Really miss my Taurus

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Skykomish
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14 Years1,000+ PostsScorpio

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Okay, I'll admit it. Can't stop thinking about him. Every stupid thing reminds me of him. I have some other Tau friends I spend as much time as humanly possible with, maybe being around ya'll will lessen the craving? But it just makes me even more addicted :p Obviously his bday is very soon. I've been very good, haven't contacted him since he 'let me go'. (well, once, a week later, but not since that) Which is more of an accurate way to phrase it than 'broke up' with me, idk. He said "Its not fair for me to let you keep waiting for me when I don't know when I will have any extra time for anything besides work and school again. You're a nice girl". Whatever that is supposed to mean. Sounds like he's patting me on the freaking head. I'm thinking about sending him an email.. saying something like "I loved every minute I spent with you, you got me addicted to Tauruses, hope you have a happy bday". I know ya'll are going to think I fell for him and am just emotionally responding to a break up.. but I don't *think* thats quite true, bc I didn't really fall for him, just absolutely freaking love you people. The reason I say its not that I fell for him is because I love ALL of you like an addiction 😛 Maybe I should just let it go. What do you think?
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krysrenee7
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Well it's sounds like you have fallen for him. Sure, it's common for 1 sign to always have a good connection with a particular sign, BUT where alot of Taurus' share alot of similarities simply b/c they are the same sign, don't forget that they're all different from 1 another in their own ways too.

So there must be something about HIM that is driving you to give him a little extra of your time, energy, effort & feelings vs. you going out of your way for all the other Taurus' in your life.

And there's nothing wrong with that as long as you're honest with yourself about your own feelings. Being really into someone who doesn't want you in that way isn't such a bad thing. It's how you react to him letting you go that matters. It's also whether or not you accept/acknowledge that you 2 want different things, that matters too.

You say you don't understand his words. What he said seems pretty simple & to the point. Your clowded feelings are what's driving you to believe that what he said was somehow confusing. Simple, he recognizes that he cannot give you the essential things he figures that you want. Instead of going along & pretending like he's ready for what you're ready for, he'd rather spare you any future confusion, disappointment, & heartbreak and cut things off now before you get attached. This is his way of NOT being selfish or "leading you on."

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krysrenee7
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And if you clump all Taurus' together, then it actually doesn't make sense that your goal would be to move on but yet you purposely surround yourself around people that remind you of him. If anything, when someone is trying to get over someone, they'll try to stay AWAY from any people/things/places/songs that remind them of that person. You not doing that indicates that you're not yet ready to let him go all the way