Confused by my Venus in fire, Mars in Pisces

Hello all! I have Venus in Aries, Mars in Pisces and I'm trying to understand myself. I have this Venus in Aries that supposed to be aggressive, chasing after what I want. In reality, I'm very shy in love and have a lot of trouble being direct.

Please lend me your experiences!!!!

I have this combo!

I'm very shy too.

TBH, I never felt the presence of my Venus. It also opposes my moon.

In love, I'm painfully shy. MUTE! 😄 lol..

Its actually weird.. When I'm crushing on someone, nobody will even have a clue because I avoid them...in particular.. Keep swimming away. One person saw through this shyness.

I can't even bring myself to speak up. And when I'm compelled to.. I go blank :p ..unless they ask about homework or something useful to talk about, I'm just blank.

I always wonder how anyone will like me past the crushing... If I have romantic feelings, I just shut down and go silent, it's strange.

IDK if its my Pisces mars, in the presence of my crush and especially if its a big crush and during those moments when my mind is no reachable, or in coverage area to send me some brain signals - I also fidget a little, get too confused and directionless, drop things , just...my brain doesn't work. I'm here, but my brain is not available for me! Blank and mute.

One guy even told me to think of him as a girl and speak...it was ...not possible!

Because I never wanted marriage with any of them..(too young) I would also run away from their approaches.

I can only show affection after marriage i think - hopefully a man will not require wordy expression.

I cannot show my interest even indirectly! Should see...how it'll go..how I will manage.

Yes same thing as me! I just got done with a Sagg and couldn't express how I felt for the life of me! I do notice about myself that my Venus in Aries comes out when I'm angry...then and only then am I a spitfire and do not hesitate to let anyone know what's on my mind, but if I'm content and heads over heels then I'm a mute as well. Lord help us †

same with me! I dont think I'm a shy person but when i like someone, words just dont seem to come out. This guy once asked my sister if i took a vow of silence, smh.

I think its because mars is our actions and how we go about getting things we want so since its in water its harder to do :/

I have this combo as well. Mars in Pisces, Venus in Aries.
It's an impossible and frustrating combination.
My hormones and emotional state wants to grab and capture the other individual, but I'm stagnant and speechless, and instead of pushing forward, I swim away.
Instead, I fantasize about how I would like to approach this individual, and it's usually nothing nice, if you get my drift.

My Sun in Taurus doesn't make it any better.
I'm moving much slower.
...And a lot more cautiously.

So yes, My Venus in Aries is misleading, and pretty much pointless.

I can literally identify with all of you! I feel like I found somewhere I belong lol I want to be direct and tell people how I feel, but like many of you said I just swim away and fantasize about it for a long time. Tbh I can only see my Venus in Aries come out when I'm drunk. I'm literally the life of the party, very social, and talkative, energetic, sexy....it's like this Aries woman lives inside of me clawing to be released and when I get drunk she's able to be free. Weird? I know

I also have this combo it is quiet the mind f*ck very conflicting energies. I think with me it kind of moves like a breaking down car that stops and goes and can cause whip lash lol. One min I can be very aggressive and go go go outgoing etc and next very reclusive passive shy etc so it's like stop go stop go stop go lol

I also have an aqua moon which also make me a bit detached and not care about things oh and I'm a taurus sun so yea I'm pretty screwed up lol sometimes I rly dislike my mars Pisces it makes me too lacks about things I hate confrontation I try to avoid it but at the same time I have that aries and taurus temper that can come out and then my aqua moon can just be very logical and detached so I'm rly a mess lol and my moon is in my 1st house so I wear my emotions on my sleeve.

But my mars in Pisces rly makes me adaptable esp when it comes to guys I think I tend to adjust it's like my venus in aries will want you and my mars in Pisces comes up with a plan that is best suited for that mission lol in a sense I guess it's kind of manipulative lol but I read a guy and will figure out what it takes to get him, I naturally am a very diverse person so I have many sides to my personality and I just lean more to the one that will get me what I want in the moment. And I'm also hard to read one min I can be very aries like aggressive playful independent blunt etc the next very sensitive needy very Pisces like lol I'm changeable and hard to please lol

Posted by faceroll
is having a pisces mars really that bad? i'm a water mars also. a scorpio mars. my venus in aries seems to call the shots though. but almost all of my personal planets are in aries. so i do wonder if it's just easier for me than some of you.

it's nice there's so many of you to talk about it with though. maybe that'll help that someone else understands what you're going through.

Yes it is! Lol even your water mars isn't as hard as Pisces Scorpio at least is a strong intense (fixed) sign Pisces is so wish washy and watery not here nor there just makes it even more difficult when compared with a cardinal fire very conflicting energies and if you throw in other elements it's very harder. You stand you have a lot of aries so that's a common thread u are kind of in sync with yourself. I have every element in me and every type cardinal,fixed,mutable and I'm basically a big big of trial mix u just never know what ur gonna get because u get a little bit of everything all the time lol it's actually rly exhausting lol my love life is so complicated due to my mix. I'm a fixed earth sun, fixed air moon, cardinal fire, mutable water. And the mutable water mars kinda makes you basically like a chicken with your head cut off lol all over the place but going nowhere at the same time lol IMO