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Hello everybody

Well, i have a story to explain first then i will need your help.

I'm leo man, 50 years old, french but leave in Thailand for more than 20 years.

I separate to my wife more than a year ago then, after a few month i met a taurus girl, more young than me, she is 25.

She is from Turkmenistan. She was working in Thailand.

To get it short, we met a few days and i told her than we had too much difference in age, .... but she didn't let go.

I had nothing to offer to her, i'm in reconstruction, i told this to her also.

Anyway, a few month later, we started a relationship.

We stayed together 6 month and the last month, we knew she was pregnant.

She had to go back to her country because visa.

A few days after she arrive to her home, she had problems about pregnancy. Lack of iron, low blood pressure (she have these symptom before also, nothing to do with pregnancy but it's a problem when pregnant).

She nearly loose the baby, had to stay in hospital 1 week, ....

Now, the pregnancy is better, baby is good. It's already 4 month pregnancy.

The problem is the following:

Of course she is really stubborn!!!! She is also goat, so i think it not help.

The doctor, 1 month ago told her that she wasn't ready for fly to come back.

Today, she go to hospital again, and doctor say that she still have low blood pressure and have to go back for a new check in 2 weeks.

I know little about this kind of problem. I know that people who suffer from iron deficiency, magnesium, ... or all minerals won't get healed by supplements. It help but not heal.

i belief that the doctor will tell her that she can't fly and will never say she can, money is money. She is in good hospital, it's a poor country, she is a customer.

The main problem is: in this case, i won't be able to see her and see the baby.

Her country is not different than north korea. I can not travel there, i can not be in contact with her, ....

So, i think she had to come back, quick as possible. Because in 2 month, it will be tricky. It will be 6 month pregnancy and travel is not a good option.

But, i don't know how i can explain this to her? I'm sure if the doctor say she can't fly, she will listen.

And if she had to have her baby there, then we will have much more problems as i explained about her country.

I don't know what to do. We speak all days, i try to help her as i can because i know it's not easy for her. She get upset easily, .... But i'm really affraid about what will happen and i don't eant put this stress on her.

If you can help, it will be great.

Thank you
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Posted by fredkao
Hello everybody

Well, i have a story to explain first then i will need your help.

I'm leo man, 50 years old, french but leave in Thailand for more than 20 years.

I separate to my wife more than a year ago then, after a few month i met a taurus girl, more young than me, she is 25.

She is from Turkmenistan. She was working in Thailand.

To get it short, we met a few days and i told her than we had too much difference in age, .... but she didn't let go.

I had nothing to offer to her, i'm in reconstruction, i told this to her also.

Anyway, a few month later, we started a relationship.

We stayed together 6 month and the last month, we knew she was pregnant.

She had to go back to her country because visa.

A few days after she arrive to her home, she had problems about pregnancy. Lack of iron, low blood pressure (she have these symptom before also, nothing to do with pregnancy but it's a problem when pregnant).

She nearly loose the baby, had to stay in hospital 1 week, ....

Now, the pregnancy is better, baby is good. It's already 4 month pregnancy.

The problem is the following:

Of course she is really stubborn!!!! She is also goat, so i think it not help.

The doctor, 1 month ago told her that she wasn't ready for fly to come back.

Today, she go to hospital again, and doctor say that she still have low blood pressure and have to go back for a new check in 2 weeks.

I know little about this kind of problem. I know that people who suffer from iron deficiency, magnesium, ... or all minerals won't get healed by supplements. It help but not heal.

i belief that the doctor will tell her that she can't fly and will never say she can, money is money. She is in good hospital, it's a poor country, she is a customer.

The main problem is: in this case, i won't be able to see her and see the baby.

Her country is not different than north korea. I can not travel there, i can not be in contact with her, ....

So, i think she had to come back, quick as possible. Because in 2 month, it will be tricky. It will be 6 month pregnancy and travel is not a good option.

But, i don't know how i can explain this to her? I'm sure if the doctor say she can't fly, she will listen.

And if she had to have her baby there, then we will have much more problems as i explained about her country.

I don't know what to do. We speak all days, i try to help her as i can because i know it's not easy for her. She get upset easily, .... But i'm really affraid about what will happen and i don't eant put this stress on her.

If you can help, it will be great.

Thank you
So you want the baby to be born in Thailand? You want her to disregard the doctors advice about her not being able to fly in her condition? I mean if she's a strong woman and she feels she can do it, but does she want to, though? You know, ignore her doctors advice and fly, anyway? It's difficult without all the facts.
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Y'all some viscous assholes. I've seen some sick shit thrown around here on DXP but this takes the cake.

Busy.........I'm ashamed of you. What you said was fucking heartless, even for you.
Heartless!!

Do you have children?

Let me put it to you this way.. If you had a daughter would you want a man TWICE her age getting her "knocked up"?? Unless you are a "worthless piece of trash", I would have the thought the answer would be no!!

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I thought he did have a daughter. Not 25 yet but a little Scorp girl. Busy, you're losing your touch, please be more harsh.
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Busy is British. We don't DO sugar coating!

I thought she went easy on him ?

That wasn't anti sugar coating, that was being rude for the hell of it. Just calling it like I see it.

If age had anything to do with her reaction, then I'm sure she wouldn't be to privy to someone's rude response to the 10+ age difference between her and her man. (No judgement on my part.)

Nowhere in the op that states that he "preyed" on this lady; it seemed like a relationship (if not one helluva stretch in age) between 2 consenting adults. Maybe despite his better judgement and his insistance that he had nothing to offer her, he still went through with the relationship.

Besides, we have no idea what her M/O is for hooking up with a guy 25yrs her senior in a country where the OP has been a resident for 20yrs; and considering her country's conditions. Now who looks like they're "preying" on whom?

Since that too would be speculation, I'm not gonna entertainment the thought. We just gotta leave it at question marks unless the OP says otherwise.

My point is, if you wanna be helpful, fine. If you wanna sugar coat, fine. If you don't wanna sugar coat, again, fine. If you can care less, keep it rolling. Just what's the point in being rude unprovoked?



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Oh I see... So you're allowed to air your opinion, and I'll quote you on your second line of text where you said you are 'just calling it as I see it' yet Red isn't allowed to air her opinion and call it as she sees it?

Why is this?
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Y'all some viscous assholes. I've seen some sick shit thrown around here on DXP but this takes the cake.

Busy.........I'm ashamed of you. What you said was fucking heartless, even for you.
Heartless!!

Do you have children?

Let me put it to you this way.. If you had a daughter would you want a man TWICE her age getting her "knocked up"?? Unless you are a "worthless piece of trash", I would have the thought the answer would be no!!

EO
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Hell yes I have kids. I doubt you do. Don't come at me with that shit.
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Y'all some viscous assholes. I've seen some sick shit thrown around here on DXP but this takes the cake.

Busy.........I'm ashamed of you. What you said was fucking heartless, even for you.
Heartless!!

Do you have children?

Let me put it to you this way.. If you had a daughter would you want a man TWICE her age getting her "knocked up"?? Unless you are a "worthless piece of trash", I would have the thought the answer would be no!!

EO
Hell yes I have kids. I doubt you do. Don't come at me with that shit.


That's right... Avoid the question! Would you want your daughter getting knocked up with a man old enough to be her father? Answer that?!
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Well of course not. I certainly wouldn't shame the shit out of her like you are if she made a poor decision in life like this though.

You obviously have no kids.
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Busy is British. We don't DO sugar coating!

I thought she went easy on him ?

That wasn't anti sugar coating, that was being rude for the hell of it. Just calling it like I see it.

If age had anything to do with her reaction, then I'm sure she wouldn't be to privy to someone's rude response to the 10+ age difference between her and her man. (No judgement on my part.)

Nowhere in the op that states that he "preyed" on this lady; it seemed like a relationship (if not one helluva stretch in age) between 2 consenting adults. Maybe despite his better judgement and his insistance that he had nothing to offer her, he still went through with the relationship.

Besides, we have no idea what her M/O is for hooking up with a guy 25yrs her senior in a country where the OP has been a resident for 20yrs; and considering her country's conditions. Now who looks like they're "preying" on whom?

Since that too would be speculation, I'm not gonna entertainment the thought. We just gotta leave it at question marks unless the OP says otherwise.

My point is, if you wanna be helpful, fine. If you wanna sugar coat, fine. If you don't wanna sugar coat, again, fine. If you can care less, keep it rolling. Just what's the point in being rude unprovoked?






Oh I see... So you're allowed to air your opinion, and I'll quote you on your second line of text where you said you are 'just calling it as I see it' yet Red isn't allowed to air her opinion and call it as she sees it?

Why is this?

Where did I ever say she wasn't allowed? If you can find it, please show me.

And how is me stating how her comment came off rude anything other than exactly what it was.

The whole point of my post.



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Red stated her opinion regarding OP's post.

You stated that Red's opinion of OP's post was rude.

You are allowed to state your opinion (which is Red is being rude) yet you criticise Red for stating her opinion (which is that OP has been a bit of an idiot).

Below is where you are saying Red is not allowed to state her opinion, it's like your rules or 'code of conduct' for posting. The last line is the one which basically says if you have nothing nice to say then say nothing at all. Which is you telling Red she's not allowed to post her opinion especially if it's rude because you don't like it and it doesn't fit with you.

My point is, if you wanna be helpful, fine.

If you wanna sugar coat, fine.

If you don't wanna sugar coat, again, fine.

If you can care less, keep it rolling.
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Y'all some viscous assholes. I've seen some sick shit thrown around here on DXP but this takes the cake.

Busy.........I'm ashamed of you. What you said was fucking heartless, even for you.
Heartless!!

Do you have children?

Let me put it to you this way.. If you had a daughter would you want a man TWICE her age getting her "knocked up"?? Unless you are a "worthless piece of trash", I would have the thought the answer would be no!!

EO
Hell yes I have kids. I doubt you do. Don't come at me with that shit.


That's right... Avoid the question! Would you want your daughter getting knocked up with a man old enough to be her father? Answer that?!
Well of course not. I certainly wouldn't shame the shit out of her like you are if she made a poor decision in life like this though.

You obviously have no kids.


EXACTLY!!!! Ffs.... Don't bs!!!! "black" is "black" ! A spade is a spade!! Don't bs!!

You wouldn't want that for your own daughter but you would have a go at me for telling a 50 year old man who has preyed on someone else's daughter!! So what you wouldn't want for you you give to someone else!!! Shame on YOU!!

At least I treat EVERYONE the damn same!!! You should know better after all you are the one who has a child!!! Let us see if it the future your daughter is the other party in the same predicament that the OP did for this 25 year old and see what your reaction would be then!! Smh!!

I hate fake people!!!
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You need to slow your roll there homie. I said I wouldn't prefer it, it's her choice. I wouldn't shame someone over something like that. She's carrying a baby. It's a life. It's an innocent child.
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@Sssupes. What I said what not any more rude than what was said in any of the other posts... So you can put your wooden spoon back and stay out of my soup!
Come on. We both know I don't use wood Busy, those have splinters.


I don't a shit how it's made... Just don't encourage 50 year old men to prey on women half their age...!!

Wait till your daughter grows up!!! Time will tell huh?!
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She's fucking 25 years old and I'm sure she's had a few dicks up in her. She ain't exactly a rookie busy. Chill your overbearing ass out
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@Sssupes. What I said what not any more rude than what was said in any of the other posts... So you can put your wooden spoon back and stay out of my soup!
Come on. We both know I don't use wood Busy, those have splinters.


I don't a shit how it's made... Just don't encourage 50 year old men to prey on women half their age...!!

Wait till your daughter grows up!!! Time will tell huh?!
She's fucking 25 years old and I'm sure she's had a few dicks up in her. She ain't exactly a rookie busy. Chill your overbearing ass out


Like i said Ssupes your time will come.... Your child will be 25 in no time... Youve got it coming don't worry!! It's all good!!
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By the time she's 25 you'll be in a nursing home and I hope there's no wifi

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No. Wrong again. You keep saying that I'm saying that Busy can't have her opinions, but I can have mines. Still, even if i did criticize her, I never said that she wasn't entitled to her opinion. You're reaching too deep now.

I have no code of conduct about posting. Me saying keep it rolling means if you don't care for the topic, then find one that suits you. (Sorry if I didn't make this clear.) Not - "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."

Yet still, I never said she wasn't entitled to her own opinions.

And in quoting me, you left out a legitimate question of why make rude comments if no one's provoked you personally.


To answer your legitimate question, in this case, I don't see her comment as rude. I see it as a comment. It's subjective. You think it's rude. I don't.

So you're saying it's ok to make a 'rude' comment IF someone personally provokes you... Damn, you have more rules and regulations than the European Union! I feel like 1984!
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@Sssupes. What I said what not any more rude than what was said in any of the other posts... So you can put your wooden spoon back and stay out of my soup!
Come on. We both know I don't use wood Busy, those have splinters.


I don't a shit how it's made... Just don't encourage 50 year old men to prey on women half their age...!!

Wait till your daughter grows up!!! Time will tell huh?!
She's fucking 25 years old and I'm sure she's had a few dicks up in her. She ain't exactly a rookie busy. Chill your overbearing ass out


Like i said Ssupes your time will come.... Your child will be 25 in no time... Youve got it coming don't worry!! It's all good!!
By the time she's 25 you'll be in a nursing home and I hope there's no wifi


A Leo man will screw over your daughter just like the 50 year old Leo OP that you are so quick to defend.. Let us see what you will do then!

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She's a Scorpio so it will likely be a Taurus man that fucks her over

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I thought busy brags about young 20 year olds going after her and how they're a fun time in another thread.

Or maybe she was just saying that to brag about her looks.



Hmmmmmm

I can't tell when she "says it like it is" or when she throws things out to make herself feel better?

Either way French dude can have sex with a 25 year old since she's an adult.

I still think he got played.

What do you think @dastard?
I don't like you but I love you right now
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The reason why people here being rude because that is the manifestation of their very own self. That is the highest definition of their own. Being rude not helpful tho it just create havoc and chaos. It doesn't give sounds advice to the ones who needs it. I must say it did not fit to give advice. It just being coward and to make them feel validated they give strong and rude advice to convinced the victim but it got a reverse result.
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No. Wrong again. You keep saying that I'm saying that Busy can't have her opinions, but I can have mines. Still, even if i did criticize her, I never said that she wasn't entitled to her opinion. You're reaching too deep now.

I have no code of conduct about posting. Me saying keep it rolling means if you don't care for the topic, then find one that suits you. (Sorry if I didn't make this clear.) Not - "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."

Yet still, I never said she wasn't entitled to her own opinions.

And in quoting me, you left out a legitimate question of why make rude comments if no one's provoked you personally.
U think you are clever don't you. Even by the words you are using you are still trying to control what I say and how I say it..

Your comments are just as rude. It's not yr business. You answered the OPs question. You have no right to tell me what i should be saying or how I should say something..

LOL!!! Who's controlling you Busy? Surely not me! I haven't put one word in your mouth, and I sure as hell can't make you say it! ?

Why are you and AgentP911 putting all of this extra on what I said? Your comment was rude. Period. Make as many as you like. Or don't. But for heavens sake, don't let ME decide for you. Lol

Soooo not worth 3 pages of bs. Lol

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And why is it that people get so shocked and taken aback when they hear a young woman hooking up with an older dude as if this doesn't happen everyday?

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That's what I was wondering, it's not like a 25 yr old is a child, ppl do this in every culture, I know old men with wives half their age - how did this become such a hot button issue? Do I roll my eyes at yes but it's not a crime.
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No. Wrong again. You keep saying that I'm saying that Busy can't have her opinions, but I can have mines. Still, even if i did criticize her, I never said that she wasn't entitled to her opinion. You're reaching too deep now.

I have no code of conduct about posting. Me saying keep it rolling means if you don't care for the topic, then find one that suits you. (Sorry if I didn't make this clear.) Not - "if you don't have anything nice to say, don't say anything at all."

Yet still, I never said she wasn't entitled to her own opinions.

And in quoting me, you left out a legitimate question of why make rude comments if no one's provoked you personally.
U think you are clever don't you. Even by the words you are using you are still trying to control what I say and how I say it..

Your comments are just as rude. It's not yr business. You answered the OPs question. You have no right to tell me what i should be saying or how I should say something..

LOL!!! Who's controlling you Busy? Surely not me! I haven't put one word in your mouth, and I sure as hell can't make you say it! ?

Why are you and AgentP911 putting all of this extra on what I said? Your comment was rude. Period. Make as many as you like. Or don't. But for heavens sake, don't let ME decide for you. Lol

Soooo not worth 3 pages of bs. Lol




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That's one letter and three punctuation marks too many ?
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And why is it that people get so shocked and taken aback when they hear a young woman hooking up with an older dude as if this doesn't happen everyday?


That's what I was wondering, it's not like a 25 yr old is a child, ppl do this in every culture, I know old men with wives half their age - how did this become such a hot button issue? Do I roll my eyes at yes but it's not a crime.

The age difference isn't my cup of tea either, but they're both adults. From the op, he says that her country is poor, which makes me think that there may be a purpose for pregnancy.

But I really don't wanna get sacked into the assumption mill that runs rampant in this place. Lol

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It's true love of course ***cough cough***
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Ok she's using her kitty and her womb to get a visa out of you.

It's crystal clear.

You got to fund her and get her to you to raise the baby.

Happens all the time in Oz. I see old white men with young Bali wives.

Also Oz is filled with British women and they aren't as arrogant as the two c.unty fucks on this thread.


C.unty fuck. Super! ??




You're like Teller to Busy's Penn.

Only you don't shut up when she performs.

Be more like Teller.
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I met both Penn and Teller two years ago when I did the security consulting and managing for their UK tour. Penn has an awesome personality and communication style . Teller is super smart and funny with a great aura about him. You're right, we are so like them!

You, on the other hand, are just a cunt.



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The reason why people here being rude because that is the manifestation of their very own self. That is the highest definition of their own. Being rude not helpful tho it just create havoc and chaos. It doesn't give sounds advice to the ones who needs it. I must say it did not fit to give advice. It just being coward and to make them feel validated they give strong and rude advice to convinced the victim but it got a reverse result.


What are you talking about. The realistic thing is and a 50 year old Leo French man has knocked up a 25 year old half his age and right now he doesn't even know if they can even be together... That's the reality of it!! That should not have happened.. What is rude about that... As far as I'm concerned that is "preying" on a young person ok!! I am entitled to say what I want. I am merely stating a fact .. If the OP has something to say about it then fair enough but u, Lil and Ssupes can Kiss my ass!
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I don't have enough lips to kiss your ass. You're so full of yourself that it's unreal. What if she fucked him when he was drunk as hell? It's called entrapment, viscous women do that for visas and free rides. You called him a Creep? What if she's just a whore? Either way, you have no room to cast judgment upon anyone. You damn sure like to brag about the young men hitting on you. I bet that Leo moon needs that fulfillment so much you bedded one of those young bucks.
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Y'all some viscous assholes. I've seen some sick shit thrown around here on DXP but this takes the cake.

Busy.........I'm ashamed of you. What you said was fucking heartless, even for you.
Heartless!!

Do you have children?

Let me put it to you this way.. If you had a daughter would you want a man TWICE her age getting her "knocked up"?? Unless you are a "worthless piece of trash", I would have the thought the answer would be no!!

EO
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Y'all some viscous assholes. I've seen some sick shit thrown around here on DXP but this takes the cake.

Busy.........I'm ashamed of you. What you said was fucking heartless, even for you.
Heartless!!

Do you have children?

Let me put it to you this way.. If you had a daughter would you want a man TWICE her age getting her "knocked up"?? Unless you are a "worthless piece of trash", I would have the thought the answer would be no!!

EO


I thought he did have a daughter. Not 25 yet but a little Scorp girl. Busy, you're losing your touch, please be more harsh.
Exactly!! Hanging out with the taurus is mellowing me... It's having such a bad effect on me that when I try and get my noisy neighbours to stfu and make a few enemies, they end up inviting me into their house for cups of tea and chat!! And we end up being on name term basis! It's bad! For a Leo rising my bark is worse than my bite!!! Not good!!! Too mellow these days!! And still "in trouble" with dxp members!!

Sssupes needs to stop following me around for attention!! Lol lol
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Busy is British. We don't DO sugar coating!

I thought she went easy on him ?

That wasn't anti sugar coating, that was being rude for the hell of it. Just calling it like I see it.

If age had anything to do with her reaction, then I'm sure she wouldn't be to privy to someone's rude response to the 10+ age difference between her and her man. (No judgement on my part.)

Nowhere in the op that states that he "preyed" on this lady; it seemed like a relationship (if not one helluva stretch in age) between 2 consenting adults. Maybe despite his better judgement and his insistance that he had nothing to offer her, he still went through with the relationship.

Besides, we have no idea what her M/O is for hooking up with a guy 25yrs her senior in a country where the OP has been a resident for 20yrs; and considering her country's conditions. Now who looks like they're "preying" on whom?

Since that too would be speculation, I'm not gonna entertainment the thought. We just gotta leave it at question marks unless the OP says otherwise.

My point is, if you wanna be helpful, fine. If you wanna sugar coat, fine. If you don't wanna sugar coat, again, fine. If you can care less, keep it rolling. Just what's the point in being rude unprovoked?




Hello! The girl is only 25!!! That's a HUGE GAP for a 50 year old man...

If you want to compare my age and my man there is only 9 years difference!!

The OP is OLD ENOUGH to be the young lady's father!! You sit here defending his age but to make matters worse, he has got her "knocked up" and in a separate country from knowing how difficult it would be to be in the same country as each other and the big age difference.

The young lady probably thought at his age he would look after her but look what happened to that huh?!!!

I don't give a shit what you lot think. His damn age is not just her only problem now is it!!! Smh! Smh! Smh!
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Busy is British. We don't DO sugar coating!

I thought she went easy on him ?

That wasn't anti sugar coating, that was being rude for the hell of it. Just calling it like I see it.

If age had anything to do with her reaction, then I'm sure she wouldn't be to privy to someone's rude response to the 10+ age difference between her and her man. (No judgement on my part.)

Nowhere in the op that states that he "preyed" on this lady; it seemed like a relationship (if not one helluva stretch in age) between 2 consenting adults. Maybe despite his better judgement and his insistance that he had nothing to offer her, he still went through with the relationship.

Besides, we have no idea what her M/O is for hooking up with a guy 25yrs her senior in a country where the OP has been a resident for 20yrs; and considering her country's conditions. Now who looks like they're "preying" on whom?

Since that too would be speculation, I'm not gonna entertainment the thought. We just gotta leave it at question marks unless the OP says otherwise.

My point is, if you wanna be helpful, fine. If you wanna sugar coat, fine. If you don't wanna sugar coat, again, fine. If you can care less, keep it rolling. Just what's the point in being rude unprovoked?






Oh I see... So you're allowed to air your opinion, and I'll quote you on your second line of text where you said you are 'just calling it as I see it' yet Red isn't allowed to air her opinion and call it as she sees it?

Why is this?
Too right AP!!! "pot calling kettle" huh!!
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Y'all some viscous assholes. I've seen some sick shit thrown around here on DXP but this takes the cake.

Busy.........I'm ashamed of you. What you said was fucking heartless, even for you.
Heartless!!

Do you have children?

Let me put it to you this way.. If you had a daughter would you want a man TWICE her age getting her "knocked up"?? Unless you are a "worthless piece of trash", I would have the thought the answer would be no!!

EO
Hell yes I have kids. I doubt you do. Don't come at me with that shit.


That's right... Avoid the question! Would you want your daughter getting knocked up with a man old enough to be her father? Answer that?!
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Busy is British. We don't DO sugar coating!

I thought she went easy on him ?

That wasn't anti sugar coating, that was being rude for the hell of it. Just calling it like I see it.

If age had anything to do with her reaction, then I'm sure she wouldn't be to privy to someone's rude response to the 10+ age difference between her and her man. (No judgement on my part.)

Nowhere in the op that states that he "preyed" on this lady; it seemed like a relationship (if not one helluva stretch in age) between 2 consenting adults. Maybe despite his better judgement and his insistance that he had nothing to offer her, he still went through with the relationship.

Besides, we have no idea what her M/O is for hooking up with a guy 25yrs her senior in a country where the OP has been a resident for 20yrs; and considering her country's conditions. Now who looks like they're "preying" on whom?

Since that too would be speculation, I'm not gonna entertainment the thought. We just gotta leave it at question marks unless the OP says otherwise.

My point is, if you wanna be helpful, fine. If you wanna sugar coat, fine. If you don't wanna sugar coat, again, fine. If you can care less, keep it rolling. Just what's the point in being rude unprovoked?






Oh I see... So you're allowed to air your opinion, and I'll quote you on your second line of text where you said you are 'just calling it as I see it' yet Red isn't allowed to air her opinion and call it as she sees it?

Why is this?

Where did I ever say she wasn't allowed? If you can find it, please show me.

And how is me stating how her comment came off rude anything other than exactly what it was.

The whole point of my post.




So my comments come off as "rude" and yours doesn't?! If the OP has something to say about it then let HIM speak. Not u!! Who are you—
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Y'all some viscous assholes. I've seen some sick shit thrown around here on DXP but this takes the cake.

Busy.........I'm ashamed of you. What you said was fucking heartless, even for you.
Heartless!!

Do you have children?

Let me put it to you this way.. If you had a daughter would you want a man TWICE her age getting her "knocked up"?? Unless you are a "worthless piece of trash", I would have the thought the answer would be no!!

EO
Hell yes I have kids. I doubt you do. Don't come at me with that shit.


That's right... Avoid the question! Would you want your daughter getting knocked up with a man old enough to be her father? Answer that?!
Well of course not. I certainly wouldn't shame the shit out of her like you are if she made a poor decision in life like this though.

You obviously have no kids.


EXACTLY!!!! Ffs.... Don't bs!!!! "black" is "black" ! A spade is a spade!! Don't bs!!

You wouldn't want that for your own daughter but you would have a go at me for telling a 50 year old man who has preyed on someone else's daughter!! So what you wouldn't want for you you give to someone else!!! Shame on YOU!!

At least I treat EVERYONE the damn same!!! You should know better after all you are the one who has a child!!! Let us see if it the future your daughter is the other party in the same predicament that the OP did for this 25 year old and see what your reaction would be then!! Smh!!

I hate fake people!!!
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