My story

I am a guy, and I like this Taurus guy who I suspects likes men. Moreover, I think he likes me, too.

A few month ago, I finally got the gut to tell him through an email that I like him very much. But when I wrote the email, I knew I was moving away soon. So I also told him about the moving away. Then I ended the email wishing him good luck. I told him I wrote this email to him mainly to get the feelings out of my chest. But my hidden intention was to hope that this email confession can finally jump start something (if he does like me like I have suspected).

Oh, I knew him for about a year and half before I wrote him the email. I have liked him for pretty much all that time. But we never barely talked. I think I can reasonably guesstimate the number of words we exchanged to be under 50. Yeah, I know. Its pathetic. We do not talk at all, but I somehow managed to let myself fall for him so deeply. Its absurd.

Anyways, he never responded to that email. But about 3 to 4 weeks after that email, I saw him at an event. During the event, I had to get to one part of the building to another part of the building. As luck would have it, to get to my destination, I had to go through a route that would intercept where he is. I was nervous about seeing and having him see me. I was nervous because he never responded to that email, which leaves the possibility open that he might be disgusted by me. Anyways, so I walked past him and walked really quickly. But he saw me. So he called out my name in a friendly way. Out of politeness, I said hi back to him, nodded at him, acknowledged him, and walked away as fast as I could. I didn't want to stay around a chat, because nothing I said would have been coherent, me being so nervous at that time.

Later on in the day, I saw him again. He was walking into the building through the entrance. I was right near the entrance talking to someone else. When I saw the Taurus guy, I freaked out and immediately turned away from him, pretending that I didn't see him. I think he saw me doing that, and from the corner of my eyes, I saw him walking away and kind of looking down on the floor. I think he was trying to act like everything is normal.

Anyways, by the time the event was over, and I was regaining my composure, I started having regret. First, the fact that he called out my name (after having read my email confession about my feelings for him) should have signaled to me that he was at least gay friendly, even if he wasn't gay. So if he was going to tell me that he wasn't interested, then he would have done so in a gentle manner. I didn't need to be so scared. But who knows, maybe he was really interested, and hoped to talk to me??!?! Walking away was just not the right move, because it might have discouraged him??!?!

Anyways, so I regretted how I acted. So after the event, I went home, and sent him another email. I told him that it was good seeing him again before I moved away, and wished him good luck. He never responded to that email afterward.
So the below are some reasons that I think he likes me:
We see each other at events at least once a month. I sometimes find him hanging about me. My instinct told me he was hanging about me because he wanted me to notice him. But I could be imagining it. And if I really was imagining it, I wouldn't be surprised because I do have an overactive imagination.
There was this one time during an event when he was sitting at a distance and at an angle such that I could see him from the corner of my eyes. I kind of knew that he was looking at my way but I wasn't sure if he was looking at me. So I quickly turned my head at him (obviously I was pretending that I turned my head towards him casually when in fact I turned intentionally to look at him). The moment I turned my head to look at his way, he immediately frown his forehead like someone who was trying to see something clearly. You know how sometimes when we are trying to see something clearly, especially something that is far away, we tend to have to frown a little? Well that was what he was doing. My instinct told me that he didn't want to be caught looking at me, so he acted like he was looking at something near me, but not at me. But again, this could be my wishful thinking.

Also, there was this one time when we were listening to some boring speech that was being made before an event could officially begin. Then some guy called out my name (it wasn't loud enough that it was disturbing at all to the speech being delivered). Anyways, the minute my name was uttered, that Taurus guy, who was talking to someone else, quickly turned and looked my way. It was instant reaction, and instinctual. Again, I think that's a sign that he likes me, but also again, I could be imagining things.
And there are plenty of other occasions where he did things that I interpret as him liking me, but at the same time, it could easily have been my imagination.

Anyways, I have moved away for a few month now, but I still can't get him out of my head. Its ridiculous! I don't even talk to him. We never really had a conversation. The rare occasions when we talked was when he asked me if I could go help someone else do something at events and then said thanks afterward. But I allowed myself to evolve all these feelings for him based on minimal interaction. At nights, those feelings for him can be soooooooooo intense that I have a hard time sleeping. Things are much better now, but I still miss him very much.

I don't really know why I am bothering to write all this. I don't really know what I want by sharing this. I guess I am hoping that some of you Taurus can give me some thoughts on this?

Well I'm not a Taurus I'm a Libra. Whoop Whoop! Lol. But I've dealt with at least 2 Taurus in my life for over 10 years. One has been around for 6 years; the other has been around for 4 years. Oh and then there's my brother whom has been around my whole life.

Anyway you are right that Taurus seem to observe their prey before they pounce. All 3 Taurus did that; my brother, my ex, and my current. My current Taurus watched me like a hawk for weeks until he got nerve enough to look me up on Facebook and we started our thing that way. After 4 years, with 2 girlfriends on his end, 1 relationship on my end, and keeping minimal contact in between he and I have found our way back to each other and things are even better than they were 4 years ago. I guess my point is this could be in your imagination but I think if he really liked you and after you sending him that email he would have everything he needed to know it was cool if he approached you, and he would have if he wanted you the same way you want him.

However, seeing as though he didn't I would take that as either he likes men and is not ready to face it and be open with it, he is not gay and doesn't really want to make you feel bad, or he's just not into you in particular in that way. After my Taurus had the green light that I liked him just as much as he liked me he came charging. Now I will admit he did say that I kind of confused him because I didn't always smile when I saw him, sometimes I'd just look at him. Little did he know I'd show up to places I knew he'd be on purpose, because just like you I KNEW he liked me, and I felt if he liked me bad enough then he would come after what he wants and he did. That's any man. All you have to do is put yourself within their reach, let it be known you're not taken, show signs of interest, and wait for the fireworks. You let it all out in an email, so by him not coming after you after the two emails, I don't think he wants you bad enough.

Whats your sign by the way?

Oh Dear, do you think there is any chance that you have the wrong email address for him or that your emails are going into his spam folder - might explain why he didn't reply and why he was friendly as usual around you?

I dont think its your imagination.