Interesting Taurus man story

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nessybatty
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8 Years

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Maybe not so interesting... still...

I met this Taurus guy 5 weeks ago online and we hit it off right away and he showered me with compliments. And I told him at time to contact me if he wants to talk again. I was gone on vacation and after I got back, I thought of him one day and messaged him. He responded enthusiastically. The chemistry was clearly there. At one point, I asked him why he hadn't messaged me and he said he waited for me to message him and that would confirm that he was worth it. I told him I don't think that way. If I want to contact someone, I just do.

Anyhow, for 2 weeks, we kept in touch and had some great time chatting with each other. He told me about his personal life which is quite challenging at the moment but he also confided that he can't completely trust me if I don't open up to him (give him my number and so on). Being the Cappy that I am, I told him that I will, in due time. He accepted and we would move on. He showed tremendous interest.

I remember one night, we talked to each other for hours and told that we do have weakness for each other. I thought all was fine, but the very next day, he started off with how he can't be comfortable with me if I don't open up and he accused me of my insecurities and arrogance and said he will leave. He was blunt and tactless.

I didn't see it coming at all but him threatening to leave really pissed me off. I told him that I do care about him but he will never black mail into doing something. And I would do it when I feel the time is right and not when he thinks I should. While I was making my point, he apologized and I felt he almost enjoyed me standing up for myself. I told him that he if wants to leave, he should feel free and I wish him luck. He said he doesn't think I am being true to myself, so he is leaving. That man and his vague comments!

He is a very clever, smart, intuitive individual. Probably his boon and curse. He over-analyzes everything and pushed me too far enough because he couldn't live without knowing everything and the uncertainty! I am sad he is gone, I enjoyed his company. And my guess is he is too proud to come back. I don't need any advice except I still think of his behavior, laugh and sigh. I want to shake him by his shirt and ask "why you had to ruin a good thing?"