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Obsessive Lovers .. is this a Taurus thing?
Are Tauruses Naturally Obsessive in Love
Tauruses are known for their deep loyalty and strong attachment to loved ones, which can sometimes appear as obsession. This intense focus stems from their desire for stability and security in relationships. However, individual behavior varies, and healthy boundaries are important to prevent possessiveness. Understanding your zodiac traits can help manage your emotions better.
When you say "i am consumed"
are you at least nutritious— 🤔
Also everyone thinks of their romance in their quiet moments. Its pretty normal.
Unless you're a cap moon in which case you think about coins falling on each other.
Fellow Tauruses: When you like or fall in love with someone does that person become all you think about? I am consumed with that person, usually. I mean I work, and do my usual adult tasks etc; lol.. but in my quiet thoughts I'm always thinking of him or wanting to reach out via text or whatever (which I try not to do too much), or be with him when time allows. I try to play it cool, he gets weird and needs a bit of space often, which I understand, ... but inside I just cant get enough of him... he's a Scorpio.. friends for yrs, recently told me he loved me, he's an odd one, but I love him deeply. Our rship continues to grow at a snail pace, but its growing. Anyway, my question is are we as Tauruses naturally obsessive in love, or is this just me??
Yes, all this. 100% me
When you say "i am consumed"
are you at least nutritious— 🤔
LOL... its a balanced diet I think.
Yes I am interested very rarely, obsessively, and always one-sidedly. It’s not good for my mental health
Thats me usually too.. sigh, and no its not good mentally at all. I am not certain this friendship/love thing with evolve into a real rship at all. Only time will tell... and I do think am into more than he is me.
Also everyone thinks of their romance in their quiet moments. Its pretty normal.
Unless you're a cap moon in which case you think about coins falling on each other.
funny.. lol
Fellow Tauruses: When you like or fall in love with someone does that person become all you think about? I am consumed with that person, usually. I mean I work, and do my usual adult tasks etc; lol.. but in my quiet thoughts I'm always thinking of him or wanting to reach out via text or whatever (which I try not to do too much), or be with him when time allows. I try to play it cool, he gets weird and needs a bit of space often, which I understand, ... but inside I just cant get enough of him... he's a Scorpio.. friends for yrs, recently told me he loved me, he's an odd one, but I love him deeply. Our rship continues to grow at a snail pace, but its growing. Anyway, my question is are we as Tauruses naturally obsessive in love, or is this just me??
Yes, all this. 100% me
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le sighh.... lol
this is comforting to hear
Fellow Tauruses: When you like or fall in love with someone does that person become all you think about? I am consumed with that person, usually. I mean I work, and do my usual adult tasks etc; lol.. but in my quiet thoughts I'm always thinking of him or wanting to reach out via text or whatever (which I try not to do too much), or be with him when time allows. I try to play it cool, he gets weird and needs a bit of space often, which I understand, ... but inside I just cant get enough of him... he's a Scorpio.. friends for yrs, recently told me he loved me, he's an odd one, but I love him deeply. Our rship continues to grow at a snail pace, but its growing. Anyway, my question is are we as Tauruses naturally obsessive in love, or is this just me??
Yes, all this. 100% me
le sighh.... lol
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Idk if its all taurus tho...
My bf seemed obsessed with me too(also taurus)..but he likes his space. I can be overwhelming.
That is your moon and venus/mars sign?
Also everyone thinks of their romance in their quiet moments. Its pretty normal.
Unless you're a cap moon in which case you think about coins falling on each other.
HA - Taurus with Cap Moon here - I think of my So and the coins LOL
this is comforting to hear
Whats up jeane?
Everything okay?
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yes! all good in the 'hood. i just meant by that that you guys can be quite tight lipped!
i got a blatant hint of this obsessive behaviour once but as it half stumbled out of his mouth, he sucked the words back in again. he didn't want to let the cat out of the bag. i still get clues every now and again though but nothing said explicitly.
i am the same with my scorp venus. i was obsessed with him at the start. not so much obsessed now but he's still the first thing i think about when i wake up, the last thing when i sleep and not an hour goes by everyday when i don't want to know what he is doing/eating/thinking/laughing about.
it's comforting to know that you guys feel that way too.
(thank you for asking though 😉)
Also everyone thinks of their romance in their quiet moments. Its pretty normal.
Unless you're a cap moon in which case you think about coins falling on each other.
HA - Taurus with Cap Moon here - I think of my So and the coins LOL
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😂😂😂😂
Yes we are obsessive .. for me having a scorpio moon doubles that obsessive thinking lol .. I hold myself back rather too much though
this is comforting to hear
Whats up jeane?
Everything okay?
yes! all good in the 'hood. i just meant by that that you guys can be quite tight lipped!
i got a blatant hint of this obsessive behaviour once but as it half stumbled out of his mouth, he sucked the words back in again. he didn't want to let the cat out of the bag. i still get clues every now and again though but nothing said explicitly.
i am the same with my scorp venus. i was obsessed with him at the start. not so much obsessed now but he's still the first thing i think about when i wake up, the last thing when i sleep and not an hour goes by everyday when i don't want to know what he is doing/eating/thinking/laughing about.
it's comforting to know that you guys feel that way too.
(thank you for asking though 😉)
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I think male bulls are more tight lipped than the females but that saying, I too have trouble verbalizing the beautiful thoughts I have inside.
Fellow Tauruses: When you like or fall in love with someone does that person become all you think about? I am consumed with that person, usually. I mean I work, and do my usual adult tasks etc; lol.. but in my quiet thoughts I'm always thinking of him or wanting to reach out via text or whatever (which I try not to do too much), or be with him when time allows. I try to play it cool, he gets weird and needs a bit of space often, which I understand, ... but inside I just cant get enough of him... he's a Scorpio.. friends for yrs, recently told me he loved me, he's an odd one, but I love him deeply. Our rship continues to grow at a snail pace, but its growing. Anyway, my question is are we as Tauruses naturally obsessive in love, or is this just me??
Yes, all this. 100% me
le sighh.... lol
Idk if its all taurus tho...
My bf seemed obsessed with me too(also taurus)..but he likes his space. I can be overwhelming.
That is your moon and venus/mars sign?
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My Moon is Pisces and my Venus is Gemini.. I like my space too, its really imp.. but this Scorp likes a lot of space, lol too much! Which makes me want him more.. he's been a tough one to get close to. His recent confessions of love for me, just makes me want to tackle him.. LOL with kisses n what not! Its taken a long time for us to get to this point with each other.
this is comforting to hear
Whats up jeane?
Everything okay?
yes! all good in the 'hood. i just meant by that that you guys can be quite tight lipped!
i got a blatant hint of this obsessive behaviour once but as it half stumbled out of his mouth, he sucked the words back in again. he didn't want to let the cat out of the bag. i still get clues every now and again though but nothing said explicitly.
i am the same with my scorp venus. i was obsessed with him at the start. not so much obsessed now but he's still the first thing i think about when i wake up, the last thing when i sleep and not an hour goes by everyday when i don't want to know what he is doing/eating/thinking/laughing about.
it's comforting to know that you guys feel that way too.
(thank you for asking though 😉)
I think male bulls are more tight lipped than the females but that saying, I too have trouble verbalizing the beautiful thoughts I have inside.
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he says the most beautiful sweet things to me sometimes. much more than i say to him. but i'm a libra woman and we don't put much stock in that kind of thing normally but his romantic words leave me speechless at times.
(actually, truth be told, they often bring me to tears).
Yes we are obsessive .. for me having a scorpio moon doubles that obsessive thinking lol .. I hold myself back rather too much though
Me too! When I am with him I am then shy, and more reserved too. But I feel so much inside though. This confession of love between us is new, exciting and scary. Time will tell..
this is comforting to hear
Whats up jeane?
Everything okay?
yes! all good in the 'hood. i just meant by that that you guys can be quite tight lipped!
i got a blatant hint of this obsessive behaviour once but as it half stumbled out of his mouth, he sucked the words back in again. he didn't want to let the cat out of the bag. i still get clues every now and again though but nothing said explicitly.
i am the same with my scorp venus. i was obsessed with him at the start. not so much obsessed now but he's still the first thing i think about when i wake up, the last thing when i sleep and not an hour goes by everyday when i don't want to know what he is doing/eating/thinking/laughing about.
it's comforting to know that you guys feel that way too.
(thank you for asking though 😉)
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That's precisely how I think & feel of my Scorp love too! LOVE sighhh..... lol
this is comforting to hear
Whats up jeane?
Everything okay?
yes! all good in the 'hood. i just meant by that that you guys can be quite tight lipped!
i got a blatant hint of this obsessive behaviour once but as it half stumbled out of his mouth, he sucked the words back in again. he didn't want to let the cat out of the bag. i still get clues every now and again though but nothing said explicitly.
i am the same with my scorp venus. i was obsessed with him at the start. not so much obsessed now but he's still the first thing i think about when i wake up, the last thing when i sleep and not an hour goes by everyday when i don't want to know what he is doing/eating/thinking/laughing about.
it's comforting to know that you guys feel that way too.
(thank you for asking though 😉)
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Lol good to hear.
And yes, that all sounds too familar. I think my Gemini mercury likes to spill it all like word vomit.
So i say outloud often "im crazy about you OMG"
You and your taurus sound so well balanced. Libra and taurus is very harmonius when it works.
This is comforting to hear 😁
this is comforting to hear
Whats up jeane?
Everything okay?
yes! all good in the 'hood. i just meant by that that you guys can be quite tight lipped!
i got a blatant hint of this obsessive behaviour once but as it half stumbled out of his mouth, he sucked the words back in again. he didn't want to let the cat out of the bag. i still get clues every now and again though but nothing said explicitly.
i am the same with my scorp venus. i was obsessed with him at the start. not so much obsessed now but he's still the first thing i think about when i wake up, the last thing when i sleep and not an hour goes by everyday when i don't want to know what he is doing/eating/thinking/laughing about.
it's comforting to know that you guys feel that way too.
(thank you for asking though 😉)
I think male bulls are more tight lipped than the females but that saying, I too have trouble verbalizing the beautiful thoughts I have inside.
he says the most beautiful sweet things to me sometimes. much more than i say to him. but i'm a libra woman and we don't put much stock in that kind of thing normally but his romantic words leave me speechless at times.
(actually, truth be told, they often bring me to tears).
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My Scorp has done the same... I have several texts, I keep them and re-read them. Soo heartfelt and sooo beautiful.. I question if too good to be true sometimes. I have wanted his affection for so long. I cant control any of that though. So for today I am enjoying his affection and care for me as a friend whom he loves, and hope for the best.
this is comforting to hear
Whats up jeane?
Everything okay?
yes! all good in the 'hood. i just meant by that that you guys can be quite tight lipped!
i got a blatant hint of this obsessive behaviour once but as it half stumbled out of his mouth, he sucked the words back in again. he didn't want to let the cat out of the bag. i still get clues every now and again though but nothing said explicitly.
i am the same with my scorp venus. i was obsessed with him at the start. not so much obsessed now but he's still the first thing i think about when i wake up, the last thing when i sleep and not an hour goes by everyday when i don't want to know what he is doing/eating/thinking/laughing about.
it's comforting to know that you guys feel that way too.
(thank you for asking though 😉)
Lol good to hear.
And yes, that all sounds too familar. I think my Gemini mercury likes to spill it all like word vomit.
So i say outloud often "im crazy about you OMG"
You and your taurus sound so well balanced. Libra and taurus is very harmonius when it works.
This is comforting to hear 😁
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he has gem merc too and loves a chat but perhaps his taurus venus keeps him at bay. i'm glad you can spill it though. at least it's something you'll never regret. he most likely appreciates it more than you know.
this is comforting to hear
Whats up jeane?
Everything okay?
yes! all good in the 'hood. i just meant by that that you guys can be quite tight lipped!
i got a blatant hint of this obsessive behaviour once but as it half stumbled out of his mouth, he sucked the words back in again. he didn't want to let the cat out of the bag. i still get clues every now and again though but nothing said explicitly.
i am the same with my scorp venus. i was obsessed with him at the start. not so much obsessed now but he's still the first thing i think about when i wake up, the last thing when i sleep and not an hour goes by everyday when i don't want to know what he is doing/eating/thinking/laughing about.
it's comforting to know that you guys feel that way too.
(thank you for asking though 😉)
I think male bulls are more tight lipped than the females but that saying, I too have trouble verbalizing the beautiful thoughts I have inside.
he says the most beautiful sweet things to me sometimes. much more than i say to him. but i'm a libra woman and we don't put much stock in that kind of thing normally but his romantic words leave me speechless at times.
(actually, truth be told, they often bring me to tears).
My Scorp has done the same... I have several texts, I keep them and re-read them. Soo heartfelt and sooo beautiful.. I question if too good to be true sometimes. I have wanted his affection for so long. I cant control any of that though. So for today I am enjoying his affection and care for me as a friend whom he loves, and hope for the best.
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i wish you all the very best of luck. it sounds like you are off to a wonderful start.
this is comforting to hear
Whats up jeane?
Everything okay?
yes! all good in the 'hood. i just meant by that that you guys can be quite tight lipped!
i got a blatant hint of this obsessive behaviour once but as it half stumbled out of his mouth, he sucked the words back in again. he didn't want to let the cat out of the bag. i still get clues every now and again though but nothing said explicitly.
i am the same with my scorp venus. i was obsessed with him at the start. not so much obsessed now but he's still the first thing i think about when i wake up, the last thing when i sleep and not an hour goes by everyday when i don't want to know what he is doing/eating/thinking/laughing about.
it's comforting to know that you guys feel that way too.
(thank you for asking though 😉)
I think male bulls are more tight lipped than the females but that saying, I too have trouble verbalizing the beautiful thoughts I have inside.
he says the most beautiful sweet things to me sometimes. much more than i say to him. but i'm a libra woman and we don't put much stock in that kind of thing normally but his romantic words leave me speechless at times.
(actually, truth be told, they often bring me to tears).
My Scorp has done the same... I have several texts, I keep them and re-read them. Soo heartfelt and sooo beautiful.. I question if too good to be true sometimes. I have wanted his affection for so long. I cant control any of that though. So for today I am enjoying his affection and care for me as a friend whom he loves, and hope for the best.
i wish you all the very best of luck. it sounds like you are off to a wonderful start.
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Thank you so much! You as well! 🙂
Taurus are possessive and obsessive yes lol. I am too. FML.
Yes,
Some Bulls are 'internal' stalkers, and may innately obssessively think about someone.
Other person: "I haven't heard from you.....are you still interested?"
Bull {playing it cool} "I'm good...real busy." {sees the multiple texts from the other person, drowns in satisfaction, goes home and begin an online investigation on this person} I'm obssessing over this person....can I really trust this person?
this is comforting to hear
Whats up jeane?
Everything okay?
yes! all good in the 'hood. i just meant by that that you guys can be quite tight lipped!
i got a blatant hint of this obsessive behaviour once but as it half stumbled out of his mouth, he sucked the words back in again. he didn't want to let the cat out of the bag. i still get clues every now and again though but nothing said explicitly.
i am the same with my scorp venus. i was obsessed with him at the start. not so much obsessed now but he's still the first thing i think about when i wake up, the last thing when i sleep and not an hour goes by everyday when i don't want to know what he is doing/eating/thinking/laughing about.
it's comforting to know that you guys feel that way too.
(thank you for asking though 😉)
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My goodness aren’t they the best at starting to say something catching themselves and retracting?! You have to be listening closely to know what they wanted to say, or at least get an idea of it.
Taurus are so good at not revealing their hand!
As a Taurus I fully admit to obsessing hard. Yet looking at me you would never know. Which tends to lead to a relationships downfall. I’ve been accused multiple times for not caring enough when in fact I care so much I just don’t show it. Taurus like to know what they are getting into from day one. So they need to know everything about someone in order to make sure nothing surprising comes up. It’s a control thing. It’s crazy. I’m aware I’m obsessing. I realize it’s not healthy. Yet I do it just the same. SBS. Stubborn Bull Syndrome
Yes. I can't say because I'm not a Taurus, but way back when I was with one, he claimed I could "satisfy him on all levels" and that threw me for a bit and made me slightly uncomfortable yet such a turn on knowing I was something to be desired.
Its just like what Robert Frost said, "Love is the irresistible desire to be irresistibly desired." And man, that draws Scorpio energy in like you've no idea. I honestly had no clue my Bull back then had such strong feelings. It was only in hindsight but at the same time, whatever message they send, it'll be consistent so it's not hard to miss.
I though taurus are only obsessed about food and sex
Taurus are so good at not revealing their hand!
You're not paying close enough attention
I'm a Taurus, but I am not like that. Of course, I think about him but I don't wanna show him that I'm so obsessed or want to text or call him all the time. Maybe this is because I'm a moon in Gemini 🤔
Its not just a Bull thing. It is so a love thing. I have that same problem when i fall for someone. it drives me crazy. gggrrrrr
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Fellow Tauruses: When you like or fall in love with someone does that person become all you think about? I am consumed with that person, usually. I mean I work, and do my usual adult tasks etc; lol.. but in my quiet thoughts I'm always thinking of him or wanting to reach out via text or whatever (which I try not to do too much), or be with him when time allows. I try to play it cool, he gets weird and needs a bit of space often, which I understand, ... but inside I just cant get enough of him... he's a Scorpio.. friends for yrs, recently told me he loved me, he's an odd one, but I love him deeply. Our rship continues to grow at a snail pace, but its growing. Anyway, my question is are we as Tauruses naturally obsessive in love, or is this just me??