Oops! I did it again.

I met another Taurus lady! This time a 26 year old.

I say met, I've made contact with her via a dating site (that's how I meet everyone as I'm too shy to chat women up in the "real world") and we've been e-mailing and texting a bit. Hopefully we'll be meeting soon! Watch this space!!

Awwww, I've got a toothache. 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
Awwww, I've got a toothache. 🙂

Is that a metaphor? I don't get it?

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Posted by venusianbull
Awwww, I've got a toothache. 🙂

Is that a metaphor? I don't get it?

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Yes i do believe that was as in saying "aww that's sweet".

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Yes i do believe that was as in saying "aww that's sweet".

Ah, I've not heard that saying before, but it makes sense now!

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
Like a moth to our flame,huh ? 😉

Well how could I resist the charms of another of you lovelies? 🙂

Takes a charmer to charm. 🙂

COULD NOT HELP MYSELF

LOL VK.

Bella and Venusianbull, you two are the best! 🙂

Okay...

Me and Taurus girl texted one other intermittently yesterday. The last person to text was me, yesterday, at 11:51am. She hasn't replied yet. Should I chase her or wait for her reply? I know that Tauri like to play the long game, but also that they like to be chased. I want to ask her to meet up for a coffee but I want to make sure I strike the right balance between looking interested and looking desperate!

If it were me I'd be looking forward to a text. "Hmm, okay, is he really interested in me?" would be my stance. And you know us Bulls, we like the man to make the first move. 🙂

We think you're pretty snazzy too. Want to give you a big hug and put you in my pocket. 🙂

Posted by venusianbull
If it were me I'd be looking forward to a text. "Hmm, okay, is he really interested in me?" would be my stance. And you know us Bulls, we like the man to make the first move. 🙂

The way I'm seeing it is that it's her turn to text, particularly as my last text to her included a question to which I'm waiting for an answer, but if you think I should chase then I'll chase.

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We think you're pretty snazzy too. Want to give you a big hug and put you in my pocket. 🙂

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I can say from experience that there's nothing better than finding myself in the arms of a Taurus lady! 🙂

Ahhh, waiting for an answer. Make sure to include that, that you're waiting for a reply.

You are so sweet, why aren't you snapped up and off the market man? 🙂

Need to lay off the coffee. Finish a thought THEN post. I forgot to say "GOOD LUCK" with the Bull lady. 🙂

I sent her a text. Overnight we had several inches of snow, so I asked how it was where she is. We've texted a few times this afternoon and I mentioned that I'd like to meet her. In typically undemonstrative Taurus style her response simply eluded to the fact that it might be a while because there is more snow forecast - she didn't say she actually wanted to see me. This was one of the problems I had with the last Taurus that I was with - she never really told me anything to indicate that she liked me, I just had to assume that she liked me from the fact that she didn't tell me to go away. The problem I have is that I like to be told and shown by a woman how she feels about me - I like to see and feel enthusiasm. My Leo ex was brilliant at making me feel loved, which is probably why it lasted for 8.5 years - she just magnetized me in my making me feel wanted. Taurus women are irresistible but don't let on at all, you really have to work - it's like trying to get blood out of a stone, well worth the effort in the end, but incredibly hard work.

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You are so sweet, why aren't you snapped up and off the market man? 🙂

I wish I knew the answer to that. Women come to me to talk about their hopes, dreams, aspirations, problems, etc., and then go to the bad, exciting guy to have their relationship needs met. Unfortunately for me, us nice guys have needs too. 😢
I was snapped up by a Leo lady back in October 2000, but just about a year ago she told me "I love you but I'm no longer in love with you" and that was it. Since then I've been recovering from that and dating in the hope of meeting someone new. I was in an on/off relationship with a gorgeous Taurus lady for six months last year, but our needs were just too different - I wanted something settled and steady while she just wanted some action hero type to breeze into her life, do her, and then disappear until the next adventure. I think my problem is that I'm a nice guy - I'm shy, sensitive, gentle, artistic, poetic... not an alpha male or a macho man whatsoever. I'm in good physical shape but I'm not remotely aggressive. This is one of the things that perplexes me about the whole Virgo+Taurus thing - why are we regarded as such a good match when Virgo men are generally like me, waiting politely for permisson to touch, but Taurus women want old-fashioned guys who'll bulldozer in and "rough them up"?

In my opinion VirgoM, those women sound like dunderheads. Who wouldn't want some rock, an anchor to come home too? I often am quite puzzled as to the why's of wanting some clown to call their own. What is that? Do they want/need the constant emotional anxiety, the wondering all the time, the drama? Perhaps I AM a dinosaur. I should think it would be far more preferable to actually enjoy someone without a row, but what do I know?
Action man may seem exciting on the big screen, but a real hair puller to deal with on a constant basis.
And as to the old fashioned, you are far older in spirit, Renaissance beats Gangster any day of the week. Too much stress and importance is placed upon 'needing' what you don't and ignoring what you DO. That's a shame.

Awww, thanks Deb! *blowing kisses*

What the hell is it with us and these bad boys!!! Oy!!
Yeah, it's hard for me to just go all out with my feelings. First of all, it takes me awhile (longer than most women) to really dig someone where I feel I want to move forward with them. I also feel people out. I don't want to run full speed ahead and look like an arse, so I gauge their interest, and kind of proceed in that fashion. I don't like men who are too mushy, but I do appreciate a man who is sensitive to my needs and just "gets me." It takes time, but they eventually do. The only person who just "got me" at first blush was the Leo. He was almost 10 years younger than me, but he was so mature (in most respects), and he read me like the second time we went out to dinner. He just had my number. It creeped me out and excited me in the same way. It took me longer to get his vibe because I had never been w/a Leo male, and while I believe there are some traits a large majority of men (in general) have, he was a bit different than anybody I'd come across. Also, I tend to date a lot of athletes, and he wasn't one, so it was a different experience. He, unfortunately is a bad boy wrapped up in a nerd persona. He's a techy person, but a bad boy just the same.
Just know VirgoM20, that we do realize what we've lost once it's gone and we punish ourselves - daily, for letting it slip away 🙂

Please approach women in real world. All this texting and emailing is crap, especially if you havent met yet and you dont know if you have any chemistry at all. The probability to meet someone compatible in real life is much higher.

ps Taurus ladies seem to like alpha men. I have some Taurus girlfriends... they are quite two-feet-on-the-ground, have strong opinions about everything and are very independent and strong and stubborn. Virgo men can be sweet and shy... it seems that the combo Virgo-Taurus work better if Virgo is the girl. But maybe a taurus girl with pisces venus suits you🙂

All of a sudden she starts coming on strong! 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂 🙂

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The only person who just "got me" at first blush was the Leo. He was almost 10 years younger than me, but he was so mature (in most respects), and he read me like the second time we went out to dinner. He just had my number. It creeped me out and excited me in the same way. It took me longer to get his vibe because I had never been w/a Leo male, and while I believe there are some traits a large majority of men (in general) have, he was a bit different than anybody I'd come across. Also, I tend to date a lot of athletes, and he wasn't one, so it was a different experience.

the story of my life! i was reading some site the other day that said that leo was the best match for taurus...HA! sexually, hell to the ya! outside of the bedroom...not so much. not sure why other than he seemed to become a different person in public. not exactly "fake" but not the lion cub that liked having his back rubbed until he fell asleep.

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ps Taurus ladies seem to like alpha men. I have some Taurus girlfriends... they are quite two-feet-on-the-ground, have strong opinions about everything and are very independent and strong and stubborn. Virgo men can be sweet and shy... it seems that the combo Virgo-Taurus work better if Virgo is the girl. But maybe a taurus girl with pisces venus suits you🙂

i like virgo males but VirgoM20 is right. the way he described his taurus sounds EXACTLY like me. i am pretty hard to read and i can imagine that it's difficult for most men to figure out if i am enjoying their company or not. as USC said, only the leo had me flipped all around. i zeroed in on him the moment i saw him and i wanted to make him mine. i wonder if that was me tapping into the other side of venus (the libra side)?

it'd be interesting to figure out how materialistic i am now that i think about it. tau fem are supposed to be undercover gold diggers right? like, am i more "aroused" mentally/physically by men who are financially secure...who talk about their 401k/retirement funds/vacation plans/etc... more so than those who want to know what music i like 😛

the one thing i will say is that the VM that i dated for about a year and my VM bff that i've known for about 4yrs, they both make me feel VERY comfortable. for example, with the leo i felt the need to dress up and wear vicky's matching undies. with the virgos, it was still vicky's but i didn't feel the need to be color coordinated. the VM were like a cherished quilt...warm and familiar. it was that way from day one so we never had a real "passionate" phase. as a result, i was pretty "even"/laid-back and hat might be waht VirgoM20 is experiencing with his taureans? she may be into you but you don't make her feel on edge and that's good for the long-term but confusing for everyone involved in the short.

She's added me on Facebook. I've been looking at her photos. She's unmistakably Taurus... she's got "that look" and those gorgeous curves. I'm hungry! 😛

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The only person who just "got me" at first blush was the Leo. He was almost 10 years younger than me, but he was so mature (in most respects), and he read me like the second time we went out to dinner. He just had my number. It creeped me out and excited me in the same way. It took me longer to get his vibe because I had never been w/a Leo male, and while I believe there are some traits a large majority of men (in general) have, he was a bit different than anybody I'd come across. Also, I tend to date a lot of athletes, and he wasn't one, so it was a different experience.

the story of my life! i was reading some site the other day that said that leo was the best match for taurus...HA! sexually, hell to the ya! outside of the bedroom...not so much. not sure why other than he seemed to become a different person in public. not exactly "fake" but not the lion cub that liked having his back rubbed until he fell asleep.

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Most sites I've read don't think that Leo & Taurus can be for longterm. When I did me and this persons compatability, it was chillingly accurate in the reasons why we WOULDN'T/COULDN'T work out the long term. Further, it was our similarities that got in the way, NOT the differences. I agree 110% regarding their behavior in the "real world." I don't think they are fake, so much that they are used to being the center of attention, so if you are in public with them, they have to continue with their larger than life presence, but when you are in the comfort of home they can just "be" because they have no other competiton, and Taurus folk (in general) do NOT like big pomp & circumstance, and are not obliged to what to be the center of attention...although it can happen against our will 🙂
And again, I must cosign with you regarding the sex...sigh. Lot's of passion/open to experimentation/nonjudgemental/engaged in the whole experience and just HAPPY to be along for the ride!

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She's added me on Facebook. I've been looking at her photos. She's unmistakably Taurus... she's got "that look" and those gorgeous curves. I'm hungry! 😛

So Mr. VirgoM20, when are you going to ask meet this divine creature and get to see her tantalizing assets in person 😉.
I agree with the other poster who said you need to meet. The texting and all that is fine, but you need that mono on mono time!

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So Mr. VirgoM20, when are you going to ask meet this divine creature and get to see her tantalizing assets in person 😉.
I agree with the other poster who said you need to meet. The texting and all that is fine, but you need that mono on mono time!

Well, she's keen to meet and so am I, so we're going to make it happen soon. We've just had a great load of snow dumped on us here, and we're both near the tops of big hills so it's going to be a challenge to meet up, but we'll make it as soon as possible. I'll report back as soon as there's something to tell!

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So Mr. VirgoM20, when are you going to ask meet this divine creature and get to see her tantalizing assets in person 😉.
I agree with the other poster who said you need to meet. The texting and all that is fine, but you need that mono on mono time!

Well, she's keen to meet and so am I, so we're going to make it happen soon. We've just had a great load of snow dumped on us here, and we're both near the tops of big hills so it's going to be a challenge to meet up, but we'll make it as soon as possible. I'll report back as soon as there's something to tell!

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Good! Action!!! And yes, we do expect full reports!

Loving that avie purpledot!

Okay, I came into this thread because of the topic curious to see what it was about and I was like OMG!!! ME TOO!!!!

I wasnt going to post about what's been going on with me lately because I havent had much time and well, sometimes writing about things almost makes me feel like I could jinx it. Plus, Im not sure what Im doing just yet. Ive got a couple of irons in the fire, so to speak.

But, when I read this post.... I had to contribute. See, Ive been out with a Taurus guy a few times over the past few weeks and we seem to be hitting it off. As for doing it again..... well most of you already know that I was married to a Bull, with him for 16 years. The only other real long-term relationship I was in (over a year and a half) was also with another Bull (my highschool sweetheart). WTF?? LOL!!! Lions and Bulls are not supposed to be a match, so why do I keep finding myself in these positions? He just feels, well comfortable. He gets me without me even having to explain it. We have the same sense of humor. I can text or say somehting and I dont have to expound on it. He just understands it. He's intelligent and witty and fun. Even if things dont progress with us, I feel as if he will be a friend. IDK, we shall see.

As for other irons in the fire, well Ive got a Libra/Scorp cusper (although he is more of a Scorp than a Libra Im afraid) coming to visit me this weekend. He's someone Ive known from a distance for a few years and we have just recently reconnected. Im not sure where Im gonna end up with any of this, but I have to see if there is indeed anything to it. So, for now, I'm just hanging back and seeing what happens with whom. Balance with a stinger or the stubborn bull? Hmmm.... bound to be interesting, for sure.

And keep posting, all the world loves a lover. 🙂

His Bday is 5/17/77. Yep hes 6 years younger than me.

Sun, Moon and Merc in Taurus, Venus and Mars in Aries. Hmmm?

Aw, Bells, youve been wondering about me?

Well, had to dump the Sag. He was in love and I didnt feel the same way about him. It was heart wrenching, but I had to be true to myself. He's not too happy about it, but Im sure with time he will thank me for it one day.

But ah the Libra/Scorp.... he's so freaking intriguing! I cant seem to shake the connection I feel with him. Hes a BAD BAD BOY too. Fuck My Life.... why do I have to be so drawn to the train wrecks!! LOL!

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And keep posting, all the world loves a lover. 🙂

I figured that you, Bells and USCTG would love to hear about the bull. So, I figured I'd oblige.

Sorry VM20 didnt mean to hi-jack.

I think the Lions like the Bull because of the Alpha Male vibe. I love a hard headed man. An earthy male with a grounded confidence about him and a great sense of humor. Im not a very mushy girl and as Ive posted several times before I always get the "you're not a typical girl" remark. Last week I was hanging with the Bull at his place. I forewent our original plan of him taking me out to a very fancy restaurant and asked him if we could just do some take out and a movie instead so I could wear sweats and chill out. He was like "Hell Yeah"! And as we were chilling on the couch making fun of one another he says to me..... "you are so much like a guy, I could just hang out with you for hours, I think you are one of the coolest chicks I have ever met." I was flattered, but now I fear I may move into the friend zone. Not sure yet about how its gonna pan out. This does seem to sometimes be a curse for me. 😢

ACK! The dreaded friend zone. 😢

Yeah, I know Ive never had much luck with a water sign and NEVER with a Scorp. Technically he is a Libra. October 23rd, but displays a lot of Scorpian traits. He has Sun and Merc in Libra, Moon in Gemini (eek), Venus in Virgo and Mars in Cancer. Lots of emotions flying with this guy but a lot of earth and water in his chart. He is very moody, which means I will most likely drive him fucking nuts with all my optimistic behaviour. He doesnt know what to think of me right now! LOL!

As for the Bull, we do seem to get along fantastically, but Im not sure exactly what hes thinking yet. He did tell me last week that I may possibly meet his criteria for the total package, but that came before the "you're like a guy" comment. So now, Im a little unsure. He kinda fucked up with me this weekend and honestly, Im not sure yet whether or not Im gonna pull back a bit. He has about a one day window left to prove to me that he wants to make it up to me as much as he says he does.

Ah ha ha ha ha! Bells!! U r right.

Well, Ill give you the situation. We went to a movie Friday night and I invited him to go out with me and my friends Saturday night. He said absolutely and he walked me to my car, kissed me goodbye and said... Ill see you tomorrow night. I said yes, Ill call u tomorrow with details. So, Sat morning he texted me telling me he was shopping w his friend. We exchanged a couple of messages and later on I texted him with a slight change in plans. No response. So I called him on my way home that evening and got his voice mail. I left him a message and told him to call me so I could give him the details on the times and place, etc. If he had changed his mind about going to just let me know, no big deal. NOTHING!

So, yesterday morning I get an IM from him and I ask him what happened? He apologizes and says he is an idiot. He says he wasnt feeling very well and took some medication (he is a medic) and it pretty much knocked him out and he was loopy. He didnt wake up and get my messages until late into the night and he has no excuse but he wants to make it up to me and will. I tell him I was mad and felt stood up and he says he understands and doesnt blame me that its out of his character to do such.

This is all in via texts.. no phone call. So I dont hear from him at all the rest of the day. He is helping a friend move. Last night I get a text from him. Hes just randomly chatting. So I ask him when Im going to get my formal apology from him as opposed to the lame as IM apology. He responds with "Hmmmm..... Im gonna have to think long and hard about that because I want you to know that I am sincere about it." So I respond with, "yes, I will need to hear you so I can tell if indeed u are." Then he changes the subject. After a couple of random texts and still no phone call. I end the conversation with good night. Im thinking that if I dont hear from him by the end of today regarding his plan of apology then Im not gonna extend a further opportunity. IDK.... I just think he should at least call me.

I do wish the menfolk would stuff that whole "let them dangle" clause right up where the sun don't shine. Honestly that does not help forward their case. *smh*

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Lions and Bulls are not supposed to be a match

Lions and Virgos aren't supposed to be a match either, but my longest and most harmonious relationship (8.5 years) was with a Leo and we could have remained very good friends if it hadn't been for the fact that I had to distance myself from her because I still lusted after her! I get on really well with Leos... One of my closest friends and also my cousin is a Leo, another cousin's daughter whom I get on very well with is a Leo and three of my female work colleagues who I feel really comfortable and friendly with, and also find myself somewhat attracted to, are Leos. Leos seem to like me too. I don't know if my Leo rising makes me relate to them better than other Virgos might, bit I do know that if I don't end up spending my life with a Bull then I'll probably end up with a Lion. To put the whole relationship thing into perspective, my longest relationships have been...
8.5 years with a Leo who was five years older than me
Six months with a Bull who was three and a half years older than me
Five months with a Bull who was one and a half years younger than me
Five months with a Leo who was three years younger than me

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
I think the Lions like the Bull because of the Alpha Male vibe.

Hmmm...I'm not a guy, but you already know about me and that I THINK like a guy. A mixed blessing. My ex-Leo liked that about me, but that I was a woman and took care of his ... umm, needs. BUT, we could argue and curse about football. When we stopped talking for awhile that's what killed me the most (though I hated to admit it) was that comfortable bond we had. I could text him something random and stupid, and he would just "get it." But, he HATED that I was very close with my ex-fiance' (the Libra), and while he liked that I was like a guy...over time, it eeked out of him a bit, that he was jealous of my friendships with other males. I told him, "Oh well, too bad!"

Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
but now I fear I may move into the friend zone.

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Lovely Leo Lady, if you plop that sexy heiny of yours on his lap and do a mini striptease...trust me, he will NOT be throwing you into the "friend zone." Guarantfrigginteed!

Yeah, this whole Leo and Taurus thing...I just don't know. Like I said, in my relationship, it was our similarities that led to our demise (oh, and another big no, no that he did). We were both so cautious about allowing the other to know how we felt. The thing is, when we were together it was so easy and comfortable. We could talk about any and everything, and I never felt like he judged me for anything that I had done in my past ... regardless of how bad or asinine it was. The sex was great and we just had an easy time. BUT, when we weren't together, I felt disconnected. He was not good at communicating when it wasn't in person, and I'm not like most women who are constantly asking, "What are you thinking? What are you feeling? Are we going to be together? Blah, Blah, Blah!" I am just talking general, nonrelationship talk/communication. He was the first person since me and my ex-fiance' broke up (and that had been like 7 years) that I felt so connected and just wanted to be with. The other men in between that time were just past times and I was never serious about any of them, and I would eventually drift off and tell them, "It's not you...it's me." Which was true. I didn't want any of them...then the lion came in...roaring and passionate!
Glad to see you on

Got cut off! I was saying, glad to see you posting on here LeoLadyLoves we miss you 🙂 I know it's tax time...blech!!!!

Oh VirgoM20 -- please come back quickly and update us on your divine Taurus lady so we can STOP hijacking your thread! Damn Us! LOL!

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Posted by LeoLadyLovesToBeLoved
Lions and Bulls are not supposed to be a match

Lions and Virgos aren't supposed to be a match either, but my longest and most harmonious relationship (8.5 years) was with a Leo and we could have remained very good friends if it hadn't been for the fact that I had to distance myself from her because I still lusted after her! I get on really well with Leos... One of my closest friends and also my cousin is a Leo, another cousin's daughter whom I get on very well with is a Leo and three of my female work colleagues who I feel really comfortable and friendly with, and also find myself somewhat attracted to, are Leos. Leos seem to like me too. I don't know if my Leo rising makes me relate to them better than other Virgos might, bit I do know that if I don't end up spending my life with a Bull then I'll probably end up with a Lion. To put the whole relationship thing into perspective, my longest relationships have been...
8.5 years with a Leo who was five years older than me
Six months with a Bull who was three and a half years older than me
Five months with a Bull who was one and a half years younger than me
Five months with a Leo who was three years younger than me

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Yeah, my ascendant is Leo too. I don't think I'm much like a Lion, but I guess there are some things we have in common.
I attract Libras, Cancers and Scorpios! There was a Virgo who liked me a couple years ago. We had gone to highschool together and somehow got in touch with one another. I know you aren't VirgoM20, but this Virgo was very flaky. I finally told him to leave me alone and go get his stuff together. He was all over the place and seemed to lack direction...which I don't believe is a Virgo trait, I think it was just him!

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Lovely Leo Lady, if you plop that sexy heiny of yours on his lap and do a mini striptease...trust me, he will NOT be throwing you into the "friend zone." Guarantfrigginteed!

Girl, you know I had to laugh at that! We are very flirty with one another and we have done some really heavy making out, but we havent gone there yet. Im not quite ready, although its been extremely hard for me to leave after some of those sessions. I like him and want to make sure he likes me first. We've only actually been out three times. He works as a medic on an oil rig and he is gone two weeks, home two weeks, so we IM constantly when he is on the rig. We've logged a lot of conversation time and we have actually discussed sex but he has told me he will not pressure me about it. I gotta feeling its gonna be a good time, though! LOL! He's very expressive and a very sexual person so we definitely have that in common. Nothing is embarrassing or off limits as far as conversation with him. He is funny and unpredictable and I LOVE that about him. But, its early in the game, so who knows. Its always fun the first few weeks right? LOL!

The funny thing is, even though hes absolutely adorable.... he is totally not what I typically go for as far as in the physical department. He is extremely attractive, but very different than my norm. Not the bad boy look or the muscled up tatoo-ed type Im typically drawn to. But, then enters Mr. Libra/Scorp..... he is rockin a body like a Greek God and tons of attitude, but he has the softest sweetest way about him mixed in with his moody aggravating manner. Drives me fuckin nuts! His job is even atypical of his personality. Ranks as third most dangerous career and he is full of spunk and mystery. AHHHH!!!! What is wrong with me!??

I told my Mom last weekend that I must be doomed. Hell, give me an ex-con with an anger disorder with some tattoos and a muscled up body, Im all over that shit! No wonder shit doesnt work out! LOL!!! Oh well.... never a dull moment!

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Got cut off! I was saying, glad to see you posting on here LeoLadyLoves we miss you 🙂 I know it's tax time...blech!!!!

Oh VirgoM20 -- please come back quickly and update us on your divine Taurus lady so we can STOP hijacking your thread! Damn Us! LOL!

Yes Ma'am. Tax time! I shouldnt even be on here now, but wtf.... I was having DXP DTs! LOL!

And yes, VM20... sorry about the hijack! Its a drive by shooting..... hope you dont get too upset.

Posted by USCTaurusGal

Yeah, my ascendant is Leo too.

I think my theory with my Lioness was that my ascendant is in Leo, making me "get" her better than another Virgo might, and her ascendant is in Taurus, making her more of a natural match for me, Virgo and Taurus being a fundamentally good match.

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He was all over the place and seemed to lack direction...which I don't believe is a Virgo trait, I think it was just him!

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We're usually pretty solid and consistent, but our lack of self-esteem can often manifest itself in the form of indecisiveness and hesitancy. It takes a for for us to have unwavering conviction because we're so anxious, but when we are sure of something we can be almost as stubborn as a Bull!

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Lions and Virgos aren't supposed to be a match either, but my longest and most harmonious relationship (8.5 years) was with a Leo and we could have remained very good friends if it hadn't been for the fact that I had to distance myself from her because I still lusted after her! I get on really well with Leos... One of my closest friends and also my cousin is a Leo, another cousin's daughter whom I get on very well with is a Leo and three of my female work colleagues who I feel really comfortable and friendly with, and also find myself somewhat attracted to, are Leos. Leos seem to like me too. I don't know if my Leo rising makes me relate to them better than other Virgos might, bit I do know that if I don't end up spending my life with a Bull then I'll probably end up with a Lion. To put the whole relationship thing into perspective, my longest relationships have been...
8.5 years with a Leo who was five years older than me
Six months with a Bull who was three and a half years older than me
Five months with a Bull who was one and a half years younger than me
Five months with a Leo who was three years younger than me

Im usually attracted to Virgo Males too. But, in my experience none of mine have worked out for the long haul. However, I dont see why it couldnt. But, Im on the Virgo cusp so I think it helps me to relate to you better. Plus I have Aqua rising polar opposite my sun sign. Actually, because Im not a typical girly girl and Im not mushy at all, I seem to like that most Virgo men are not particularly mushy. I think that is why I do better with earth and fire signs than with water signs. I like a grounded manly man. One of my very close friends is a Virgo Male and we have always said that if we werent such great friends, we would probably be a very great match. We think the same or so he says. We even discussed FWB before because we think we may be good at that arrangement, but we havent yet ventured there.

"I told my Mom last weekend that I must be doomed. Hell, give me an ex-con with an anger disorder with some tattoos and a muscled up body, Im all over that shit! No wonder shit doesnt work out! LOL!!! Oh well.... never a dull moment!"

OMG, I know! What the hell is up w/me and bad boys! Seriously—? I think that you are like me LeoLadyLoves, in that you may bore easily and with these kind of men there is NEVER a dull moment. There is no complacency. I don't mean to say there is anything wrong with just a lovely evening chilling at home and doing...nothing, but on the flip side, we want some action and excitement, so they will offer that. What's odd is I don't like drama in my life; I'm relatively drama-free, but something about the damn bad boys (although I AM growing out of it as I get older...well, somewhat).
@VirgoM20, yes, I guess I can see the self-esteem thing because one of my close male friends is a Virgo and he has self-esteem issues he tries to cover up w/a lot of bravado and hot air. I just know him so I can *smh* and roll my eyes at him. He comes from a good place, I just wish he'd shut up sometimes. He talks more than most women I know; but the guy who liked me wasn't a huge talker. He talked enough, but not overly, and he had a great sense of humor, so that was cool, although he did sometimes take things too personally if I made a joke that he felt was about him. I was always telling him to laugh at himself, and the world will laugh him.

Posted by BellaBulleautiful
damn it,cut off.....


when my ex did not seem to think so,heh,heh.
so we are a little toooo laid back and easy going for some people.I don't mean to dismiss other's anger,it just slips my mind sometimes,because I'm already back to now.know what I mean?
but he should apologize....

Im like that too and so was my ex so it doesnt bother me. I just really would like to hear him apologize. I havent heard from him today so far and he usually has messaged me by now, so it seems a little strange. Time will tell I suppose. Like I said, he works on a rig for two weeks and he got home on Wednesday night and couldnt wait to see me. Then on Thursday he invited me for dinner and out to a little event but I was tired from work and declined. Then the movie on Friday night and stands me up on Saturday, so Im thinking he possibly met someone at that Thursday night party. So, eh... whatever. He's got today and then Im over it. If he's really into me, he will put forth the effort. If not, so be it. Ill just play with Mr. Libra/Scorp when he gets here. No doubt it will be fun! 😄

Posted by USCTaurusGal

OMG, I know! What the hell is up w/me and bad boys! Seriously—? I think that you are like me LeoLadyLoves, in that you may bore easily and with these kind of men there is NEVER a dull moment. There is no complacency. I don't mean to say there is anything wrong with just a lovely evening chilling at home and doing...nothing, but on the flip side, we want some action and excitement, so they will offer that. What's odd is I don't like drama in my life; I'm relatively drama-free, but something about the damn bad boys (although I AM growing out of it as I get older...well, somewhat).

God I swear we were separated at birth or something!!! I feel exactly the same way.