I am a cancer girl and oh yes I am jealous Just don't like sharing, but I never show my jealousy)
I am a cancer and i am currently seeing an aries guy. From the very beginning he was very open, talkative, straight forwarded and touchy. He texts me non stop, sends me pics, asks me out (we live in different cities but he always comes to see me even if it takes him 2h to drive). He is very direct about how he feels and keeps telling me that he likes me, that he is having fun with me, that i am smart etc. Sexual attraction plays a big role as well. I think sex is very very important to aries guy. Comparing to other zodiac signs (taurus or virgo), aries is easy to understand - he is direct, open and you don't have to be guessing if he likes you or not.
Posted by yupvirgoo
You know he's really obviously into you but the distance maybe kinda bothers him but I think you're overanalyzing this.

What's your sun sign?


I am a cancer, well overanalyzing is what I do often Maybe the key is that I expected his help when he said he could help, without any questions, cause I would help him no matter the distance.
I know this taurus man for about 1,5 year. I know he likes me, but I am still wondering whether he sees me only as a good friend, or more - he never initiated sexual contact except hugging, touching my back or hand. He says he respects me and trusts me a lot, he texts, calls, asks me out, even asked on a trip for 4 days, we always spend one on one time, he gives me small trinkets, pays for lunch, goes extra mile to see me (we live in different cities), asks for my opinion, his mom knows me and etc.
I know that he is slow in everything and he said he doesn't see the point in rushing to get committed with somebody and that he is very cautious about letting people into his life.
I appreciate what he does for me and the way he treats me, I really value his trust, but yesterday I was a little surprised. I said that I bought a new bed and asked if he knew a company that could help me with delivery in my hometown. He said he didn't knew any and that he could help me himself, but I live so far from him (250km). I told him that I could pay for his trip as we both understand that everything costs (I know he is not in the best financial situation right now).
He said it's a bullbutter, as he doesn't like when money pops out in the friendship and that he wouldn't like to take money from me. I made a joke and said I would give lots of food instead. We laughed and I said we'll see, cause maybe I'll find somebody to help me from my city. Then I changed a topic.
My question is why did he offer to help me (several times in that conversation), and that started talking about me living to far and giving a hint that distance would be a problem.
If I knew that I wouldn't be able to come and help somebody because of the distance, I wouldn't offer my help at all. We both do not like counting money in every step we take like buying coffee for each other or sth. He pays for me most of the time, but this time I didn't get the point - he offers to help but then says that I live so far away and gives a hint it is an obstacle.
Does he look at us so formally? Or am I really just a casual friend and nothing more? If he needed help I would never pop out a question about distance or any other obstacle.
Any opinions?
Posted by JohnTheBaptist100
Mine does Both...

If a Taurus man is into you will know without a shadow of a doubt..

Agree but you have to know that from something. So my question was from what? Actions or words? 🙂
Is it true that taurus men tend to show their feelings through actions, rather than words? How to know that taurus man is not just being friendly, but wants more?
What are main "actions" showing that a woman is special?
Posted by HeavenlyLilz
@Yupvirgoo I thought that too but he has told me point blank that he thinks about me all the time. We knew each other in high school but never got together life had other plans. flash forward more than 10 years later life may have planned right. He's told me he thinks about me all the time and hasn't gotten over me from HS and that he wants to be with me. So I'm just confused when the words and actions don't match especially with what I've been reading with Virgos.

@Kikyy I am also a cancer woman so I know all too well about needing openness and expressiveness (will be my downfall lol). For you when did the hot and cold stop or how did you get it to stop? Did you ever do the hot and cold act with him? Trying to decide if I should pull all the way back again or be the one to take most of the lead. We've gone through this a few times and he comes back all the time.

My virgo used to say that i was perfect, smart, unique, that he wanted to be with me, bla bla..and then after a small disagreement he became distant. The more i tried to understand what was wrong, the more he ran away. Finally he ended everything with his silence. Their words usually never match their actions (i knew several virgo men in my life). Virgos are mutual and they live for the moment, when they say they love you they mean it, but the next minute they can get critical and start hesitating about their "love" and distract in order to sort things out. Virgo men are smart, loyal, caring but very difficult to deal with as they are always scared of their feelings...
I am a cancer woman, and I had a relantionship with a virgo man. He used to be hot & cold. Unlike cancers, virgo men have problems expressing their feelings. He always got distant when feelings got involved.
Virgo men understand everything on a rational level but they get lost when it comes to feelings and emotions. As I am cancer, i need to be open and I think I used to scare my virgo man with being too emotional
I am a cancer, so I don't find it difficult to open up and talk about my emotions. I just taurus taurus man is not that way, he is reserved and cautious and takes his time to decide. I accept that as I do not want to rush with him.
He once told me directly that he respects me as a woman which I really appreciate. I agree that I will probably have to be the one to make a move, cause we've been friends for 1,5 year and he might be scared to loose me as a friend and might not be sure about the way I feel.
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Posted by Kikyy
About 1,5 year

I hate you guys
Jk secretly true lol
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What to hate for?
I don't know..we both are in a kinda friendzone. But we both understand we enjoy spending time together) we actually never talked "about us". I just know he is really serious about commitment, relationship and etc
Taurus men are know to be very sensual and sexual and they really have lots of sexual energy. They are also slow to let a women into their life. If a taurus man is showing signs of affection, investing his time and money in a girl for a long time, but doesn't initiate sexual contact, does this mean he values her and sees her as more than just a lover? Taurus men don't waste time, money and energy on just somebody, so what are your opinions?
I am a cancer girl, and i totally agree it's soo hard to let your ex go. I also tend to think a lot after break up, I feel the desire to call and text him, but..it's not good.
personally i think the best thing to move on and forget your ex it's to find a new object of admiration, so that you could 100% concentrate on him
It's a typical virgo man. Virgo men are rational, practical, but when feelings are involved they get lost. They are scared of emotions as hell. I had two virgo guys in my life so I know virgo men traits really well. They are careful and slow to commit, they always search for "perfect". They are very contradictory, as they want to love and to be loved, but they are afraid of that at the same time. As soon as serious feelings get involved, they tend to pull back and to "understand" what is going on on a rational level, as they can't handle their feelings well. They have to distract and to sort the things out, to see if it fits their perfect blueprint.
Even though I've been hurt by virgo men in the past, I can admit that virgo man is good catch and he can make you feel the happiest girl in the world, but he can hurt you the most too. My main advice is to not live his life and never build your life around him cause you will be doing that for ever. Be yourself, have your goals, yet be domestic and caring, don't be overwhelming. Never show a virgo man how much you want him and need him, play it cool, simple as if nothing serious is going on and he will not feel so scared of feelings, he won't feel pressured. The more YOU pull away, there more he will want to chase you
But know, that even in serious relationship, virgo man will never become emotional He will always live on mental level more, than on emotional.
Good luck
I am living my life and I do not feel a need to have him, I have other options too, just his behavior makes me feel confused as I really enjoy being with him. In the beginning he used to say he didn't want a relationship, that he liked being single, but I haven't heard these words for a long time. Maybe he changed his mind, maybe he just stopped talking about that.
I know his mind set - he does something only if he is sure, he doesn't like playing around, that's for sure. I would also agree that it might be difficult for him to start something after 4 years being single.
I was interested in hearing opinion about taurus man behavior like this, cause I think men can say many things, but actions show what they really want.. I guess
Anyway, thanx for your opinion guys
Posted by thoughtful-libra94
Posted by Kikyy
I am a cancer myself, and my last ex was a cancer too, so I can say that a cancer man is very emotional, unlike, for example, taurus or virgo men, cancers are not afraid to show their emotions.
If a cancer man likes you, he will tell you this verbally, also will be very touchy, attentive and kinda clingy. One more obvious sign is jealousy. In general, unlike earth signs, cancers tend to show their feelings openly and they are not afraid of them, so you will know

But say if a Cancer isn't verbal about liking you, what would he do instead? Say if he gets extremely shy around you..,

Appreciate the advice
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Well, my ex who was a cancer, was very very clingy, always wanted to be around, every free minute he wanted to spend with me, he was also very touchy, lost of kisses, hugs, holding my hand all the time.
I am a cancer myself, so if i really like a guy, I also tend to become clingy I want to be around him all the time..just i am 28 now, so I have some experience and i know how to control myself
I know several virgo men, and they usually never say "sorry". Virgos are rational, and they get always lost in their emotional world, they are really complicated. I don't think virgo men are honest saying "sorry", I think it's something like "let's forget the bullbutter and move on".
They hardly express their feelings, and they usually understand they did something bad they just can't explain that on rational level, so they just pretend nothing really happened and "sorry" probably means they don't wanna get back to that topic.
I am a cancer myself, and my last ex was a cancer too, so I can say that a cancer man is very emotional, unlike, for example, taurus or virgo men, cancers are not afraid to show their emotions.
If a cancer man likes you, he will tell you this verbally, also will be very touchy, attentive and kinda clingy. One more obvious sign is jealousy. In general, unlike earth signs, cancers tend to show their feelings openly and they are not afraid of them, so you will know
If he is already treating me as more than a friend, why is he shy to cross the intimate line? I know his attitude that he doesn't fool around and doesn't like playing games, but he never tried to even kiss me. He gives me hello and goodbye hugs, accidentally touches me, doesn't step back when I touch him but still?