Going mental because of this taurus man!

Hi everyone.

I was backpacking in Australia and came upon a taurus man, who I spent a wonderful period of 4 months with until it gets down to Hell. I always got texts and calls from him everydays and he always said that he wanted me to stay in Australia with him and during the last months of my stay in the country he just slightly become inert and aloof, prefering hanging out with his friends and letting me alone in his house.
I am an aquarius woman, I know I am not an easy case but I was really invested in that relationship but that change in him slightly drove me crazy. When I got back in my own country, i got emails from him telling me he wanted to see me back very soon, that he loved me etc and then he stopped. One day he called me saying that he called me almost for a week so i should be fine if he doesn't call me for few days because he is going home ( he works away from his place). So I m like " wtf, am i on a list or what? Did you send me 3 same messages on st valentine s day so that i will be happy for 3 days without talking to you?". Ok he sent be a bunch of flowers worth 170 $ but that doesn't interest me at all, i would rather get "a voice contact" with him.

So now the problem is I don't love him anymore but I am so angry that I don t know how to deal with that anger anymore. I trusted him and he's still making me feel like a fool. My mind is going mental as I never stop thinking of him.

Has anyone had a similar problem? How did you deal with it?

Celine

Typical

Posted by ceiicileb
Hi everyone.

I was backpacking in Australia and came upon a taurus man, who I spent a wonderful period of 4 months with until it gets down to Hell. I always got texts and calls from him everydays and he always said that he wanted me to stay in Australia with him and during the last months of my stay in the country he just slightly become inert and aloof, prefering hanging out with his friends and letting me alone in his house.
I am an aquarius woman, I know I am not an easy case but I was really invested in that relationship but that change in him slightly drove me crazy. When I got back in my own country, i got emails from him telling me he wanted to see me back very soon, that he loved me etc and then he stopped. One day he called me saying that he called me almost for a week so i should be fine if he doesn't call me for few days because he is going home ( he works away from his place). So I m like " wtf, am i on a list or what? Did you send me 3 same messages on st valentine s day so that i will be happy for 3 days without talking to you?". Ok he sent be a bunch of flowers worth 170 $ but that doesn't interest me at all, i would rather get "a voice contact" with him.

So now the problem is I don't love him anymore but I am so angry that I don t know how to deal with that anger anymore. I trusted him and he's still making me feel like a fool. My mind is going mental as I never stop thinking of him.

Has anyone had a similar problem? How did you deal with it?

Celine

could it be a taurus thing? i keep hearing, they are all about touch. so maybe the long distance is the problem here?

Posted by ceiicileb
Hi everyone.

I was backpacking in Australia and came upon a taurus man, who I spent a wonderful period of 4 months with until it gets down to Hell. I always got texts and calls from him everydays and he always said that he wanted me to stay in Australia with him and during the last months of my stay in the country he just slightly become inert and aloof, prefering hanging out with his friends and letting me alone in his house.

It sounds like things got pretty hot and heavy...and he is giving you...as well as himself some space or some time apart.

Posted by ceiicileb
I am an aquarius woman, I know I am not an easy case but I was really invested in that relationship but that change in him slightly drove me crazy. When I got back in my own country, i got emails from him telling me he wanted to see me back very soon, that he loved me etc and then he stopped. One day he called me saying that he called me almost for a week so i should be fine if he doesn't call me for few days because he is going home ( he works away from his place). So I m like " wtf, am i on a list or what? Did you send me 3 same messages on st valentine s day so that i will be happy for 3 days without talking to you?".

I'm confused. You received emails, he told you he loved you, and he called you for a straight week....You also received three messages on Valentines Day.

Posted by ceiicileb
Ok he sent be a bunch of flowers worth 170 $ but that doesn't interest me at all, i would rather get "a voice contact" with him.

Posted by ceiicileb
So now the problem is I don't love him anymore but I am so angry that I don t know how to deal with that anger anymore. I trusted him and he's still making me feel like a fool. My mind is going mental as I never stop thinking of him.

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You're going mental for what, exactly?

Posted by ceiicileb
Has anyone had a similar problem? How did you deal with it?

Celine

Tauruses move real slow, very cautiously. If he invested his heart and himself to you at early stage, obviously he must trust you completely. But if you continue with this neurotic behavior, you will lose him forever!

Fall Back.

Relax.

Posted by robyn808
Yeah, I don't mean to sound rude or anything but this is not a Taurus issue.

From what you've said, he hasn't done anything wrong here. Seems like your just having a hard time dealing with the separation and change. Your putting your own expectations on him, "If he really loved me, he'd do this, or act this way"

I could sit here and give you a rational explanation from a Taurus perspective, on everything you mentioned. But it is irreverent, and its not going to help you.

How perceptive.

An intelligent women is always an enigma.

You re right, maybe I don't accept the fact that we re too far away for having a proper relationship. I don't accept the fact that his friends are more important than me and that's why he never calls me on his days off..because he s busy with them and has no time to even send me an email. He already told me that he was calling me during the week because no one was staying at the work place. But yeah that hurts me too much to hear that...I don't know how to deal with all the lies he told me. I thought he would be happy that I come to visit him in summer but he never gave me copies of evidence i could use for getting a tourist visa.