Likelihood of Taurus apologising...

Hi Bittersweet, sorry to hear this. I had time to analyze Taurus men and women and as a capricorn (who is not getting along with them surprisingly)my conclusion is that you should think of them as children. They seem to know what is wrong and right but they simply do not care. They are the most selfish people I've known on this planet. If they want something (even if that's your boyfriend) they'll do stupid things to get it/him/her. And after a while they will feel like they don't want it anymore because they get easily bored (maybe constantly with themselves?). I would suggest you to move on. These people do not even let go of their fckbuddies for years. Then when things go sour, they tell 'let's stay friends' LOL. If you let them to do what they want to do, they will never think of your interests or emotions. They will abuse you without limits. At the end, if you explain them how this gave you pain, they will tell you: "No body is supposed to take care of you. You need to deal with it yourself. You must have thought about your own interests beforehand and didn't let other people to abuse you". Full stop. That's that easy for them!

I dunno your sign :/ but after a quick survey I found that Taurus men tend to choose Scorpio and Aquarius ladies as fckbuddies the most. They like to play with the Libras' and Pisces' emotions and usually leave them in the dark. They are attracted to Virgos and Cappies but their attitude depends on their level of maturity. If they are free and wanna settle down, they might choose from these two (and plus Pisces perhaps). Otherwise, they fck them all! LOL

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Lol wow, you've given me something to think about borderlinecapri. I'm a Pisces by the way and you worded it perfectly- I was "left in the dark". I think my main problem is that I never got any closure so it kinda feels like something is still lingering...a chapter should always have an ending right ?
Do you know why they like to do this disappearing act ? is it intentional ?

If you look at many forums -including this one- You'll see that disappearing when things get sour is a typical Taurus act. By disappearing, he shows that he is capable of moving on. You look worthless to him now. This might change but are you willing to sacrifice your individuality and life for such a arsehole who would leave you in the dark at crisis times (when you need your partner the most)? Also, they are known for being 'dictators'. So, his interests, emotions, possessions always come first! You will always be thought as a secondary matter. In addition, even though they get married, many of them are cheaters simply because they separate physical love and emotional one and don't see sleeping with other gals as cheating.

The chapter is already closed. Don't wait for explicitness with these guys. They approach you in very subtle way (almost appearing as friendly rather than potential romantic interest). They leave you in that very subtle way too.

He might be thinking of other girls now. But don't be surprised if he comes back with some excuses soon and try to sleep with you again...

he's not interested in you...well, not interested in anything substantial from/with you. move on...

I feel you sweety. I am deeply sorry for the heartache he gave you. I wish he would have a bigger one asap. please try not to get hurt more than this. If he misses your treatment, don't satisfy his needs. If you find another partner, I'm sure he'll feel very jealous (as those types think their exes are still in their possession).
Have a great time and try to focus on something else right now. You did everything to save the relationship but he acted as a coward. Treetrunk him.

People who don't understand us may call that cowardly.
It isn't.
What he was trying to do was save your feelings,hoping you'd get the hint.all though we are far from cowardly,and have the power to really hurt you if pushed far enough...most of us avoid hurting people if we can.
we don't care for drama,and when we smell it cooking...we leave the building.

As to 'disappearing'..never in my life. However if I feel like I'm being USED as an emotional tampon, you blow me hot and cold, hurt me or anything that even remotely smells of not in things just as hard core as I am, then feel free to use the door. It's not about hurting anyone or any of that nonsense... it's a deep and abiding loathing for drama in general, misspent emotion on one or both parts and a definite way of saying "ENOUGH NOW".

Posted by Bittersweet
Thank you everyone; I've already began seeing someone else 🙂

@ BellatheBull but do Tauruses that act "cowardly" to spare peoples feelings not realise how damaging silence can be ? I genuinely feel that i would have let go alot sooner if he was upfront with me...as opposed to perhaps giving me false hope by keeping shhtum and avoiding me. I still got burnt in the end..just non verbally.

Well really,I wasn't very specific earlier.I guess the retreat method in my own life is only used for people I'm not close to,but just can't take a hint.know what I mean? when I've given every subtle clue and hint I'm just *cough* not into you...and you still don't get it.if I know you are a weaker person emotionally than I am,I do try and protect you, as stupid as that is.
a real relationship is completely different,and there is no retreat,no fading away...there is real communication,good ,bad,or ugly.
I don't know the level of your relationship,and I guess I was getting the vibe you were far more into him than he was you.

^^^that didn't come out right.
but,really...if someone does not respond to calls and emails...they are giving you your answer.
and if you keep trying to get an answer...that's drama,and we try to avoid that.

Hmm,
You make a fair point. oh well..

I didn't see you slip in there on me between postings 😉
I don't know,but it probably IS his loss.and I can't speak for the males of our breed or the females either really,lol...I'm a lil wonky with my water placements. 😄

Thank you for not taking any of that defensively,as seems to be the norm around here.
quite refreshing to have an open mind to speak to.

Lol no problem! I know that Tauruses tend to be "annoyingly realistic" so I came here prepared- with an open mind 🙂
Also the truth does usually hurt, so maybe that's why people get defensive on here..
Thanks for your insight though, it's given me a bit of food for thought.

LOL I like that. 'annoyingly realistic'. 🙂

I don't know about defensive, though it may come off that way. Wanting someone to know the straight poo, and nothing but the poo is more accurate. No sugar coating. 🙂

@Reason I know right lol, I don't know why I over complicate my life. At the end of the day everything is a choice, so i don't know why i'm [subconsciously] choosing to let him have some sort of hold over me, kuz he never explained his actions.hmph.

I should really forget about it...since the chance of him loosing any sleep over what he done is pretty small.

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@Reason I know right lol, I don't know why I over complicate my life. At the end of the day everything is a choice, so i don't know why i'm [subconsciously] choosing to let him have some sort of hold over me, kuz he never explained his actions.hmph.

Frankly, i didn't mean that

Forgive me my bluntness, but i believe your story is fake,

your position is

by default everyone owes you something, and they need to apologize

if they do not live up to your sick fantasies


No. That's a wrong assumption. You'll never ever have it this way of yours, at least in a long run.


Stop sucking people's blood. What's sweet for you is bitter for the rest

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- I don't feel that everyone owes me something, even Taurus dude- I see an apology as a bonus..NOT a given.
- I do have odd fantasies sometimes although "sick" isn't a word i'd use to describe them ; maybe quirky ?
- I wasn't aware that I was a blood suker 😐
- And I kinda like what you did in the last sentence- "What's sweet for you is bitter for the rest". I find it witty because it's linked to my name 🙂
::wonders if it was intentional::

That is all.