Need help with Taurus man

This story is going to be long. It started back in December when he kept pursueing me until February when finally we went on a date. It went really well until and he said he wanted to see me again. He even asked introduced me to his friends and asked people about me. But after that we stopped talking until I finally asked him what was going on and he said that he was no good for me and he didn't think I could handle him. We had a really long conversation and he finally said you are so persuasive I want you. Then we go for another two weeks without talking and he begins to pursue me again in april. Again the date goes really well and he is sharing his secrets and huggging me and kissing my cheek and being really affectionate. But he started asking me about my past and what boys I talked to. And during one time we were texting someone took my phone and he asked who was the one that took it. It was one of my friends that was afraid of him so I promised not to tell Taurus that it was him. So I just told the Taurus man it didn't matter and he said I was keeping secrets. I was also short about my past because I really didn't have any, I have never had a serious relationship before because I am a 15 year old Leo girl and he has( he is 16). After that date he became distant. He would still respond to my text messages but he wouldn't initiate contact. At school he would always stare and try to catch my attention by standing in my vision. He has said why I never say hi to him at school but I am just shy. I went 2 weeks without talking to him to see if he would miss me and try and contact me but he didn't. But during those two weeks he would post snapchat stories of girls and would delete them after I saw it. He also drove by me and my group of friends and yelled "fuck you all" when he passed. And he would talk louder with his friends when I would walk by them too. I finally messaged him and asked if he was just busy or just not interested and he said "not interested 😢" and I said "that's fine can I know why?" And he said "I don't know" was it because I didn't answer his questions and I was being shy at school? I really like him and believe that there is still a chance that it could work. How do I get him to give me a chance to prove that I am loyal and trustworthy. I am willing to be a lot more open and do what ever it takes to win him back. What are somethings that I can also do to reconnect with him.

@Leogirl,

You're a Baby Lion, and he's a Baby Bull.

Two unevolved individuals getting together is a recipe for disaster.

Here is the scenario,

His personality has a lot more to do with how he was raised, the environment he grew up in, the rest is just astrology....my guess, a little more fast paced. Call it a gut instinct.

He likes you, but he is practical enough to know that is not going to work in the long run.

You're too timid, too secretive, unpredictable, inexperienced.

Something tells me that he prefers a woman with a little more swag, straightforward, and a little more confident. This trait is only expressed through more evolved Leos. You're not there yet.

It's like a New Yorker getting to know a small town girl from Kansas. If he's evolved, he can adapt, if he's 'unevolved', he will get frustrated at the pace that everything is going. An evolved Bull will not only appreciate the slow pace, but they would respect it.

Because he's young, he's going to want it fast and available. This is where the other young ladies come in.

Not encouraging you to be something that you're not, but working on your own self-confidence will work wonders.

Not only to make the communication lines flow a bit more organically, but to be able to spot the snakes in the grass as well.

When I was much younger(in my teens), I liked the guys who were charismatic, the swag, talkative, extroverts, confident, etc. My eyes lit up like Christmas trees when I saw these types of men. A shy introverted guy was NEVER in my peripheral vision. I didn't have the patience, the time, and the interest, regardless if I found them attractive or not. Their insecurities would be the ultimate deal breaker.

As I approached my 20's, introverted men was all I attracted, thus, my preference for Earth Signs.

I like the mellowness, the introversion, the humor, the quick wit, the mystery, the courtship phase, all that became sexy to me.

He's 16, you're 15. Neither are you are there yet.

Posted by TaurusBull1977
@Leogirl,

You're a Baby Lion, and he's a Baby Bull.

Two unevolved individuals getting together is a recipe for disaster.

Here is the scenario,

His personality has a lot more to do with how he was raised, the environment he grew up in, the rest is just astrology....my guess, a little more fast paced. Call it a gut instinct.

He likes you, but he is practical enough to know that is not going to work in the long run.

You're too timid, too secretive, unpredictable, inexperienced.

Something tells me that he prefers a woman with a little more swag, straightforward, and a little more confident. This trait is only expressed through more evolved Leos. You're not there yet.

It's like a New Yorker getting to know a small town girl from Kansas. If he's evolved, he can adapt, if he's 'unevolved', he will get frustrated at the pace that everything is going. An evolved Bull will not only appreciate the slow pace, but they would respect it.

Because he's young, he's going to want it fast and available. This is where the other young ladies come in.

Not encouraging you to be something that you're not, but working on your own self-confidence will work wonders.

Not only to make the communication lines flow a bit more organically, but to be able to spot the snakes in the grass as well.

This was really helpful thank you for the advice. Is there still a chance that I can show him that I know what I did wrong. I didn't realize how secretive I was being until I look back at it now. I have read up on some Taurus post and I understand them a lot better now. How can I make it so he gives me another chance to show that I can be straight forward and confident. Should I go up to him and say hi? Should i message him? Should I just show I'm confident around him. I really want to fix this before it's too late

Posted by TaurusBull1977
When I was much younger(in my teens), I liked the guys who were charismatic, the swag, talkative, extroverts, confident, etc. My eyes lit up like Christmas trees when I saw these types of men. A shy introverted guy was NEVER in my peripheral vision. I didn't have the patience, the time, and the interest, regardless if I found them attractive or not. Their insecurities would be the ultimate deal breaker.

As I approached my 20's, introverted men was all I attracted, thus, my preference for Earth Signs.

I like the mellowness, the introversion, the humor, the quick wit, the mystery, the courtship phase, all that became sexy to me.

He's 16, you're 15. Neither are you are there yet.

I usually am super confident around guys I just don't understand why I suddenly get so nervous around him. It's like I'm a totally different person. Maybe because he is older and his friends who are 17-18 make me feel intimidated but he has told me that his friends were bugging him to talk to me all the time and roasting him for not giving me a chance so I know that they atleast like me or approve of me. Do u have any tips to let me feel more comfortable and show my true self around him?

This is an evolved Leo...

Meet Kelis and watch this video.😉

Let it sink in.

Posted by Leogirl1238
Do u have any tips to let me feel more comfortable and show my true self around him?

Don' try to 'fix' it, this will show insecurity and desperation, thus, reaffirming his initial thoughts about you.

Instead just continue to give him a casual 'hello.' and keep it moving.

When he does approach you for a conversation, be yourself and let the conversation flow organically.

If you need a boost of confidence.

Watch the Kelis video again.

You're a Leo, you the bring the boys to the yard....😉