Understanding this Taurus man

I met this Taurus man at my job, he gave me his number and so I texted him later on that night. .He texted "I look forward to seeing you again someday". He's always texting me first saying Good morning, hope you have a great day, how was your day?. 2 days later he asked for a picture (I guess that's the sensual part of Taurus wanting the physical security I guess) I didn't send a picture of myself so he sent a picture of himself I guess to make me feel comfortable and said "lets hang out"(it was 11pm -_-). 3 days later I texted "hey 🙂" and surprisingly he texted back and inserted a rose in his text (I guess Taurus men really are patient at that point I thought he would be mad and disappear). Then that was when I gave in and sent him a picture of me and he showered me with many compliments. The next morning we were texting randomly then he asked what I was doing tonight? I said work unfortunately. The next day he texted the usual hope you have a great day and that was the last time he attempted to text me. 5 days later I initiated the text and said hope all is well with you and he said "hey there!! your too!!" (loves using exclamation marks) and that is the last text we ever had it is now going 2 1/2 months and nothing. I'm pretty sure its over but I cant stop thinking about this man I dream about him , I get emotional and cry thinking to myself that I messed up on what could of been the best thing and that I'll be alone for the rest of my life (all due to my insecurities).



I feel so bad I miss him, I also think he stopped coming to my job because of me (he said he always go there but I barely see him and no I DO NOT play games) Apart of me didn't want to text him first and all because I know he is a busy man and I did not want him to find me bothersome etc.



btw I'm a Pisces sun Scorpio moon Pisces venus Aquarius mars he's a Taurus sun Scorpio moon Gemini venus Taurus mars 9 years difference



Is he over it/me? Was or is he waiting for me to initiate contact first to see where he stands and to see if I really want him badly (for all I know he could be talking to more females when we were talking idk)



I guess he made time to see me and I was never fully available to hang with him. Its funny because when we met my work schedule was hectic and now that we are distant I have all the free time in the world was it a sign lmao!



Anywho I miss his personality never felt this close to a male before, felt like I knew him in forev

Probably thinks you aren't interested. Try asking him to hang...Nothing to lose at this point.

Am I correct in understanding this all took place in about 2 weeks, from the time you met him and exchanged numbers?

@phEnyx yup 2 weeks lol

@tauruslovesscorpio yea that too, after all he did give me his number though he didn't ask for mine probably to see if I was interested

Oh hun, I think you're reading way too deep into the text convos during that time. Were these like earth shattering, life changing discussions? Lol

Like TLS, ask him to hang out, nothing to lose at this point. But in 2 weeks, there wasn't enough time to learn anything about where he is and whtst he's up to. There's a chance he has has decided to settle down with someone else, I which case he would cut off any periphery contacts. I don't think he gave up on you BC you turned him down once. But its hard to tell really from what you've said.

If you do reach out one more time, just know that you have to be ready to move on after that. It sucks trying to get over someone who's disappeared on you. I know first hand. But you really have no other choice at this point, right?


Take care of yourself!

@phEnyx I appreciate your honesty , I'll see what happens THANK YOU !

have you been with him physically? I mean to hang out with him in person? Wow.. Scorpio moon venus Pisces... that's a whole lots of water in there... I can only give out my opinion as a Taurus sun venus Gemini. We like to communicate... It keeps our mind going and keep us interested... I am hooked if I can't figure you out... could be my moon in Aquarius though. I like varieties and communication.... so just drop by n say hello.. maybe he's waiting for you to step up? Sending photos are venus in Gemini traits. I do that a lot... ony to those I really like though....

I had to wait about 6 or 7 weeks before my Taurus Sun Gemini Venus fella sent me a bloody photo of himself!

He wanted loads of me though! Nothing pervy, just normal.

He's sent a few more over the last few months so I could tell he was getting more comfortable with me. Plus he's a bloke, according to my man friends, sending a photo message is a big task!

@suntauvengem no we haven't gone out to hang, either he wanted to hang out too late (1st time) or I had to work late (2nd time) so I guess he stopped trying or maybe felt like he was bothering me 😢 even though I called him first. That's why I haven't called him because I didn't want to seen clingy since I really made the first move to communicate with him :/

@AGentP911 wow that's a long time guess I was lucky. He asked for a photo the next day we met I avoided the text for 3 days then he sent one of himself