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Understanding Taurus Traits in Relationships

Taurus individuals value stability and consistency but can also be possessive or sensitive to change. They may need space during vacations and can feel guilty about not communicating frequently. It's important to communicate openly about expectations and give them time to reconnect. Recognizing Taurus tendencies helps manage insecurities and strengthen your relationship.

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so, I've been dating a taurus male for a few months now and he's been on holiday for 5 weeks now.
it was all good over the first 4 weeks, getting texts from him almost every day..
but then last week we had our first quarrel because out of the blue, he said i was guilt tripping him into having to contact me and that i should understand that he is on vacation and should be enjoying himself.
i was really hurt because i never asked him to text me everyday. he wrote back again saying he felt guilty if he doesnt message me all the time.
because of that, i said that i didn't expect a text everyday, but i would be there for him when he's got time and doesn't feel obliged to write to me (it made me feel horrible that i was an obligation)...
it's been 5 days now and I've not heard from him.
I'm feeling insecure. and getting very upset. what should i think from this?
Im arian and I always place my loved ones in priority, and that means that i constantly think of them and want to be in contact with them. but this bull is not....
is this normal?
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he said i was guilt tripping him into having to contact me and that i should understand that he is on vacation and should be enjoying himself.
i was really hurt because i never asked him to text me everyday. he wrote back again saying he felt guilty if he doesnt message me all the time.

it's been 5 days now and I've not heard from him.
I'm feeling insecure. and getting very upset. what should i think from this?
Im arian and I always place my loved ones in priority, and that means that i constantly think of them and want to be in contact with them. but this bull is not....
is this normal?



OK Arian... I am a Taurus with Venus in Aries, so I completely get your whole firey passion wanting to consume any and EVERY part of your Taurus because it was so lively and you two hit if off quickly.

Taureans move slow, and he is slowing the pace down. If he wants to spend vacation, let him. In the meantime, Go find a hobby.or something that will take your mind off of him.

If he feels guilty for not texting you..then let HIM text you. Follow his lead. and be patient.