How to move on from a taurus guy..

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So now my taurus guy that i've fallen for A LOT(typical scorpio thing) has turned around and said hes enjoying being single at the moment and doesnt want a relationship although he really likes me...
i just dont understand, hes lead me on which he has apologised for but i feel slightly used for sex and when i said that to him he was really upset that i would think that and got quite angry..which i now feel bad for! i move to university today anyway, not that far away though so i can get away from all of this! i do know him but not that well although we've had sex, but its like he wont let me get to know him. no wonder he never iniated contact with me it was always me trying with him.. i honestly thought that if you see someone for a bit you will want it to lead somewhere surely?!
its as if all hes said was just a lie? 😭
any help on getting over him? me being a typical scorpio its really hard to let go because i have strong feelings for him.. ive told him this and im glad i did but obviously hearing his response was not what i was expecting. dont know if i should give him a text before i leave for uni today or just leave it now.
can't stop crying, really need to move on dont i..
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I just went thru something extremely similar with him saying basically the same thing. My first thought was...*what have we been doing all this time?* I guess as a human its natural to assume the time/effort you/him is putting in means something...that its leading somewhere. I quickly learned that day to never assume.

Ive recently dug the hole much deeper in my situation, which will make it even harder for me to move on now, so I probably cant give the best advice...

But, one thing I can say is that atleast you know. You felt used, which hopefully you did whatever you wanted to do, now try to pull back, only calling him to use him for sex when you want it lol jk...maybe not the best idea, but really, try your hardest to cut all contact. Then go out and meet people. I wouldnt say hurry trying to replace him, but sometimes you will quickly realize that although he seemed ideal, theres a lot of diff qualities in others that youd be missing out on......no need to dwell on one person.
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I did send him one last text.. I just had to, there were a few things I just wanted to apologise for! He reassured me it was fine and that he'll miss me? seriously is he playing with me? lol. I think he would of liked us to of gone somewhere but it seems like this stage in his life, hes not ready for a relationship. BUT STILL its like thanks for leading me on for awhile 😢 should of asked sooner before I got too emotionally attached.
Our relationship wasn't exclusive no! Which yeah is a big problem when we've had sex. Silly really but I honestly thought everything was going fine.. I get attached too easily, definitely a big scorpio thing!! Ah well heres to moving on!!!!!!!
thanks all for your advice :-)
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I'm not too sure if he has an earth or air moon! Where can I find this out? Sorry not so great with the charts!!
Well it's been going on for 3 months, in that we've slept together 3 times. I think the problem was we never really spoke all the time

I was drunk (stupid/bad I know I know!!😢 ) word vomit came out basically but I said I've got feelings for him and I can't keep doing what we're doing (seeing eachother now and again) if it won't lead anywhere and then he was like im really sorry and said he likes me a lot but is happy with things at the moment. Maybe he doesn't want the commitment and he is bi-sexual so I guess he wants to try things out? I just don't know he confuses me so much I hate it!!! He must not like me enough or something ah I'm what's wrong with me lol 😢