Is this Taurus playing games?

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ladysag75
@ladysag75
13 Years

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Hello everyone. I am in a situation here and I don't know what to do. I met a taurus man through work some years ago. We started off hot and heavy. During an intimate moment I told him that I loved him and he told me that he loved me too. Then we had a misunderstanding and he disappeared for 3 months. I was heartbroken and prayed. He lived in another state and when he came back to work we saw each other and picked up again. We never discussed the previous problem. At times he would disappear then come back. I told him that I wanted to move to his state and asked it that was ok with him and he said yes. I put him through school and in return he sent me a bread maker for Christmas and chocolate covered strawberries to my job. When I told him that I was planning a cruise for my daughter he said that he wanted to come. It when I moved he cut off all communications again. So I send him a text wishing him luck and that I hope his new girlfriend made him happy. He sent me a picture of myself and that was it. 2 months late he sends me a text about how sorry he was for the lack of communication and that he wished that we could be friends again. So we were good for a while. He made me dinner and when he thought that we were working again made and brought me food. When we were training (exercise) my daughter the match maker asked him when he was taking me out and he said when the time was right. Then she mentioned a guy that liked me and he got real quiet and kept pulling my mat closer to him. This was a Thursday. On Friday he told me to meet him at the park for training during his lunch break. Which I did. That evening he asked me if could borrow 20 which I gave him but I also asked him if he was involved with anyone. He replied with no time. Then he went silent again. So on Monday I saw him again then Tuesday he asked me why I asked him if he was seeing someone. So I told him that his silence hurts my feeling and that all I wanted to do was be there for him. I told him that I loved him so much. He then responded "I guess I'm the bad guy". I replied that no he wasn't and that I never thought he was but to be honest with me. If he wasn't interested to just tell me. Now response since Tuesday.
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@TaurusLovesScorpio
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Firstly - stop giving this guy money. You put him through school? What does that mean? You actually paid for his school? I hope not. I have definitely met some real grubby bulls out there looking for someone to support them. Do not do it. These are the worst, most immature/spoiled type of Taurus people. They may not be malicious with it, but they will milk you until you cut them off. Whole situation sounds like a power imbalance and a bit unhealthy. I think you need to be really clear about what a man's intentions are when you have a kid, and walk away if it seems off over time, put distance between him and the kid at least...
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ladysag75
@ladysag75
13 Years

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Illalupus I'm not sure what his other placements are. To be honest I'm not sure how to find out.

Taurus loves Scorpio. We don't have a child together. As for the schooling yes I paid for it. It was a short class. Nothing huge. Yes I tend to be very giving to a fault. I help anyone in need. He has a great job. He actually works more than I doI just don't understand this whole situation at all. How can someone show so much interest then disappear. The signs were there. Can barely look me in the eye, the sly smile, cooking for me and I met one of his sons. This hurts more than I could ever imagine