How to make Taurus man Trust you!

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Cancergoddess
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Ok... So as you have seen from my other post.... I am currently dating a Taurus man and have been for almost two months now. He is consistent, responsive, gives me advice on my questions, caring and very affectionate and compliments me a lot. We have not had sex yet and I still want to wait on that for a bit. I told him I wanted our sexual experience to be "Special" and he 100% agrees with that idea. Lately we have held out on seeing each other due to busy schedules, but since Monday, he has up'd his communication and now calls me everyday and texts me a lot. When we were initially dating, he only called me about three times a week for 15 mins at most. Now its everyday for an 1 1/2 hours at most. I 100% know that he likes me and is interested, but.....

How can I get my Taurus man to trust me? Do I need to do anything extra?

I understand the whole 'flowing organically' thing, but sometimes I just want to grab him and hug him and kiss him and suffocate him with my strong feelings.... Would that be appropriate to do? lol
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Posted by KittyKnitter
if he didn't already trust you, he wouldn't be doing those things. relax, go with the flow.



Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
I don't understand why you're worried about trust? Especially if you know 100% that he likes you and is interested...?
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+1

Agreed to both comments.


She's probably a worry-wort, and is making the assumption that perfection is required. I pulled up the Whitman quote so that she didn't do anything to sabotage it.

CG, if your intenions are pure, just be yourself.
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Posted by Cancergoddess

Should I wait a few more months to tell him this?



No.

Tell him now.

...and end it with "I just wanted to be upfront and honest with you before anything between us progressed."
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Surprising us down the long run raises red flags....

The it becomes...

"What else is this person lying about?"
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Hi All,

So I wasn't able to tell him my secret but next time we are together I will make sure to do so. However, we had a WONDERFUL time this weekend. He came over and I cooked him a very delicious and fulfilling meal. We also had wine and apple pie for desert and let me tell you..... He was puddy in my hands. He kept praising my cooking and was super affectionate. He was so comfortable that he dozed off a few times while we were watching a movie, lol. He held me in his arms the entire time and kept kissing my neck and face. I reciprocated by holding him close to my breast and kissing his forehead and caressing his head and neck (nurturing side of me). Wow, he had me feeling so special, like his "prized possession" (hint). Yes, he did spend the night but we did not have sex. I am still not ready. In some ways I am also testing him to see if he is worthy to have something that I deem very special (sex). When we woke up the next morning, he was immediately affectionate and caring. We laid in bed for about two hours talking and cuddling. It was so adorable. He would gently caress my back and softly kiss every inch of my face and neck. At one point we just held eachother and he said, "this just feels so good. I could lay here with you all day." I have come to see him as very sensual and generous with his affection. WOW! Is about all that I can say. After he got back to his house, he texted me saying how much he enjoyed dinner and how he was looking forward to coming back.

I texted him later that day saying that I needed a large object to be placed onto my wall and I asked him if he could do it for me. This was one of my tests... to see if he was willing to help me around my house, and also see how much he cared enough to want to express his feelings by his actions (since I know you Taurus' are "action" based). He texted me back stating he would do it. 🙂

QUESTION:
Since Taurus' like to test, are there other ways I can test him to make sure he is serious about me? Just serious enough to know that I can trust him to go to the next level, which is SEX.....