I just wanna talk

Hey, it’s been forever! I actually deleted my account once I broke up with my Taurus and moved on to start dating someone else. I don’t think I need advice, I just like tellin y’all my business.

I ran into my ex Taurus bae at a party. He was with a large group of friends and family. I did my best to stay distant since our last encounter was so hostile. We haven’t spoken in over 9 months but for a long time I would run into him. That hasn’t happened for months until now. So I see his family in the distance and his cousin hugs me and proceeds to call me his favorite and his “baby”......The cousin goes on rambling about how much he misses me and how we have to hang. My ex is there with another woman btw. For the remainder of the time, I feel like my ex moves around but he’s always directly in my line of sight.well more like he could see me from wherever he would stand. To test my theory, I moved behind a wall to block his ability to see and when I did, he ended up moving into my area and walking by me 4 times and standing directly behind me. My brother even commented that when he was behind me, he kept looking me up and down. I assumed with eyes of disgust or like he was sizing me up since I did punch him in the face the last time we spoke (he deserved it but I regret it since I don’t condone women hitting men or vice versa). But nope, my cousins agreed it was the lusty Taurus gaze. I also saw him lookin out the corner of my eye. My brother also noticed that while he was clearly with another woman, anytime she would try to engage with him intimately he would separate from her. She would try to hold his hand. He would walk away. She would joke or play with him and he would turn to talk to his friends. It was such an awkward experience to say the least. The girl he’s with, then comes to stand in our area and sit right next to my sister in a cramped space. It was right after he said something to her. My sister was visibly upset and took it as “he said something to her about us and now she’s invading our space to prove a point”. As a Capricorn, this was wayyyy too much drama for me. I wanted to enjoy my time and enjoy the party the same way I would have if he wasn’t there. I even told my friends to not give him any attention or recognition. But nope, they went out of their way to cast side eyes( they hate him and feel like he took advantage of my kindness). At the end of the night, his cousin came over to say “you will always be family” then introduced me to his wife. Night ends and me and my family stay at the party for about 15 minutes after they left. When we walk out, they’re all standing in front of the door where we have to physically pass through them to leave. I actually had to squeeze by the Taurus. His friend starts to walk us to our car and when I look back, him and all his friends and family are watching us leave.

Other logical explanation: my family is completely misreading the situation. The Taurus probably thinks that my friends and family were looking at him majority of the time. He probably feels like I put myself in his line of sight and felt uncomfortable or like I was there to start drama so he wanted to get closer to show me that he acknowledged my presence and wasn’t worried. He wasn’t ignoring the other woman, but was choosing to be private. He had the same thought that I did “im going to move around the same way I would if she wasn’t here”. His family acknowledged that overall I’ve been a good person to him and them and they don’t feel the need to treat me differently. Taurus isn’t interested and was equally confused about my intentions.

I’m trying to think as logically as possible about this situation and I even went as far as to completely chalk it up to a chance meeting and nothing more. I erased the situation from my memory and pushed pass it. UNTIL I was driving this morning and the car infront of me said his name on the license plate. While I was in the party, a very old song that I associate with him came on and when I got in the car it played again today. And THEN, my coworker gave me a cupcake today from a baby shower and the baby has his name. It was right smack dab on the cupcake(his name isn’t common at all). I looooove my Scorpio. He is everything I ever wanted in a man. The Taurus just doesn’t measure up as far as my personal expectations are concerned. But u can’t help feeling like the universe wants me to acknowledge something about my ex. Is it an apology? Am I supposed to at least be his friend? Is he ok mentally(he suffered from depression and anxiety) or am I creating reasons to reconnect. These are my thoughts this morning. Ignore, read, comment or don’t. I’m just here to talk.

It sounds like a twin flame connection.

BTW, most Bulls are currently on a twin flame journey.

There are videos on youtube about it.

He doesn't want to give you an apology.

He wants a 'do-over.'

Enjoy the videos.....😉

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Enjoy the videos.....😉

Thanks for the videos. You’ve been providing so much insight since the beginning of my journey.

Posted by Ellygant

Universe let’s you make your own decisions. Even if they’re not the decisions that are best for you.

I had one ex in particular, where similar occurrences would happen. Being at the same places and having an almost literal magnetic feeling between you two even if you’re separated by a room and tons of people. They’re name and other synchronicities popping up right before I’d run into them randomly after months and months. Friends and close one to him always came up to me and told me how much they liked me and always encouraged me to be open to him.

At the time I was still attached, I thought it was twin flames or some ushering to be together from the world. Now no longer being attached, I’d say they were warnings. The universe saying ‘hey. Look. You’re still tying yourself to this person and inhibiting yourself as a result. You’re still allowing yourself to feel or long for someone where neither of you can help each other be the best you. Be careful. Be cognizant of your feelings. Process them and continue to move forward.’

The signs are there. But if we have emotional ties, they cloud us from reading them properly. Instead we read them from how we feel instead of what they are.

In a lesser degree, it’s happened with two other exes before they came back around. I always look back and see those moments as a way to choose myself over others and find closure. Unfortunately I took them as that I should try again. I always regretted that choice.

But that is my personal stance on it.

Yea I actually have moved on in the sense that I’m seriously dating someone else. I don’t want to be with my ex at all, but I do question if I am supposed to have a friendship max. I would also find in incredibly annoying for the universe to know that I’m not worrying or thinking about someone yet it decides to keep bombarding me with synchronicities. Imagine swearing off of cake, then a good friend of yours sets it up where you see cake ads 4 times a day. Then they purposefully take you to a store full of fuckin CAKE! Just to say...”hey....don’t eat cake”

@Capri

You're in his energy.

His thoughts.

His emotions.



It may have nothing to do with your thoughts and emotions.

You have already moved on.

Seeing him in person was proof that he's unable to move on or let go.

I don't think that the universe is bombarding you with synchronicities for an invitation to a friendship,

But letting you in on what's really going on with him.

Cosmic energy is communication by intuition, not by the traditional verbal communication.

Karma is actually kicking his @ss!

Posted by TaurusBull1977

It sounds like a twin flame connection.

BTW, most Bulls are currently on a twin flame journey.

There are videos on youtube about it.

He doesn't want to give you an apology.

He wants a 'do-over.'

I was about to say the same thing.... yes, this ...I agree, it really sounds like it. Ive watched the videos as well and they are very interesting.