Question For Taurus Men...

Your sign has a reputation for being very romantic. My question is, do you Taurus males want that same level of romance reciprocated? In other words, should the young lady you're courting display an equal amount of romanticism towards you, or would this put you off? Would you rather be the one doing most of the romancing?

I eagerly await your response(s)...

Peace & Love : )
~Heather

hey, WHAT A FISHY DAY......
and not really romantic or there other defenitions?

Heather:

Looks like the "fishy Day" responder wouldn't know true romance if it bit it on the butt.

You bet, respond with love and romance.
When it comes to love and romance, Taurus males don't like sushi. (cold fish).

Taurus Male

fishy day was a "laugh " at prevous answer on Heather's question , i swear it was here early ,,,,,,i read it and laughed that fishy person has guts to critisize taurus male respond, but never signed it.....
respond from taurus was too much concentrated on fish ,esp cold and from my opinion was the worst comparison i can think of in area of romance and food,,,i defenetly wasn't feeling too
romantic reading it.
Aqua 2 , just wanted to let know that 'fishy" should have signed it,,,,because respond was right on target.

maybe after taurus read ,,,that "fishy" laughed at his food &love views he deleted it,,,,,,is it possobile?
!100% IT WAS HERE AT THE MORNING....

Aqua 2

What in the world are you talking about food? The message was about fishing for dead fish and not liking cold fish.

The rest was devoted to romancing and not food.

Got that straight now or what?

Hun, just respond with love and romance,. Tell me who practices little romantic gesters without enjoying getting them. (Rather than one running the show, unless you want to be led through the whole thing).

Just try it and see. Or Hell, just ask him.

Taurus Male

PS. NO, I did not delete it.
It does not really matter.

TM......
maybe it was about what you saying , but that's how i understand it....because for me it sounded too deep in food and when i read it gap between "that" food and romance was too wide....even kinda vague.
and i wasn't trying to sound critic i just posted my opinion.
By the why did you deleted it , though? prob. you disliked your own answer,?
anyway i just thought that "fishy day" was a taurus to...who never signed.lol
Aqua 2
p.s no offences ...
by-bye

Hey TM "two cents",

Are you having or did you have a bad day? You seem cranky and jumpy. Your change is running low, huh. Down to one cent, hey can someone lend him some....🙂

TF

P.S. ......I understood what you meant with the above reply.

TF

Hi all, I just got here so I have no idea about this controversial response you're discussing; never got to see it as I posted this topic late last night and just got a chance to come back and see what you all said (7:30 p.m. PST).

Taurus Male,

Thanks for your response; it makes sense. The reason behind why I asked, is because with this particular one, even though the whole "expressing of emotions" thing doesn't come so naturally to me (which is not to say that I don't feel things deeply, which I do, just that it's hard for me to convey those feelings verbally or otherwise)--I try my best to do it anyway. Sometimes I get a very warm response, but most of the time he sort of quietly just says "I love you" in response to this very elaborate, romantic thing I just said (or did) to him. lol. Which is very satisfying, I just wasn't sure whether the quiet response should be telling me to not be as romantic (and yes I do know of some guys that can't stand that stuff coming from girls, it makes them uncomfortable) so as not to damage his pride, or whatever. I suppose I could ask him, I just didn't want to put him on the spot...you know?

Thanks very much Taurus Male, and Aqua thank you for taking the time to respond, even though I'm confused as to what you guys are talking about! LOL. : )

Heather

P.S. I need to clarify something. I don't mean to say that he is doing all the romancing, or I am doing all the romancing. It switches back and forth. But, I just didn't know how to interpret some of his responses. And remember, I'm a Scorpio, so being a cold fish is the furthest thing from the truth, like, ever. LOL! : )

Okay, just had to get that out there! : )

Thanks everyone, keep it coming.

Heather

Hello Heather , i know what you mean because i have the same reaction here,,,,,and sometimes respond could be that honey-melow voiced "thank you" ,with "that" stare< you know what i'm talking about> i just keep doing what i do, never mind such a quiet responds,,,,.... anyway for me it is expression plus affection and can't not to show it...........lol take care.
p's that conversation with taurus male, oh just forget it ,,, maybe i was a little bit blind when i woke up that is why ,his morning post was a little bit too vague for me also somebody< i think another taurus male or female> disagree with "morning" respond--- finally respond dissappeared ,,so doesn't matter anymore......
-Heather and everybody enjoy your evening or smth else......lol
-Taurus male,,,,how are you— can i have a smile and maybe some advice on food this time.....do you like sushi< for real> not in a romance department..
if not , listen i guess i got to stick with you romantic posts here......lol
enjoy ,,,,,


by

before it was me, forgot to sign

bye
Aqua 2

Aqua,

You crack me up! : ) I am glad though that I am not the only one who has experienced that simple (yet affectionate) response to my romantic gestures or whatever...and yes I completely know what you mean by THAT STARE. ; ) Sometimes those things are more revealing than words...lol. I love how you said that, "honey-mellow" voice (aahh yes, the VOICE)! ; )

Take care everyone,
Heather

OK Aqua 2:

Let's talk food....Sushi sucks, but romantically, it does not. How's that?

Now Ladies, If it worries you when you Taurus Male calmly says "I love you" or "Thank you" and it just seems to leave something "missing", then by all means have him hop up and down on the bed while he wildly proclaims how much he loves you, if you truly believe that would be more convincing for you. Please tell me what is so darn wrong with hearing "thank you" when you say "I love you" to him. When he is saying that he is thankful for your love. Each of us expresses love differently, and I guess a calm approach to love may confuse or even throw people off.(especially,if the partner is just more excitable about Love) But in my opinion, it is no less sincere than a musical serenade with all the bells and whistles.

And if bells and whistles would make you happy, then I am sure he would be happy to ding and toot for you, if he sought your true happiness... so work on them.

Sometimes it is like explaining opera to a rap singer. (Mars / Venus)

I still love you, Ladies

Taurus Male

TM .....honey is something bother you or anybody upset you,,,,,,cutie you missunderstand whole deal ,,,,,we've been wondering about overromancing taurus males,,,,,that's why this whole post came out. Who knows maybe that "Thank you" was like hey, "slowdown woman!" lol
but how i said before i show all what i want to,,with no "certain" in return,,,,i care anyway,,,,but i also mentioned why i'm satisfied with "that" returns, because eyes never lie,,and that voice,,,,oh,,,, i miss him,,,,,
By the way : TM why you so irratated

TM
messed up at the end,feeling sleepy,,,lol
so what is with you? cause my favorite person do feel moody.....is it with all bulls now?
about sushi??what you mean by they suck, but romantically don't.
clarify it ppppplllllleeeeeeaase///
by-by good-night or maybe morning?

forgot to sign it,,,,
before it was me.....

Aqua 2.

mushy=mushy

Sweetie:

He is just probably having problems explaining his Taurus love to an Aquarian Love, as I am having trouble explaining it to you (maybe).
Just forget the sushi, it isn't that important.(I bet Heather might understand, but if not)....

Venus/Mars strikes again.

I guess "over romancing" a Romantic Taurus would be hard to do, unless you hang on his leg while he is trying to go the bathroom or something. Just don't try too hard, I guess. Hopefully, he would let you know if you go to far. Just don't be a "worry wart" about it.

Taurus Male

Aqua,

You see that's exactly what I was trying to say...is that maybe just maybe, his quietness WAS a subtle way of saying "slow down woman". Now, that's not what my scorpion intuition is telling me, but...I just had to get some other people's opinions, because... I'm just that paranoid. LOL! Joke 🙂

Taurus Male,

I still love you too! : ) now...just so you know, I actually understand what you're saying, the tone of what you're saying, the meaning behind what you're saying, the main idea of what you're saying, the unspoken elements of what you're saying...you get the idea. I do, I really do! I know you don't *think* I do, but I do. I promise. And trust me, as I said before, it is HIGHLY satisfying for me when I hear a choked-up "thank you" or "I love you" from him. It fills me up to my soul, because I can feel that he means it, and that underneath that "thank you", he is reciprocating everything I just said to him. I can pick it up in his voice, the way he holds me...all of that. Even the electricity we're exchanging. The actual air changes. To hot and steamy. lol. Another lame joke : )

And to be honest, I've been out with plenty (meaning, way too many) bells-and-whistles Leos who promise everything yet deliver on very little--they shout about their love for you, shower you with compliments and constantly give you cheap little trinkets which supposedly speak to their affection for you. So I'm quite happy to finally be experiencing some quiet sincerity, some DEPTH, some un-frilly declarations that actually hold water from this Taurus.

I was just starting to get confused because I went 2 days without talking to him (previously we had been talking every day, often many times a day),and he completely freaked out. He said he was worried sick about me, couldn't sleep or eat, almost punched a hole in his wall and could barely work because I was gone for 2 days. I don't know why he would have that strong a reaction to me being gone for only 2 days. He said he was just plain worried, and also worried that I had decided I didn't want him in my life anymore, which is where the whole punching the wall thing came into play (he was mad at me). He said he was going back and forth between anger and worry for 2 days. So, I started contacting him more often, and trying to express myself verbally more (which he said he wanted me to do)...and it seems that when I'm being romantic, he has little to say, but when he's being romantic, I have little to say. Which is actually kind of comical, it's like this push/pull dance that we're doing, without even meaning to. lol. Maybe it's because Taurus & Scorpio are opposites and so we are on opposing (or just different) wavelengths?

I don't know...your insights? I can't get enough of you Taurus Male. ; ) Tell me everything you know, you wise bull you. : )

Heather

P.S. Jumping up and down on the bed...hmmm...that cracked me up! : ) He seems so dignified, the image of him jumping up and down on a bed (well, jumping up and down, period) makes me giggle.

LOL!
Heather

Hello........
Heather you almost described my "life",
the only difference is phone conversations this part settled from the start,,,,,,,lol and when i answered u before i said that i had some doubts, but -my guts tell me different story. i think we reached that conclusion before.....so my motto believe in what you "feel" ..What i was saying that seeing his reaction i just stoped question all this thing.....
TM hello......you know i just reacalled few things and i think that if i asked "sweet pea" about his "thank you" or etc he would look at me for some time and than have the same reaction as you are.....bacause
a)why i'm question his feelings, other way he wouldn't be here.
b)woman, are you saying i'm not romantic enough? lol
c)what is wrong with my responds to you romancing actions?
d)if there was something wrong i would have told you......
lol.......just a few lines,,,there is more , but i guess i'll stop....
The thing wasn't questioning taureans ability to romance or romancing needs< by the way, love sushi>it just sometimes i "want" him to be more verbally expressive, but then i think that i don't really need it,,,what for? He is what he is, and as in one of my poems (at one of the previous posts
) i figured out i learned " to feel" him and know by the voice,face mimic,his eyes can approxemetly say what?, how? and if upset, try to sooth.....and now i'm working on telephatic part....
Love ya.Chao.
Aqua 2

oh i forgot......
TM about difference of taurus and aqua love,,,they are different ,but with little "grounded" atitude, less aloofness and beliving(don't question) in that feeling on my part and more unerstanding ,less concntration on my sometimes clamsy attitude.....is what we need,,,,some adjustment are always nedeed in any relationship and in my case if i feel that "mentaly" he can't catch up with me -just a hug , head scratch, hair stroke, back massage will show how i feel(anything phisical) so i guess just a touch nedeed.

Aqua 2...

There, you got it.

Taurus Male

Stop being so grumpy TM. Everybody on the board feels it

I'm also offended by that remark you said "trying to teach opera to a rap singer". What you meant by that! Are you saying rappers are not intelligent enough to comprehend such a performance such as an opera. Stop being closed minded. I'm sure they can probably teach you something Mr. "Two Cents".

Reply if you want, it wouldn't bother me in the slightest.

You know who

You know who:

Nope, ain't grumpy, just saying that man's point of view is always different from woman's, that's all. And that usually causes friction between men and women, and I prefer less friction when affection is always so much nicer. No offense intended on the opera bit, just an example of contrasting views, that's all. Too many times people read the wrong things in our responses....just like the posts about confusion over the males responses to Love.

But it really boils down to the actions, and not really the words that really show a love. That is where the true "proof of the pudding" lies..(and I am not talking food here).

So, don't take offense. Offending someone is not my reason for participating on this board. Regardless of the ways I choose to make a point.

If I come with with my guns blazing for some reason, you will know it.

TM

I just wanted to say hello Taurus Male. Hope you had a good weekend.

Aries Female

Hi AF:

Just trying to explain myself, again.
(As usual).

Welcome back.

TM

Thanks TM for clarifying. "proof in the pudding" like that!

TF

TF:

You are welcome. Please let me know that I still make you sick.

TM

Oh, of course you do love. I wouldn't have you any other way. Don't feel bad!

TF 🙂

Oh, of course you do love. I wouldn't have it any other way. Don't feel bad!

TF 🙂

Oh, of course you do love. I wouldn't have it any other way. Don't feel bad!

TF 🙂

Music to my ears.

TM

I say this with humor of course, but I'm sure TM will not loose sleep over it. 🙂

AF

Of all the posts here, the Taurus board is like watching a movie unfold...Before I sit down, I do grab a HUGE bag of popcorn and muchin away I go! The imagination begins to fly from the words of the "storytellers" Hmmmm.....I do wonder what you all will come up with next. Meanwhile, I find
it is so delightful to view the
creation that you all have created. Thanks for allowing your thoughts to inspire us. 🙂

Another "AF"

Righteo AF...I am begining to suspect that TF loves to argue. But that is what makes these boards interesting, don't you think?

Another AF: That popcorn bit makes me chuckle....SO, Let's talk about Aries!!

Is it true that Aries like to boldly go where no one has gone before or what?
The book says Aries key words are "I am", Taurus is "I have". Never met an Aries that was ashamed of who they were, as a matter of a fact, they have been quite bold about that...Fill me in, will ya?

TM (inquiring minds want to know)

Hey AF sidekick,

I'm sure "two cents" won't lose sleep over it, music to his ears he says. I'll play jazz for you. Is that alright TM? and I don't like to argue, I like to LOOOVVVEEEE!

Looks like Taurus board has an audience, way to go!!!! Who says we're boring.

TF (money lady)

Money Lady:

Oh I am sure you like to LLLOOOOVVVVVEE
Just hope your partner does it right, or he is surely going to get it..

Guess Who

Dear "Inquiring Mind",

YES...Aries love to explore (anything), they (ah geeze, I'm gonna forget this they, them, us stuff and talk ONLY about me!) I AM....very adventureous, I love to explore life, see and feel what is out there...I love people, I love connecting with them. I am honest, very open, passionate, caring, sensitive, protective of my children, determined, unafraid of the unknown. I AM not sure how others perceive me nor do I really care as I know very well that I have no control of their thoughts. I AM living my life (rather, creating) to fit me. Ya know that Don Quiote character from Man of LaMancha? I suspect that we may resemble him...oh, what a goofy guy he was! So, MT....how is your mind now? have you been satisfied? Want to know more? I AM so willing to talk about myself and all you have to do is ask 🙂

Is it true that your Taurus' key word, I HAVE is an accurate discription of you? This inquiring "Another Aries" mind would like to know.

Tag, YOU'RE it! (oh, we ooops, I mean I LOVE TO PLAY!)

P.S. Hey TM curosity killed the cat! Do you have nine lives?

My AF friend of 20 years (3rd grade) is not proud of herself with her life situation right now and wishes she could turn back. I won't disclose what she does.

Just giving my "five cents". At least I can buy a bozooka gum with it.......or something!?

TF

TWO CENTS,

I think you have an additional admirer "Another AF". How do you do it when you only have two cents—— DON'T BLUSH

Oh yeah, my partner will be in trouble and I'll be the one to put him on punishment.......🙂?

Guess

Aries Female 2:

Yes, very satisfied. I guess we (Taurus) are a little more cautious, but we still like adventure. We are that way because we don't want to loose what we "have", and yes, we do like the things we have (that mean much to us). But we also enjoy the simple things....Having peace of mind, having time to enjoy nature, that sort of mushy stuff. We relate very much with the things around us and people as well.
And sometimes, if not controlled properly, we show possesiveness to our friends and loves. Which is wrong, I know, but it is just a part of our world. As I have grown older and wiser, (hopefully), I have come to know that when it comes to people we can only share, but never posses. That is where jealousy gets a grip. Having friends and loves is a priveledge, and a great one at that.

Thanks for asking

Taurus Male

TM:

you are very true in your choice of words and one who exhibits someone who knows himself and is true to himself. Couldn't have said it no other way.

Hey maybe instead of putting him on punishment, I'll get you to teach him........JUST DON'T GET HAPPY, YOU STILL MAKE ME.....fill in the blank and you win the prize.

money lady

TF STRIKES AGAIN.

TF, No way are you going to kill me.

Thanks for the nickle. I'll bet you got a pile of them.

I am sure your friends understand you.
They just probably just say, "OH, she just in on a tear, again".

LLLLOOOOOVVVVEEEE

TM

Oh two cents, you're making me blush.........I'll share my change with you.

money lady

AF Sidekick here:

Hi Money Lady,

Now let's lay off the wonderful TM. I can't speak for TM but now that you mentioned it, I think some contemporary Jazz would be nice. Hmmm...now off topic here but add a nice dinner -- by candle light of course. And throw in some incense too. I cannot disclose the rest of the evening though. Whew! this talk has got me fired up.

But it would be a perfect romantic evening at home with a TM; yes....how about that? Romance without spending money. Ok....I couldn't resist that one TF 🙂

I knew he wouldn't loose sleep over it TF. Yes.....LLLOOOVVVEE. A hot, deep, passionate and sensual love would be nice.

Aries Female

Taurus Male...

This is your "Bully" Taurus Female friend here... Please don't forget me.. With bated breath, I'm watching, reading and waiting from the wings....

I'm sorry, I was wrong... Definately no broozing for you, in fact it seems you might end up having to flip a coin with all these admirers.

If need be I'll come to your rescue in true Taurus fashion. These ladies are becoming quite amorous... I have the boxing gloves ready, just let me know WHEN!!!

"BULLY"

I have got to get one of those very large buckets of popcorn that can be constantly refilled. This is getting good here. So glad this place has comfortable seats...looks like I'm gonna be here for awhile. 🙂

Another AF

Hmmmm...I really never thought that I would be "another" of another.