pisces girls in love with taurus ...

hello...
about two weeks ago my very good friend taurean met this pisces girl at my office, and now as his best female friend he drives me crazy with questions what and how . she works at the bank my company banking with and i see her almost daily when drop-off deposits. me and her are not realy friends but trying to keep in touch ,and now during her vacation , she was passing by the offce and stoped to say "hi".
so he felt for her right away(i think she liked him too, but she denies)- vibes were all over the office.
i have just one friend pisces female, but we weren't communicating often recently(very sad , busy life i guess and i think it will take sometime to catch her to advise me he-he), so i was curious how should he act? they are both so shy, also she looks like intrested and not really at the same time? where should he ask her out?

any advices ,information is appreciated.
thank you..
Aqua 2

i think you should tell him to take her for pizza and a movie. something simple.they should start out slow.

Taurus Male here:

He can get even simpler than that. Take her to someplace "pretty" A park, a lake, whatever. That way you can converse while only having to deal with "pretty" distractions.

Then you will probably know if the more "serious" Pizza and a Movie and a beer thing, will be a worthy investment.

Just a thought

Taurus Male

thats a good idea

Taurus male you're so cheap! How much would it cost to get a pizza and movie. My god has this world gone crazy. What ever happened to the days were a gentleman was a gentleman no matter the cost, or worrying if they will spend "TOO MUCH" on a "UNWORTHY PERSON". How do you expect to even win this females' attention, if you take her to the park?? I'm not saying spend an "ARM AND A LEG" on the chick, but damn a movie is TOO MUCH nowadays, with a slice of pizza. and the above agrees saying you're right. That's why none of you can find a decent woman, "NOT A GOLDDIGGER (don't get me wrong)" cause you're not willing to take a risk on spending 40 bucks tops on her to see a movie. She'll know that you're not trying to spend money on her (DON'T YOU KNOW) because you'll take her to a park or lake. She'll go back to her people and tell them how cheap you were and you probably won't get another chance to take her out. I mean if she wanted so see something "PRETTY" she could go there herself! That's done after you get to know each other and want to spend "QUALITY TIME" together and be romantic. Don't be frugle, and get a life, my god "A PIZZA"??!!!!

Honey:

The Day that I am chosen by a "Lady" who checks the size of my wallet, is the day that I have been taken to the cleaners. This world has gone nuts if a walk in the park, sharing the important things in a relationship, runs secondary to "How much I am spending on her".

What I was trying to suggest was that to get to know this lady is more important than trying to impress her with green paper.

And if you find yourself "loving" a man strictly on what he spends on you, then you are one of those woman who engage in the "oldest profession" in the world.

You get my meaning...."money lady"?

We are very generous to the ones we love, and God help us if, when the money is not there then the "love" leaves.....that aint love, honey.

Get your head straight.

Taurus Male...(not cheap, just loving)

I think the world has gone crazy because too many people determine their interest in a man -- or women -- by the size of their wallet.

I'm beginning to think that some people who post here are so young and really don't know the true meaning of a relationship. Or their priorities are in the wrong place. It's all about caring and loving someone -- and spending quality time with that special person -- for who they are, not because how much money they've got to spend. That is extremely superficial. If you need attention -- and can only get it by the amount of money that will be spent on you, then I would say that you have a major problem with yourself.

If you truly cared about someone -- and met someone who wanted to take you for pizza, beer, cafe -- or to a park to watch a sunset, etc., I would say he's special and romantic and consider yourself lucky. That's what's important. Let's not take for granted that the little, simple things really matter in this life.

Aries female

Taurus Female Here:

I'm not trying to agrue with the fact that you have to spend money to gain love by someone. That shouldn't be the basis in the first place. You all read me wrong. I'm not young (29) to be exact, I'm not superficial, I can acquire my own possessions, I 'm a independent college grad!!! I don't know how old this male is but if he's a mature individual in age, I would suggest that he take her someplace nice instead of the above posts worrying about his spending. I'm almost 30 and I wouldn't want to meet someone and just go to a park! I'm too old for that and I'm self-efficient. This gesture would lead me to believe that 1) The guy didn't have any money, 2) He didn't want to spend money on me. I'm NOT a golddigger LOVE. But HONEY love don't pay the RENT no matter how wonderful the person is. Relationships should be 50/50. But I bet if he doesn't spend money onher or not he'll want some YOU KNOW WHAT THOUGH!!!!

Right on Taurus male. Slow and easy. Walk in the park romance. Get to know each other. Because in fact, the rest does not really matter in the face of love, does it?
I do not really believe in pinning someone down or catching someone. I believe in the journey, not the destimation. And the journey would never be passed up because of someone's wallet!

152..... one must not perceive by the gestures of another. The best things in life are free, as they come from the heart. A walk in the park? How wonderful! To me this would say a lot about a man...he enjoys nature, just being with that person, alone. Getting to know them. This is a very caring gesture. Anyone can take anyone out to dinner and there is nothing wrong with this by any means. It truly is the simple things that really matter. I was married to a man who made a good living...the bills were paid, there was food on the table but my heart was hurting...I needed love. He did not know how to give it. When there is love between two people everything else WILL work out. This is where the words, trust and faith come into our lives. Naw, don't worry about the money...it really is not that important in the scheme of things. We all are on different paths at different times. We are all teachers and students in the school of life. This place is our chalk board. The bell just rang, I'm going out to play!

Hello everybody....
Aqua who originally posted that question.
just smal update, as i'm not a good middleperson, truly never been one before i suggested to my dear taurean to take matters into his strong hands.
i'm not going to lie i mentioned him that " park" thing as an example, because it would sound good to me if i was invited to have a first date in a park....stroll in a park,yummy kinda romantic.
so he liked the idea too, but he invited her to a Kaufmann house,,,if you heard of it,,,waterfall house -museum, wild nature, waterfall and the most spectacular architectural piece of work , defended as a early modern , if i'm not mistaken.
guess what i think they really hit it off(hope so) she loved the trip too,,,,this page is too small to mention two side story from each of them, but will see....when first emotional buzz will settell down.
Taurus male,,thanks for an idea...( the words of wise and expirienced man , lol)
take care and have a great day.

Aqua 2

You are welcome....I'll bet that waterfall was good for the pisces, as well...I am sure that Taurus will not mind being "more generous", now that he knows this lady better.

Money lady, you just keep the rent paid and measuring those wallets.....to each his (or Her) own. Frankly, I think we were talking about two different things.

Taurus Male

Money Lady Here:

The only money I have is my OWN. What matters is that they had a nice time and I wish them luck.

and the rent DEAR is always PAID!! I use to admire your messages. now be gone I don't like you very much.

Did not realise this was your board.
Sorry to have fallen out of your good graces, But we do have different views about money. But you still are young.

TM

Realize is with a Z not S. know it all

Thanks, Bitch...I did spell that right, didn't I—

NO, you didn't spell it right retarded mother fucker!!

Careful, that college degree is showing.

Excuse me TM

Money Lady

Alright, now really, you both (TM and TF) have good points, I just think you both were confusing each other early on and it escalated. It (the dollars) shouldn't be what decides whether 2 people get together, but it often CAN decide whether 2 people stay together. I think people blame "money" fights on actual money, but if you think more deeply about it, I think it has more to do with mismatched ambition in the two people (one person feeling that they are providing and not recieving in return). It can become an issue even when neither person is "material". Money does not just mean "things", it also represents security. So the lack of it, or apparent lack of willingness (as percieved by person 1) of person 2 to spend money on "the relationship" can leave the other wondering what the problem is.

Oh gosh, I really hope all of that made sense! My point, to summarize, is that money isn't everything, but it isn't nothing, either. And what may not have mattered in the blissful, endorphin soaked first year or whatever of a relationship, may become more of an issue down the road as the harsh realities/expenditures of life rear their heads.

I am glad to hear that they seem to have hit it off--I hope to hear more about this twosome later aqua!

Love to y'all,
Heather

P.S. I have to say that I have never known a stingy Bull. Possessive, okay...but they have all been very generous to me, and that includes my female friend who's a Bull. Currently, I am being quite spoiled by a particular one. : ) NOT THAT BEING SPOILED IS WHAT I'M AFTER!

(But it's lovely, you know?)

Heather

Thank you so much Heather, You are a mature one girl!

I loved your reply and that is what I was trying to get across. I'm a Taurus and I know how generous I am (sometimes to a fault) but what I give, I expect and want it back in return. I can support myself, it wasn't a ISSUE in SPENDING on me or being money hungry. Taurus Male jumped to conclusions as well as his SIDEKICK Aries female. They need to read your reply. Thank you Heather.

Taurus Female
A.K.A (Money Lady)

Money Lady:

Try as you may, I still will not abandon my respect for those who do not have any money. One of these days, you may even loose yours, and question why you don't get any respect. A person's integrity can not be measured by the size of his wallet....If that is not clear to you, then keep on worshiping that golden calf. Money is nice to have, and it is necessary in our society, But don't drag something like love into it, it makes it cheap.

(and lay off my "sidekick" Aries female, will ya, her intentions have not been destructive)

Taurus Male

Taurus Female,

Sorry...I don't have a sidekick. Oh and thanks for informing me that I have one. Perhaps you should tell me what else I need in my life -- since your so good at doing so. And I must say I have a sidekick with class as well. Him and some of the others on here with class -- such as Heather too. But you still don't understand that your attitude when replying to a post is so unappealing -- and immature.

If anyone has jumped to conclusions it is you. Your reply to Taurus male; calling him "cheap", that he couldn't find a "decent women" and he needed to "get a life" is not appropriate. You don't even know him to say such things.

When someone replies to your questions, that are not to your liking, you always have a rude comeback -- along with your trashy mouth to go with it. That is the whole point here. You cannot respond in a mature, respectful and civilized manner with your opinions. You are constantly pointing fingers at people you know nothing about. And I'm aware of who you are now because you've given me trouble in the past -- and continue to do so -- like your last immature one of "yeah, she's stupid", because of my typo. Real mature Taurus lady.

But I'm beginning to see how you operate with your immature games: When you post an obscure message, and get a reply in return that is to your liking, you immediately say "that was my point" and "that's exactly what I was trying to say". But I think your little games are over. If you do not want to express yourself in a more clear, respectful and civilized manner -- without the trash mouth -- and without pointing fingers at people you know nothing about then you really shouldn't post at all.

And just for the record, I've read Heather's posts. Do you see how she gives her own opinions -- that are not rude?? And this has nothing to do with her posts so I really don't know why you dragged her into it. That seems to be a trait with you and I remember you doing it before. Your mentality is of a grade school kid.

Have a good day.

Aries Female

make that...."If I had a sidekick"

I cannot believe her mouth! And she is at it again with everyone. When will she stop? To get so upset because someone spelled something wrong.

Do yourself a favor Taurus lady, get some medication and help. I guess you didn't take my advice on the anger management class I suggested to you months ago. College degree....yeah ok. I believe we have a teenager running around this board. How many adults do you know who speak like that?

Aries Female

I didn't say that message 192.217.139.70.

"make it If I had a sidekick"

Taurus Female

OK, Y'all, back to the subject...

Pixces ladies, oh yeah, come on down....Us Tauruses are ready, just be sure you are...

Taurus Male

I know you didn't. I realized I left out the word "if". I meant to say "If I had a sidekick".

Aries Female

I agree....back to the original post. I hope it works out for the Pisces Female and her Taurus Male. Perhaps down the road he will be her true love.

I hope everyone has a good evening -- including you too Taurus Female.

Aries Female

Don't flatter yourself or get on my good side.

I don't want your good evening.

Good side...sidekicks...yeah, she's stupid. You really are extremely immature. I was being civil -- but I didn't expect you to get it. Your nothing but a nasty, angry little girl. Your far from being a women that is for damn sure.

I wonder what you do for a living and how you communicate with people around you on a daily basis. Let me guess...do you carry a weapon too?

Your right, you don't deserve to have a good evening. Your one angry person. Your not only angry with yourself, but everyone in this world. One day you'll be in for a surprise with that nasty attitude of yours. Because remember, what goes around, comes around right back to you.

Your going to explode with your anger one of these days. Perhaps you should seek help before it's too late. Don't worry I won't be civil or respond to you any longer. Your nothing but a waste of my time.

Aries Female

Thank you so much AF for the insight.

How did you know I carried one?! Oh, I know cause it's aiming at you. 🙂

Thank you so much AF for the insight.

How did you know I carried one?! Oh, I know cause it's aiming at you. 🙂

LOL I love to get you and TM "two cents" going. I'm sorry I don't mean to be an angry person to you and it's not my character either. It's funny how people can portray whoever and whatever they want on this board because no one knows each other. Please excuse my malicious behavior. I'm civil, I think? 🙂