jealousy issues...

how do you Taureans view jealousy and possesiveness?
i'm a Scorpio so i'm obviously struggling with this particular issue!

do you appreciate it or look upon it negatively?

I've never dated a scorp but I have dated a very jealous Gem for 4yrs. & like Toro says, his jealousy (when kept to a minimum) did give me a weird reassurance that he cared, He became wayyyy too possessive, I don't like to be questioned & or controlled, I'm a loyal person so I think the jealousy & possessivness gets really old after awhile & then it's too much to deal with. To me, those two traits = someone who has no trust & thats a huge turn off.

actually jealous is putting it lightly lol, he was on the verge of being psycho at times. Of course he wasn't the most monogamous person so he was probably reflecting his guilty conscience on to me & we we're young but we still talk every once in awhile & after 10 yrs, he's still the same so who knows lol

I do like a little bit of jealousy, but not the controlling, 'you can't go out without me' type of thing. Like Toro and CanTaur say, it does give you a weird reassurance that they like you! It's usually best when you're out with your mate and he sees someone looking at you so he acts super-affectionate so as to put the other guy off!

SO Taurus women will try to get the man there interested Jealous? ON purpose?

Shishno......Whoever said they did that? I think in all of our responses we all said that a little jealousy was reassuring however no one ever mentioned purposely doing things to make the other person jealous. In my case I didn't have to try, he was just a naturally jealous person. I'm sure due to insecurity. I have many examples but here is one..... While we were dating, he invited me over to his house & a group of his male friends came over, He must have seen one of them looking at me because about a half hour after they arrived he called me into his bedroom & told me I either had to change my pants or go home! Apparently he thought they were too tight. In this case I did nothing to warrant this reaction, I was sitting on the couch watching TV & then got up to get something to drink. There was nothing in my mind that was even thinking about his friends. I was 19 & stupid so I changed into a pair of his sweats LOL DUMB!!!!!!

Having said that, Yes there have been times when I have done little things to get a reaction out of my man, usually at the point of a break-up, Such as.....loosing some weight, getting a new hair cut, or buying a nice outfit. Which BTW are things I should have been doing all along for my own self-esteem! My motivation was "I'll let him see what he's about to give up" but in doing that I'd end up feeling better about myself & wouldn't even care what he thought anymore. I think most people to some degree do little things to get reactions out of there partner but if your with someone whose naturally jealous, you usually spend your time walking on egg shells to avoid the jealousy because as I said before, too much & too frequent gets REALLY old 🙂

Ya kno i hear about the jealousy thing and i dont see it. im not personally a jealous person regardless of the fact that moon is an aries, but my risings a pisces so i think that might be the reason im not really jealous (are pisces jealous?). either way i dont see jealousy as an issue for me personally, my scorp bf isnt even jealous he looks at it like 'isnt it better to lose it if it wasnt urs to begin with?'.

oh and on the making ur bf jealous... i'd prefer not to do that childish crap. honestly it just brings distrust into the relationship and do u really want that? if it attempted to make my bf jealous i'd get shot in the face.... he wont tolerate that. maybe thats why my relationships so balanced, we said from the very begining 'dont give me bs'.

lolz ur just a walking castastrophy! lol, dont sweat it we can all figure out ways to calm our fire down. its just 'stop, look and listen', like in those horrible vids i used to watch in grade school when they wanted us to learn manners. i never even thought of taurus' being jealous, maybe a little, but nothing out there.

you cant help it if someone becomes jealous, you just have to figure out how to calm it. once thats learned ur good to go.

lolz, men are always the problem! why are they such addictive creatures!? why must we fall in love with them and let them take our breath away!? i swear love is one of the most powerful emotions a person can have and it can make them go crazy and do so many things u never thought possible. it makes me wonder why we let ourselves fall. u cant choose who you fall for, but you can choose to accept it and express it. jealousy brings anger and rage, which leads to showing a side you probably would never have wanted to see. ever notice how intense jealousy can become and how a person can change so much over a short period of time?

Honestly i've just ended the 'worst week ever'... and you know what i've learned? Necver say you wish that someone would fall for you as hard as you fall for them. it's like ur asking for trouble! sometimes we dont realize how our actions affect other people, sometimes a lot more strongly than we had hoped for. sometimes we dont even realizing the damage we're doing to a person, just by simply existing!

jealously isnt always a bad thing, as long as its in a CONTROLLED environment! I mean for sporting events and school and sometimes even at work its great! if i didnt secretly become a little jealous of my co-worker, i probably wouldn't have pushed myself harder to be the best, in which i wouldnt have gotten promoted! perfect example how jealous can fuel the mind in the right direction