i need advice on loving a taurus

i've been involved with a taurus for about two years and when we first hooked up things were very good. now that the years have passed and we both have done things to hurt one another, he doesn't seem interested. the thing is, that when he's going through things, he runs to me for support. we've been friends for nearly 18 years but this is the first time we have been "together". i had an argument with him recently and i haven't heard from him. in my heart i feel like he's my soulmate (i am cancer), but i think that i should just leave him. any advice?

Although I'm replying I'm not sure I can offer much help; perhaps we can help each other. I an involved -- long distance though -- with an old Taurus friend I haven't seen in years. We are not speaking right now -- he has career changes and divorce to deal with. I know that he's my soulmate too; But I haven't contacted him in a few months. I sometimes act motherly due to the fact that I truly care for him. I'm not sure if Taurus men like that. I thought I once read they like women with maternal qualities but I'm not sure.

Anyhow, I would wait and give your Taurus male some space. He may have a lot to think about -- especially if your disagreement was just recent. But I truly believe these things happen for a reason -- and timing is everything. If you feel you've been waiting awhile you could send him one email and see if you get a response.

Perhaps you can shed some light about the motherly instict -- and more of their personality.

Good luck.

Why is it that anyone involved with a Taurus feels as though they are soulmates?
I sensed the same feelings this past year with my Taurus. I am Libra. I thought perhaps it was because of the fact we have the same planet, Venus.
But obviously that is not the case. I have read this same statement on several message boards.
I have a question for a Taurus, if there is someone who has had a Libra/Taurus love affair,and felt as though they had to move on, I would like to know what the turn-off was. He let me down so easy. I knew what was happening but didn't want to upset him either. Perhaps we were just there to comfort one another for a time. Well, it sure worked, but now I am spoiled. Once you have had the best, you may as well forget anything else.
Have a great year all of you earthy people.

It has nothing to do with being a Taurus; it is he fact that we met our soulmates -- who just happen to be Taurus.

You cannot control that -- it just happens.

im with a libra but im born on a cusp which is taurus/gemini..but o wells..still a taurus anyway, but well..yea.. i do feel as tho were soul matez, even tho we go through HELL sometimes lol we still work things out n still love eachother..yea.

I WILL GIVE HIM SPACE. I BELIEVE THAT ANYONE IN LOVE WITH A TAURUS HAS TO BE A PERSON WITH SELF-CONFIDENCE AND KNOW WHAT THEY WANT IN LIFE. THEY MUST ALSO HAVE A LIFE OF THEIR. THEY ARE VERY DIFFICULT PEOPLE, BUT ONCE YOU ARE IN LOVE WITH THEM YOU SEE A 360 IN THEIR PERSONALITY. THEY ARE TRULY GOOD PEOPLE! AS FAR AS THE MOTHERING THING, I THINK THEY LIKE TO STAND ON THEIR OWN TWO FEET AND HOLDING THEIR OWN MEANS A LOT TO THEM. I USUALLY WAIT UNTIL HE ASKS ME TO DO SOMETHING FOR HIM BECAUSE HE DOESN'T LIKE SPONTANEITY. I KNEW FROM THE FIRST DAY THAT I WAS IN LOVE WITH HIM, SO THAT'S ANOTHER REASON WHY I THINK THIS IS IT. ALL OF MY OTHER RELATIONSHIPS TOOK MONTHS FOR ME TO GET TO LIKE THEM, BUT THIS WAS LOVE AT FIRST SITE! I'LL LET YOU KNOW HOW IT ENDS!

Being a female taurus I will say this. We are head strong people, who like to know we can stand on our own 2 feet. Security is a big part of our lives. Being head strong, yes we are difficult people in the sense of love. Because we love with everything we have and then some, and we are good caring people(as most in other signs in the world). And because of that we will seek security, if we find un easiness- we go cold. We do like our own space,but love to share with our significant others. Good luck , and as soon as you give him space, if he's interested, he'll pull closer to you.

Thanks for your advice Taurus. My brother is a Taurus so I kind of understand the type of people Taurus' are which is why I continue to be in this relationship. Its a struggle and even if it does not work, this person has taught me a lot. As a Cancer I can be sometimes unstable and his strong character (although he does not know) has inspired me to do a lot. It seems that when you are in a relationship and the other person is weak they become your downfall. His character has pushed me to new limits including graduating from college. He's not perfect as none of us are, but if we do not continue this as a love affair I hope he'll remain the friend he has been for 18 yrs. (now how easy is that to go back to being friends)