I rejected a Taurus, now I want him!!

So me and this georgeous man have been having a casual relationship for some time now.

After seeing each other for about 3 months (and having crazy sex too), he asked me to take it to next level. He even said he thinks this could be love... But I wasn't sure, so I said let's just take it slowly and keep doing what we are doing... I mean, I have never been, or wanted to be with anyone else, but I just wasn't sure about him. I wasn't playing with him, and I liked him a lot, but wasn't sure!

So we kept seeing each other casually.

The thing is, now, after another 3 months I now exactly what I want... I want him like crazy!! But I think he is not interested in having me as GF anymore. We still have sex, and everything is the way it was half a year ago. But I definitely want more now. Also, he told me he was dating others as well, but nothing serious, and no sex involved. Of course all this breaks my heart!

In the past weeks I have tried everything, I have been extra nice to him, cooking a lot for him etc. Do you guys think that if gently I show him that I care, will he want to be with me again? Or I had one chance and he sees me as Fbuddy, and that's it?

Thank you for reading my post.

If he said he wants to b with you, then he wants to be with you. He is basically respecting your decision not to be in a relationship, you now have to go to him and let him know that you are ready. Us Tauruses do not like rejection, if he is still sleeping with you then I think he really does care about you, the ball is now in your court.

I too have also been seeing a scorpio who told me she's not ready to take it to the next level, so i have taken my step back. Hopefully she may coke forward.

Posted by jules4242
If he said he wants to b with you, then he wants to be with you. He is basically respecting your decision not to be in a relationship, you now have to go to him and let him know that you are ready. Us Tauruses do not like rejection, if he is still sleeping with you then I think he really does care about you, the ball is now in your court.

I too have also been seeing a scorpio who told me she's not ready to take it to the next level, so i have taken my step back. Hopefully she may coke forward.

Thank you Jules.
I believe you when you say you Tauruses don't like rejection. I think I might have hurt his ego a bit too much.

Kinda reminds me of what i found in tumblr 😛



Hope you can get your bull back 🙂

Oh that is so true. ^

Nobody likes rejection. Nobody.

However, Taureans (from what I can make out, and Taurs do correct me if I'm wrong) love honesty.

So how about you say to him exactly what you've said to us here? That you weren't ready for a relationship but now you've gotten to know him better you want a relationship now.

Jump in, both feet - and speak from the heart, no messing around - make sure he hears your honesty and don't piss around - be blunt, be bold, be honest. It's better than torture, even if it comes with a risk of rejection.

Posted by NZAqua
Nobody likes rejection. Nobody.

However, Taureans (from what I can make out, and Taurs do correct me if I'm wrong) love honesty.

So how about you say to him exactly what you've said to us here? That you weren't ready for a relationship but now you've gotten to know him better you want a relationship now.

Jump in, both feet - and speak from the heart, no messing around - make sure he hears your honesty and don't piss around - be blunt, be bold, be honest. It's better than torture, even if it comes with a risk of rejection.

^This^

If he's still sleeping with you then he is holding out hope that you'll eventually fall for him too. He obviously cares about you very much. As another posted suggested, we Taureans truly value honesty. Go to him and be upfront and honest....don't play games or wait for him to initiate again. His ego most likely won't allow him to take the risk of initiating again. You'll have to this time.

Thank you guys for replies, your answers are truly appreciated.
I do realize that he feels he has been fully rejected and obviously nobody likes that. However, it is especially true about the Taurus because his ego is quite big, LOL. I guess I will just have to talk to him about this, because I am absolutely sure that want to be with him. Even if he rejects me, I don't think I could be with anybody else fro the rest of my life. I love everything about him so much.
Anyway, 2 of you have suggested to be upfront without playing the "oh I am so nice now" game. I mean, it is not a game, I just thought I could show him how much I care about him and spoil him a bit. because we all know they like that. But I will talk to him and let you all know what happened.