Scorp Gal and Taurus Male

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Okay...this IS too weird...I am sitting here listening to the radio and I was ready to respond to the above post about Suzi-Q...."Mustang Sally" and that song begins to play at the same time!!!!!!! What a ka-wink-a-dink!

How often does something like that happen? I just delight in the miracles of the universe. I am going to say by all of this that Suzi, you are a woman and a very "bright" one at that!

Freebird.....Now, if I here that song by Skinard....I'm hoping aboard my spaceship for a ride!
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Freebird,

"I just delight in the miracles of the universe"

I do too!!! That is pretty unusual!

If there is such a thing as ka-wink-a-dinks? I call them signs from above!!! But, it happens to me all the time too! It's like if I think it, it is gonna happen; or maybe I know the people I know and my surroundings so well, I can predict the goings on. Do you know what I mean— And yes I was just kidding about my name. Thanks for the compliment.
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Suzy-Q,

I feel ya! there are no such things as coincidences or ka-wink-a-dinks...everything is meant to happen. And when it does happen, it is how we choose to perceive the situation.

I have the same things happening to me, I just think of something, someone and poof, there it is! Isn't this so wonderful? It's like living in a giant toy store...a place full of fun and magic.

I just love waking up in the morning and wondering what the day has in store for me....all the surprises that will come my way. Our thoughts are so darn powerful....becareful what you ask for...cause you will get it. 🙂

Time to clean out the litter box and get the trash out before the guys come to pick it up.....check back with you later....

Have a magical day!
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I love that "Ka-Wink-a-dinks" Anyway to answer you Suzy Q I honestly feel that he is a warm and giving person...he does seem a little possesive at times, but hey, right now that's what I need....He does have a very good sense of humor and we seem to laugh alot when we are around each other...I know that the last relationship he was in really has left him reeling.....he stayed as long as he could, you know he isn't the sort of person to walk away and I think that there is guilt there about that.....anyway I did give him a card letting him know that in this world you have to do things for the moment and you can't "wait until tommorrow" and that because he such a decent and honest person, good things are bound to come to him. I included my work # in my card...I hope he calls......🙂
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Sammie,

I don't think it matters how long ya'll have known each other or what you have invested in one another; as I recall, you two haven't been together long? I think what you did was very nice and shows what a thoughtful person you are! That means alot to some folks, it does to me!! Nice going! I bet he will love it! Maybe write something light and humorous inside like, "Sorry, if you thought you were getting any money" or something not to heavy?!
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Hey that's a good idea.....well he opened up a little bit more yesterday, he's going thru alot of crazy emotions right now...what he needs is a friend who will be there for him, someone to talk to, someone to understand...he told me that he did go out last week with someone 😢 but he didn't enjoy himself....I told him that right now the last thing he needs is another relationship....he needs a friend. He agreed, so he asked me if I would'nt mind talking to him...I said no....so let's see what develops, like I said before, I really want to be his friend first...I could see where it could turn into something more, but he's not ready for that, at least for now.....but thanks....I think I'll give him another card in about a week with the "Sorry, if yo though you were getting any money? Great Idea!!! I'll keep you posted....
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Just joined and I see the date(s) on this post are from 2002, but I'm going to add my input anyway seeing as I'm a Taurus male together with a Scorpio female =).

FYI - This is my first relationship with a Scorpio

I have to say it's the most intense relationship I've ever been involved in. We clicked so well it's almost like we knew eachother (best friends) in a previous life or something.

The personal chemistry is incredibly strong, the emotional bond is super-magnetic, and the sex is completely out of this world.

I read quite a bit about the Scorpio / Taurus compatibility when we first started dating...i'm not terribly into astrology, but I was curious at any rate =), and what I read is mostly true. It's an INTENSE combination.

We bring out the best in eachother. It's very true that each possesses personality traits that the other lacks and we've found that it really does make a good union (definately a complete yin-yang). My strengths are her weaknesses and vice-versa. I've really learned alot about myself by being with her, and I'm sure the same holds true for her.

Of course we've pissed eachother off too, and the arguments were quite heated, but we both realise that as long as there is a cool down period, and a good conversation after the fact, we've always sorted it out. (never go to bed angry with one another)

This is just common sense, and perhaps the fact that we are both mature, level headed adults (mid 30's) makes it easier to comprehend, but...communication...compromise...communication...are the key to any healthy relationship. It doesn't really matter what signs the people are.

I would rate this an 11 on a scale of 1 to 10 in relationship quality =).
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Hi people, I'm very new here, but I'm quite intrigued by spanish taurus' comments actually. I have to say I completely agree with him about the whole scorpio & taurus combination.

I'm a scorpio girl myself and I think I have fallen in love with taurean male; I'm not really sure whether it's love or lust though. But whatever it is, it is an extremely magnetic attraction that cannot be explained! I have trouble understanding what is it about the scorpio and the taurus that makes me so wildly attracted to him.

And YES, it IS truly like a yin and yang combination. I just adore the company of this taurean and i'm never, ever bored with him. We somehow always manage to interest each other in many many ways, physically and emotionally. Don't even mention chemistry, it is obviously off the charts! It's really mind-boggling when I try to think about it. But I love it, nonetheless 😄

Myself as a scorpio female, of course I'm quite intense, can be extra sensitive and mooody at times, but he the taurean male just knows how to 'handle' me, like a real man. And not many people in this world can do that, let me tell you. But his patience, his wit takes out the seriousness in me and makes light of a situation, which then makes everything seem okay again. It may sound corny, but I truly feel that I am complete when I am with this taurean man. For me, scorpio female & taurus male is a blend of two halves which makes it a perfect combination. Phew, that's all I want to say 😉

p.s. I'm unsure though, if it's just a physical thing, or is it something deeper? It'd be great to get some opinions 🙂
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hi scorpio seven,even i am very new at this but well, you intreagued and compulsed me to jot in my thoughts on the issue....thats a good Post script that u have added....im a taurus guy, and have experienced the intimacy & closeness of a scorpio woman....and i guess its quite true what you have said...my observation of the whole pattern of the relationship is....it starts with repultions....goes to liking - for various small things, also strongly in a sexual manner and then when the temperature is just right...it literally bursts off as an unparalleed & uique level of passion, ...hot,hot,hot...as u hv very aptly pointed out, then...after a long span of this sizzzzling time....you can decide whether there was anything to do with true love or was it just the lust factor & heeeeat. although i must add, as both taurus and scorpio are both very tactful, diplomatic,sly(dnno y i get that often),intelligent,intense,passionate, highly sexual and sensual individuals and specially this combination is full of contrasts, therefore it might take a while before the realisation dawns that there could be some sweet surrendering into the "love" aspect, as they are having so much fun just in everyway already...even without...so to say "falling in love". they love the company of each other, even love arguing, have a great chemistry, so what the hell more does one look for...but also due to the strrrrong possive streak in both the characters, either wont like a bit if things are slipping in any way. try this as yr measuring stick lady. If you feel possesive about him, just cant be cmfortable with the idea of him being with someone else...and judge if his emotions are ruffled if you just speak in a special way with another guy(i know you must be simply excellent at jugding that...scorpios well!!)..then maybe the relation will, in time, mature into love....or else...just have a ball while you can and stop wottying abt tomorrows.theres more than enough to live for today. cheers!
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Hi dimensional stability!

Thanks so much for your comments...it really knocked some sense into my head actually 🙂 There I am going on and on about how it could be lust or love, but you?re right; what the heck, right? I mean if I could click with someone so well in every possible aspect, I don?t even need to question it! What you said ? loving the company, the excellent conversations, and even the arguments (what stimulating sessions they are) and the hot physical attraction between each other IS already good enough indicators. I guess I think too much, u know how us scorps can be 😉

And your observation on patterns of the attraction is sooo true...it does start with repulsion doesn?t it??.?? Then it takes off and explodes, just like you said! That?s exactly the process that will blossom and turn wild. Because this is not the first time I?m involved with a taurean, although this is the most intense. You must have had quite some experiences huh 🙂 Glad I could share it with somebody!

I guess what amazes me is that scorpios and taurus are such opposites, but truly we are fundamentally the same in many ways. I think that?s why we?re so in tune with each other. And it?s so much at a deeper level that can?t be put into words. The taurean?s practically is very calming to us intense scorpios, and i think the scorpio strength adds on to the taureans' character. Some people may think that?s crap, but I believe in it, based on what I?ve seen and felt. And I?ve never had such experiences of balance and harmony with any other sign. INcredible.

As for the measuring method, I?m working on it actually thanks 😉 I know I?m damned well not comfortable of him being with anyone else, and I make it quite obvious actually (wonder if that?s a good idea). But when I ?test? him in that way, it?s sometimes hard cuz I can?t really tell if he?s affected, cuz he?s so calm and composed most of the time (The taurean quality that makes me go crazy really).

But I?d like to ask you, as a taurean man yourself - if he keeps bringing up the subject of my supposedly other male friends, over and over but always in a ?playful? manner, could it mean that he?s affected? I sure hope so. Because as much as I like to possess, I would love to be possessed by this taurean man 🙂

Cheers to you, d.s.!

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Scorpio Seven,

Glad to hear from another Scorpio woman ! =). When I read your posts I was chuckling because you sound very much like my girlfriend (in your last post).

I just wanted to give you some insight about your boyfriend asking about your male friends...

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>But I?d like to ask you, as a taurean man yourself - if he keeps bringing up the >subject of my supposedly other male friends, over and over but always in a >?playful? manner, could it mean that he?s affected? I sure hope so. Because as >much as I like to possess, I would love to be possessed by this taurean man

...you answered yourself in that post:

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>I know I?m damned well not comfortable of him being with anyone else, and I make >it quite obvious actually

...that is exactly the same for a Taurus (we are very much alike...our signs)...Taureans are extremely possessive, and we can become very very jealous. From my experience with my girlfriend she's more prone to jealousy than possessiveness. What I'm trying to say is that both signs are very possessive and prone to jealousy, but Taureans slant more possessive, and Scorpio's slant more to jealousy (from my experience).

Having said that, I know exactly where your boyfriend is coming from. He's just prodding to get some...history...or guage your responses about your male friends. It's his possessive streak coming out, just in a calm way...so as not to seem like it's really bothering him. Trust me I know. Take his prodding as a compliment as well, it just shows that he really does care for you and he's trying to protect what he cherishes. You have a steadfast, devoted, extremely loyal partner with you. Never forget that =).

/Cheer to us Scorpio / Taurus pairs.

Cuidate (that's 'take care' in Spanish)
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Hi spanish taurus,

It's been a while since i've been here, but still i must thank you for the useful tip! Ever since, I've been observing my taurus man - and I've noticed that his ?inquiries? are more frequent now, but still with the same calm and collected manner - that drives me crazy in an exciting way 😄 I now understand him better, and call me weird but i love it when he does ask, cause it shows that he really cares, and it's quite a turn on actually! 😉

I've also read some of your other posts and I'm so so very touched on how much you are connected with your scorpio woman, and i must say that she is a VERY lucky woman to have great person like you who appreciates and i wish the best for both of you 🙂

Because i know how it feels to be part of a taurus/scorpio relationship, and like i said before it's just this incredible connection that i'm still struggling to explain (yet i still want to because it feels so good). I've been with several other signs ? air signs, water, even with my own kind - the scorpio male ? which wasn?t too bad, but i must say, that i have NEVER been in a relationship where i feel so comfortable, so at peace, and so stimulated mentally, physically and emotionally. It's like I don't even have to try, because it comes naturally and this mystical unspoken connection is always there - sometimes my taurus can even read me like book - without saying a word.

The other thing that?s just fabulous about my taurus is that he is not afraid of me. He is not afraid to communicate, to laugh, to stir or argue with me. Most guys of other signs usually shy away, out of intimidation most probably. That?s why I think it takes a real, strong man to be able to approach women and not be intimidated. A man has to have that kind of confidence. And this I have found in many taurus men. But above all, his kindness, patience and intelligence are the very things that make my taurus man extra extra special 🙂 Taurus men are the best for scorpio women if you ask me. And like you Spanish taurus, I second the recommendation of the taurus male/scorpio female relationship. Yay!

p.s. and hi Atlantic Myst ? it?s crazy but to me it feels great to possess and be possessed really! 😉