aBigMan2070
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I Met a Taurus Two Months Ago
Go for the Taurus. A true relationship is about companionship. A partner for the long run. A lover and a friend. Taurus and cancer are very compatible. This relationship is easy going and comfortable. Cancer and libra aren't the best of combinations. This is a 4,10 combo which means difficult communication.
Communication is key to a successful anything. Hence, being incompatible.
Follow your heart.
But wait, the Taurus has a boyfriend?
Communication is key to a successful anything. Hence, being incompatible.
Follow your heart.
But wait, the Taurus has a boyfriend?
You said it yourself, you feel more of a real compatibility with the Taurus. You're a cancer, you're intuitive, listen your gut.
If this Taurus girl is serious about her boyfriend...
Pay more attention to Aquarius, Virgo, scorpio, or sagg girls, those are good combos for you.
If this Taurus girl is serious about her boyfriend...
Pay more attention to Aquarius, Virgo, scorpio, or sagg girls, those are good combos for you.
I will see where things with the Libra go... if we come together again I won't fight it, but I see us being good friends as opposed to life long lovers-- but who really knows?
I will initiate contact with the Taurus however and see if we still have chemistry.
I will initiate contact with the Taurus however and see if we still have chemistry.
if the taurus is still with her bf.. drop the thought.. and dont try to get her closer to you in "that" way you want...
I almost let a cancer guy friend ruin my relationship with my current bf.. he obviously wanted to be with me, even when he knew how much i love my bf.. i ended up cutting all contact with the cancer.
I almost let a cancer guy friend ruin my relationship with my current bf.. he obviously wanted to be with me, even when he knew how much i love my bf.. i ended up cutting all contact with the cancer.
Posted by TxOgalThen how does one woo a Taurus in a relationship? I know she cares for him, but the tone in her voice was definitely lacking when he was brought up... she also mentioned how her family disapproved of him, which I could tell had something to do with her tone, so how does that weigh into a Taurus' decisions concerning a current lover?
if the taurus is still with her bf.. drop the thought.. and dont try to get her closer to you in "that" way you want...
I almost let a cancer guy friend ruin my relationship with my current bf.. he obviously wanted to be with me, even when he knew how much i love my bf.. i ended up cutting all contact with the cancer.
Posted by busyeyes88Eventhough I never agreed with busyeyes.. but I definitely agree with her on this one!Posted by aBigMan2070Taurus does not appreciate a person who tries to 'woo' them knowing that they are already in a relationship!!! It's deceitful!Posted by TxOgalThen how does one woo a Taurus in a relationship? I know she cares for him, but the tone in her voice was definitely lacking when he was brought up... she also mentioned how her family disapproved of him, which I could tell had something to do with her tone, so how does that weigh into a Taurus' decisions concerning a current lover?
if the taurus is still with her bf.. drop the thought.. and dont try to get her closer to you in "that" way you want...
I almost let a cancer guy friend ruin my relationship with my current bf.. he obviously wanted to be with me, even when he knew how much i love my bf.. i ended up cutting all contact with the cancer.click to expand
Taurus are loyal.. and just a thought by the way, how would you feel if she left him for you? dont think she'd leave you for someone else? cause if she could do it once, then she's probably do it again. you really shocked me by wanting to woo her while shes already in a relationship :/
Posted by TaniwhaDon't talk down to me child.
You say you are still in love with some libra but you wan't to take this woman from another man. Firstly you do not deserve to use the word love in your vocabulary, You don't know what it is. Secondly wtf are you thinking?
There's a chance my Libra won't return, & I felt the Taurus' attraction to me. I am merely keeping my options open so that I might have a play when the cards are dealt.
AaBigman2070...
I'm not certain what your question really is. You're speaking in puzzles and tapping into shaded areas. You mentioned that you and the Taurus shared similar goals. I highly doubt that. If you were actively listening, you would note that despite her disappointment with her current lover, she will continue to remain by his side, unless suited otherwise. This will be her decision to make. Attempting to woo her will not change her mind about him. Bulls are loyal, stubborn, and know their minds.
For Bulls,
Love isn't presented in an idealistic form of knight and shining armors and princesses. It's gritty, raw, pure,unconditional....and VERY realistic!
This means any romantic courtship on your part will fall on deaf ears, especially if your relationship patterns are temporary, fleeting, and superficial.
Yes, Bulls can spot the fly-by-night types with their eyes closed.
Not judging you.
Just 'educating' you.
I'm not certain what your question really is. You're speaking in puzzles and tapping into shaded areas. You mentioned that you and the Taurus shared similar goals. I highly doubt that. If you were actively listening, you would note that despite her disappointment with her current lover, she will continue to remain by his side, unless suited otherwise. This will be her decision to make. Attempting to woo her will not change her mind about him. Bulls are loyal, stubborn, and know their minds.
For Bulls,
Love isn't presented in an idealistic form of knight and shining armors and princesses. It's gritty, raw, pure,unconditional....and VERY realistic!
This means any romantic courtship on your part will fall on deaf ears, especially if your relationship patterns are temporary, fleeting, and superficial.
Yes, Bulls can spot the fly-by-night types with their eyes closed.
Not judging you.
Just 'educating' you.
Posted by aBigMan2070Another piece of advice my friend....Posted by TaniwhaDon't talk down to me child.
You say you are still in love with some libra but you wan't to take this woman from another man. Firstly you do not deserve to use the word love in your vocabulary, You don't know what it is. Secondly wtf are you thinking?
There's a chance my Libra won't return, & I felt the Taurus' attraction to me. I am merely keeping my options open so that I might have a play when the cards are dealt.click to expand
It's all or nothing with Bulls.
You're 100% in or you're 100% out.
If your Libra returns, then you love the Libra.
If the Libra doesn't return, then you love the Taurus.
See the 'twisted' logic in the scenario above?
Love for you is superficial, intangible, and weak.
Bulls can spot these types with their eyes closed.
Try not to get too offended.
It's simply the truth.
We are INCREDIBLY slow moving!!!! If the relationship is not going to offer some kind of stability, there is no way that I am jumping into it at all! For me, I will literally sit there and meditate about something for as long as I need to about anything before making a decision. If I feel that it is faulty, I will not fall into that trap. If it is secure, that I will most definitely go with that option. But again me making up my mind takes time. Do NOT pressure a Taurus into making a quick decision because you'll only anger us, and we will be bullheaded and rebel until we're ready, on our own terms. We are so patient, when it comes to major things/decisions it's pathetic!!
If she wants to enter into a relationship with you, overtime she will let you know. But since she is already in a relationship, her heart is already loyal to someone else, unless this person is cunning, unstable, manipulative, or mistreating her in some kind of way. As a Taurus, I don't put up with that and I will immediately cut off that person and avoid them at all cost.
And speaking for myself, as a Taurus woman, I don't want to be second best, I want to be first choice, so you going back and forth with your Libra ex is definitely a major turn-off, especially since I personally don't think too kindly of Libra's. In my Taurus mind, you either want me or her, and there is NO room for you to have feelings for her and me. It's one or the other, and to me, it better be me or I'm done, PERIOD and won't play that game. Taurus' expect someone to be as loyal to us as we are to them. That's only fair. Again we are an Earth, Fixed Sign.
As a Taurus, I liked to be pursued. That might be old-fashioned, but there is just something about a guy doing whatever it takes to be with you, without being forceful or crude. Taurus' love material possessions and food! These things can also be extravagant because we like natural/real things. To me, buying me things or food expresses to me that you care about me. So ideally, I would like to be with someone who is financially stable and can afford luxuries so we can share these things together.
Again, don't pressure her and if the attraction is there and she has made up her mind about you, she will in someway let you know.
If she wants to enter into a relationship with you, overtime she will let you know. But since she is already in a relationship, her heart is already loyal to someone else, unless this person is cunning, unstable, manipulative, or mistreating her in some kind of way. As a Taurus, I don't put up with that and I will immediately cut off that person and avoid them at all cost.
And speaking for myself, as a Taurus woman, I don't want to be second best, I want to be first choice, so you going back and forth with your Libra ex is definitely a major turn-off, especially since I personally don't think too kindly of Libra's. In my Taurus mind, you either want me or her, and there is NO room for you to have feelings for her and me. It's one or the other, and to me, it better be me or I'm done, PERIOD and won't play that game. Taurus' expect someone to be as loyal to us as we are to them. That's only fair. Again we are an Earth, Fixed Sign.
As a Taurus, I liked to be pursued. That might be old-fashioned, but there is just something about a guy doing whatever it takes to be with you, without being forceful or crude. Taurus' love material possessions and food! These things can also be extravagant because we like natural/real things. To me, buying me things or food expresses to me that you care about me. So ideally, I would like to be with someone who is financially stable and can afford luxuries so we can share these things together.
Again, don't pressure her and if the attraction is there and she has made up her mind about you, she will in someway let you know.
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