 and he's 34 if that helps. I'm going to try to make this story short. We have been dating for a year and a few months. And I fell madly in love with him. When we first got together neither one of us wanted a relationship. He just went through a divorce and I went through a similar situation. So I thought we were on common ground. Well he has taken me to a guys house that hooked up with right before him (hey I do have needs). Oh yeah I did not tell him about the guy. It was before him. After the guy kept randomly showing up to the places we were at I finally told him me and the guy got together he then told me him and the guy were friends. I brushed that situation under the rug. Since he is having me followed. I did confront him about this and he finally said he was. And to top the cake a guy I used to talk on the phone with (a taurus too) after our first real argument about the following thing; sent me 5 different texts the next day saying he's in love with me and he misses me! I believe these 2 guys are related! Ive seen signs to prove my theory correct. I'm still totally in love with my guy but I am spoof confused by his actions. Please help!!!!

the fuck—

Oh dxp. Pshaw.

This may be a stupid question but what's the treetrunk—

I really need your honest opinion guys!!! What should I do. Be tuff if gotta be. I got my big girl panties on.

In all seriousness if they are friends & or related then they know probably a good deal more about you than you might be
comfortable with. Especially if you've had relations with ( all three in this I am assuming at varying points in time? )
If someone is having you trailed, there is no trust. That's not confusing, that's common sense and logic.
I wouldn't entertain even a whisper of anyone else if you are serious about one. Not wise.

"Treetrunk" is the Big Kahuna of swears, the f bomb. Turn off your profanity filter.

Thanks Venusian. You are right. Sometimes I can't help but wonder if I'm just a game to my guy. I'm just really in love with him and I just kept thinking that maybe he couldn't handle people he know that have been with me. Even if it's before him. I can barely deal with it. But it's something totally amazing about him that against my better judgement sometimes I put up with some of the crazy things he do. I know he probably don't trust me. I never cheated on him the entire time we've been doing what we do. He was having me followed so im sure he knows. So he has no reason not 2 trust me. My mind was telling me to leave him alone but my heart won't listen. What's a relationship without trust?

hi all, new to this forum however not new to dealing with tauraus male...need help understanding some things. anyone know how often taurusguy is on here?

He is on here when it pleases him. He lurks when it pleases him for he is ninja. Meaning no one knows except for he when he is logged on and active. We hope to employ the 'Jungle Blow-Dart Tracking Device' in his neck very soon.

Libralove... I know all to well about your heart not doing what your mind knows is best but at the end of the day the famous line )ollow your heart" can lead to many dissapointments... If you have discussed the issue honestly with ur Taurus & he understands and is willing to get over it, it will show up in his actions. If not then you have to make the tuff decision of moving on. Nothing good will come out of a relationship where ur in love but that same love is not being given, again, believe me I know... Take the time to revisit the matter with him, along with the stalking and if you find u are truly satisfied with his response then go with it, if not again, be done or at least try your best to be done.

Sidebar: a lot of times we as women fall in love with these men and because of that love we ignore the fact that we really aren't happy. We chase and chase trying to change their minds and make them feel a certain away about us that they don't... In the end, we just give up anyway from the realization that life and relationship is not a fairy tale, eirther it is or it isn't. When we begin to understand this, we will reconigze it faster, let go a lot sooner, and save ourselves a lot of wasted time... Good luck to you.