share your experience with a Taurus

Profile picture of SmartOnTheRocks
SmartOnTheRocks
@SmartOnTheRocks
9 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 181 · Topics: 21
I grew up admiring Taurus people they hard workers and back it up. Now I feel sorry for them because they handle and settle for crap. They are under cover gold diggers. They will stay in a relationship for security. It's like they believe in the words forever through better or for worse without a ring.

I had 2 Taurus relationships slept with 1 and the other was just slowed down. Taurus number 1 was an Alpha male. He was made the youngest partner at his law firm and when he wasn't busy he was with me. We only dated for 4 months. But we had fun. He will pick me up from work and took me to my first trip overseas. We never had sex. Because he wanted us to get married. Then 1 day we were making out I decided to give him a hand job. *claps once* it felt like a 10 year olds and on top of that he was erect. I couldn't do that to myself. so one day we had a fight and I told him never to call me again. And he didn't. 2 weeks later we made up but I suggested we become friends. He's my mentor now and always pushes me to reach beyond my dreams and he's married. He always asks me why we not marriedd since we gel so well. my Lil secret.

2nd 1 we dated for a year. But he was a contrast. We had fun. sex was okay he just got tired quickly and only loved 1 position. few never reached round 3 and I have a high sex drive. He's also lazy. He's turning 31 still at his mom's house not working and not even looking. He's working on a business that he's been pushing since he was 26 but it had never launched. He can never finish a task. I broke up with him because I got tired of buying him things. He made up for it by being my house maid he cleaned and did everything and I couldn't respect him when I asked him to jump he will ask how high. I couldn't deal. anyways a year later he hacked into my Facebook and Gmail accounts and found out I moved in with a Capricorn then he slapped me. I didn't speak to him for like 6 months then I forgave him then he pushed my boundaries when he hacked into my accounts again. I told him to leave me alone he called me names and now he's blocked for good. Too obsessive he still thinks we going to get married so I take care of his ass.

The ladies are great except I see them as doormats. Look at karreuche tran. Most girls can't leave and they stay for bullbutter. they even know they getting cheated on but every man cheats in their eyes. At least he always comes back to them. They strong individuals outside but in relationships they will never leave. To me that's sad. The Capricorns main chick was one. And she still took him back even when he made other 3 girls pregnant. I thank God I wasn't part of the drama. She's still there. Loving him.

Good character strong leaders. They share knowledge they love and have taste for good things.

Bad character they settle for bull. I know they are the bull but no maan
Profile picture of Crabra
Crabra
@Crabra
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 4 · Posts: 1709 · Topics: 21
My Taurus ex was one of the most loving, gorgeous, sensual, foodies I've ever met. A true bull. But she was also fucking crazy (yes, I know guys who call their exes crazy are likely equally such). She had no control over her emotions, and I was constantly cleaning up the messes she created with her frequent stampedes. Eventually it became too much, and I unleashed my tsunami on that relationship, forcing her to get the fuck out of dodge. I think both our hearts were shattered nearly to dust on that one. Very sad. I loved my bull so much
Profile picture of TaurusBull1977
TaurusBull1977
@TaurusBull1977
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 4771 · Topics: 30
This post doesn't make any sense.
Your assertions are not astrology-based.
As for the references "gold-digger" and "tolerating a cheating man"...hon, that is many women I know.
It has nothing to do with astrology.

If you wanted to make a more compelling argument about Bullettes and Tolerance, READ the guidebook!
We're patient, but certainly not doormats.
We're fixed signs, which means we could take you or leave you....and do it with such poise and grace.
Send you off for some tea...just to have the locks changed when you get back.
Yes, a man who wishes to win our hearts better have his mind right.

If you read other people's experiences with Bulls, you will likely hear the word 'CRAZY.'
The horns come out when the Bull is crossed.
LOL, you're just seeing the sweeter, softer side of the coin...
Remember, we're always ladies in public 😉
Profile picture of r0xy09
r0xy09
@r0xy09
10 Years

Comments: 0 · Posts: 57 · Topics: 7
Honestly, Taurus only stay until the time is right to leave - our patience allows us to wait it out. However, once we notice that you're giving us crap, we've already checked out of the relationship, even if the other person is not aware of it. Taurus are very good at concealing their intentions and feelings. I stayed with a guy for a really long time and to someone looking at my relationship from the outside, you would assume I'm putting up with crap b/c I'm a weak person. I was waiting for the right time to officially end it with him b/c I knew the person was mentally unstable and would try to ruin my life (god forbid anyone try to destabilize a Taurean's harmony). We basically wait it out until the other person dumps us so we don't have to be the one at fault OR we just know it is going to naturally end. BUT during the time that a Taurus is checked out, we are not the loyal little lambs many people would think we are. I know I'm not like and neither are a lot of Taurus girls I know. Once we have emotionally detached from you, and this occurs fairly early on when we detect you're not being genuine, we will not hesitate to go out with other guys and act single in public. Non-Taurus cannot understand Taurus behaviour, but there's always a method to what seems to an outside as madness.

On the other hand, after this first experience, I have learned to get rid of a clearly negative person quickly as it is much better to save your time. At the very least, I can say that I have learned. I know many, many women from other signs of the zodiac who stay 100% committed, loyal, devoted, like crazy blind fanatics to guys who publicly cheat on them, humiliate them, treat them like garbage etc. (in particular, I've noticed this is common amongst Capricorn, Cancer, Libra women more so than others from my experience). Taureans are not door mats at all but neither are we the type to take advantage of other people's kindness. We're the strong, silent types that are hard to discern from just appearance alone. Taurus are incredibly sensitive and we care a lot about our security (as you mentioned), and so we won't risk ruining the stability we have in our life w/ a man who makes us feel uncertain.

On your gold digger point, there's gold diggers from every sign of the zodiac lol. I actually haven't noticed many Taurean gold diggers. Taurus girls are materialistic but independent and pride themselves in getting the luxuries they want - especially since its no good depending on others for making you happy. Also, I can't be w/ a man I don't have a mental, emotional, and physical attraction to.
Profile picture of TaurusBull1977
TaurusBull1977
@TaurusBull1977
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 4771 · Topics: 30
Posted by r0xy09
. At the very least, I can say that I have learned. I know many, many women from other signs of the zodiac who stay 100% committed, loyal, devoted, like crazy blind fanatics to guys who publicly cheat on them, humiliate them, treat them like garbage etc. (in particular, I've noticed this is common amongst Capricorn, Cancer, Libra women more so than others from my experience).
I noticed this from Cardinal Signs as well.
Not so much from Cappies, but add Aries to that equation.
I thought I was the only one.
It seems as if they're a glutton for punishment, and thrive on the entire chaos of a dysfunctional relationship.
I wouldn't paint it off as weakness though, however, I do believe it stems from taking everything they're told at face value.
Words seem to speak louder than actions for most cardinals.

With Bulls, we leap both with our eyes and ears.
Consistency is a BIG thing for us.
Inconsistencies threaten our internal nest for stability, and thus, we will look for every single way out.
I loved your statement.
We DO leave...quietly, but I admit, I would prefer for the other individual to end it 1st.
Loyalty, Stubbornness and a need to preserve what we have may keep us going, but trust me, our hearts left the relationship many moons ago.
Profile picture of TaurusBull1977
TaurusBull1977
@TaurusBull1977
16 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 4771 · Topics: 30
Posted by Taureye
We look lazy but we just take our times doing things when we see fit, but you're damn sure deadlines will be met.
This is very true.
I often hear that we're either slow or lazy.
Funny, everyone else around me are either running their mouths or giving off unnecessary energy and they're deemed as quick-witted.
I'm actually the ONLY one who is getting the job done.

I'm in my own head, a mini outlook calendar, and I'm prioritizing everything from A-Z.

But trust me, deadlines will always be met.
Profile picture of jane84
jane84
@jane84
9 Years1,000+ Posts

Comments: 0 · Posts: 2045 · Topics: 19
I have a best friend. She is a Taurus, I'm a Libra. Her husband (a Cancer) abused her and cheated on her multiple times, she finally divorced him. My ex TAURUS abused me and cheated on me with one other girl, I finally divorced him. My Taurus friend and I BOTH made more money than our ex husbands. I helped mine get out of debt after I returned from college DEBT FREE because I worked several jobs and earned scholarships that paid for my college degree, she made sure the bills were paid in her household. Both of us didn't have children with them, because we are both smart in that sense. We stayed LONG after we should have because of loyalty. We both did not want to believe that we married loser, cheating, jerks. But we did.. I work all the time. She works as much as she can (has some health issues.)

Neither of us were dumb, we were loyal. We loved them, NOT for their money, but because we believed in what was once there. I don't blame all Taurus men now and although it scares me to be with one again, I don't believe it's a sign thing. If I were ever single again, maybe I would, I can't tell the future. That stubborness gets to me sometimes though.

Anyway, I have MANY Taurus female friends/family members. I also have many Taurus males in my life. One thing I know for sure. A Taurus does not compromise, it's not an all out war, it's a slow, steady stubborness that can drive a family member/partner crazy. But there are matches for them out there. My Taurus friend is now with a Virgo male (they argue some here and there, but she seems to love him, he's not abusive.) My cousin is a loyal (just stubborn) Taurus and he is with a loyal Sag woman (his wife.) Actually there are two Taurus/Sag couples in my family that seem to work.

My Taurus male friend is with a Taurus female. That does NOT work. He cheats on her. They argue ALL the time. Geez.. The rest of us friends just keep out of their business, because it's tiring being around them together.