Taurus Man Scared me OFF!

Ok... So I know that I already have a post up about the current Taurus guy I am dating, but.... Before him, there was another one. (Crazy how they come in pairs, lol)

The original Taurus guy, Danny, was (in my eyes) crazy as hell!!
We had only been dating for two weeks when he told be he was already missing me and liked me a lot. He would contact me every day and want to come over and see me all the time. Unfortunately, I did not feel the same way about him. OMG his personality was so stale and dry.... He was so boring to be around and he talked too damn much! He talked so much that his stories began to sound like lies. He was a self-proclaimed jack of all trades, lol. It was sooooo unattractive.

Well, two weeks into our dating I had to go to Miami on business and told him id be back in 9 days. Even while I was in Miami he called and texted me. But I remember texting him about something and I didn't hear from him in 3 days... I just figured he wasn't interested anymore, which I was completely OK with because the attraction on my end was not there. So I deleted him as a friend on my Facebook page. Well, come to find out he was just busy and couldn't return my call. But he was pissed at the fact that I deleted him from Facebook. So much so that he went on the tell me about how un-loyal of a person I am and how he wanted to be in a relationship with me but feels I would abandon him if things got rough.

I was like, WTF!?!?!?! He clearly had abandonment issues and I am so, so glad I dodged that bullet. We never had sex, held hands, hell, we never had a kiss before. He did not seem 100% there. I was literally scared for my life (cause he's in the reserves) thinking he would stalk me or something because he was so upset and mad at me. I ended the conversation that night as him and I just being friends. There was no reasoning with him and I knew that was a no-no for me.

Well, its been over 2 months since that whole incident happened and this fool decides to text me last night. He tried to do it in a slick why by asking who I was, as if he didn't know who he was texting.... So I played the game right back at him.... This is how it went....

Danny: "Who is this?"
Me: "Who are you?"
Danny: "I'm Daniel, and you are?"
Me: "Wrong number"
Danny: "What is your name?"
Me: "Do not contact this number again"

I blocked his number after that so I am not sure if he responded.... Such a creepy little fellow. This is his placements and I hope I never me

I blocked his number after that so I am not sure if he responded.... Such a creepy little fellow. This is his placements and I hope I never meet a weirdo like him again!!!

Sun: Taurus
Moon: Cancer
Merc: Taurus
Ven: Aries
Mars: Gem
Jup: Aries

I do not think this has anything to do with him being a Taurus he just sounds like a psycho haha

I see a problem with you, not him *shrugs*

And why would someone say out of the blue, "who is this?" unless you contacted him first or your name wasn't saved and he was deleting randoms.

I'd consider you un-loyal, disingenuous, not a friend, or whatever you want to call it if you wrote me off because I was busy for 3 days. 3 fricken days! You are the one with abandonment issues! (you consider yourself abandoned after a few days, WTF up with that?)

Posted by lildol
I see a problem with you, not him *shrugs*

And why would someone say out of the blue, "who is this?" unless you contacted him first or your name wasn't saved and he was deleting randoms.

I'd consider you un-loyal, disingenuous, not a friend, or whatever you want to call it if you wrote me off because I was busy for 3 days. 3 fricken days! You are the one with abandonment issues! (you consider yourself abandoned after a few days, WTF up with that?)

Haha LOL, Someone feathers got unintentionally ruffled. poor lildol's hurt by me not having interest in a man who is border line crazy. I was just sharing my experience with this loco dude (whom as I stated before, I had lost interest in). Sue me for deleting you from Facebook and you going irate after only knowing me for two weeks, sheesh. Some people do not deal with REJECTION well, LOL. Oh well 🙂

OMG, I think I get it now.... Maybe this is why Taurus' try so hard to avoid being rejected.... My mother is a Taurus and I know for a fact she does not take rejection well either. Interesting observation.... *Toodles*

a thread for this? really?

Wow.. Someone comes on here to share an observation (good or BAD) and you Taurus' are all ready to ponce. Take a chill pill. If you don't like it, keep scrolling. Some people/signs never want to hear the bad traits about themselves, only the good. Such hypocrites.

Posted by Cancergoddess
Wow.. Someone comes on here to share an observation (good or BAD) and you Taurus' are all ready to ponce. Take a chill pill. If you don't like it, keep scrolling. Some people/signs never want to hear the bad traits about themselves, only the good. Such hypocrites.

LOL, you have not been pounced. You're just sooooo sensitive that it feels that way, lol. And as far as acceptance of bad traits of one's sign, and also on the matter of hypocrisy, the kind of attachment issues you're talking about here are a hell of a lot more common in Cancers.

LMAO!! This is so cute 🙂
Have a Beautiful Weekend, everyone 😉

Posted by Cancergoddess

Posted by lildol
I see a problem with you, not him *shrugs*

And why would someone say out of the blue, "who is this?" unless you contacted him first or your name wasn't saved and he was deleting randoms.

I'd consider you un-loyal, disingenuous, not a friend, or whatever you want to call it if you wrote me off because I was busy for 3 days. 3 fricken days! You are the one with abandonment issues! (you consider yourself abandoned after a few days, WTF up with that?)

Haha LOL, Someone feathers got unintentionally ruffled. poor lildol's hurt by me not having interest in a man who is border line crazy. I was just sharing my experience with this loco dude (whom as I stated before, I had lost interest in). Sue me for deleting you from Facebook and you going irate after only knowing me for two weeks, sheesh. Some people do not deal with REJECTION well, LOL. Oh well 🙂

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Stating my observation as a non-Taur

Its interesting how if this situation was the other way round.

The only mistake this guy did was openly say he 'likes you' and made effort by keeping that communication with you. Most guys wouldnt even bother for days to respond back. Can you blame the guy for being upset?

Oh well.. Shit happens.. He will get over it...

What in the hell?

This guy sounds like he was just trying to be a good boyfriend... and you write it off as creepy?

I feel really bad for this guy. Shame on you.

At least you've learned your lesson. Don't bother with a taurus, or they will shower you with attention and give you amazing fidelity... *note sarcasm*

Is it wrong I feel glad the Taurus guy didn't end up with that?
Also surprised he moved so fast? 😆

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Posted by honeejr
Maybe it's me but I see where the OP is coming from. Wasn't interested from the door she said. He was irritating and boring. She left to go on a business trip. He texted then stopped. She gave it three days and she found a reason to get rid of him. If it wasn't that it would have been something else found to get rid of him because she wasn't interested. He was Crazy....well a bit over dramatic I say. But still she got rid of him the best way she could instead of just going MIA. Don't think this is a sign thing I just think it was a bad situation and dealt with accordingly. Carry on....

Then I think she should have just told him of her disinterest in him. 🙂

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Very true. I should have told him but maybe its in my placement to avoid confrontation. I really did not want to hurt his feelings.

Posted by honeejr
Maybe it's me but I see where the OP is coming from. Wasn't interested from the door she said. He was irritating and boring. She left to go on a business trip. He texted then stopped. She gave it three days and she found a reason to get rid of him. If it wasn't that it would have been something else found to get rid of him because she wasn't interested. He was Crazy....well a bit over dramatic I say. But still she got rid of him the best way she could instead of just going MIA. Don't think this is a sign thing I just think it was a bad situation and dealt with accordingly. Carry on....

WOW, you actually thoroughly understood everything I was saying. Unlike the rest, your critical thinking skills are great (not saying that jokingly). I'm not sure what the rest of these people are talking about, as I never stated that he was my boyfriend and such....

Thank you for "getting it" honeejr