Moon Cap/Scorp ascen/Venus Lib

My dad is loyal among work peeps. He refuses to take a promotion because he doesn't want to have to be on top of the guys he joined with.
My Aries/Taurus cuz says it all the time to fam,friends her bf. If you love people, let them know not everyone needs to hear it but some do and it is always a nice thing to hear.
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Whats your thoughts on putting a deadline if you are expecting a commitment ie marriage? Is it wrong? Do you just live out the relationship with no regard to the future or do you need to know where it is headed so as not to waste time and perhaps find someone who IS looking for marriage?? Have you ever done this? Experiences?


Ok love!
I told this story before.
I had a young lady customer who was dating a very wealthy man for 7 years when I've met her.
Everyone advised her to dump him and move on.
She was listening and keep dating him.
3 more years past and on 10 years anniversary he proposed!
When she came to us and showed the rock he gave her as an engagement ring - all 'advisers' butter their pants!

She said he needed to make sure it's HIM she wants and not his wealth!

So she put herself into being with him - marriage or just for love because she was willing to sacrifice family and no kids for him - one and only! And luckily he was smart enough to realize - she loved him because she was getting older and risking not to have kids FOR HIM!

It's all depends on how strong your feelings are for that particular person!



So I dont know how I feel about this? Admire or not, I guess I can respect her decision though. I dont know myself whether I could sacrifice my desire for a family for a man...although I guess if I could not see myself ever being with another it could happen.


Exactly! Unfortunately I know another woman who married a man just because she was 29 and wanted kids so badly and no one was there!
Now he took kids away and she is a mother of 3 with one left tonight for and 2 older want none of her at all!
Man is a sick bastard!

Just pray! Though she is devoted Catholic - doesn't work for her yet! But I am sure God will reward her somehow for all the suffering.

We are just a specs in Universe!

What dO YOU want to do?
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Definately sounds like settling. I have been engaged twice but didn't go through with it...neither felt like the one, I felt like I was fooling myself. The second one would have been a great provider/father but not good for marriage. I am very happy in my relationship now and can see a future with him, I didnt get that before. Who knows what will happen.
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I feel like it should happen organically, and if you find your self issuing ultimatums and setting deadlines in the relationship, they are probably not the right person for you, period. It makes someone look pathetic

I have a cap friend, who years ago said, "if he doesn't propose to me by summer of 2017, I am DONE!" This is concerning a pisces man. He didn't propose yet lol.

You can't force a man to commit, he either wants to or he doesn't! Don't try to force him. He will resent you for it, and it will push him away.

I think all you can do is be upfront when first meeting someone, and tell them where you see yourself in x amount of time, and what expectations you have of a person you are looking to get serious with. If you both are on the same page, and that time goes by and it still hasn't happened, then that is a different story. You can remind them that's what you wanted, and have the conversation about if they still feel the same way and want the things you want or if you should terminate the relationship, and seek someone with wants/needs more fitting to your own.

People change though as they feel their biological clock ticks away. I met a woman who, her and her husband decided a long time before that they didn't want kids. She couldn't have them. He was fine with it at first, but later realized that he DID want kids, so he dumped her. It was really sad.


Thats a real double whammy. This is very sad
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Whats your thoughts on putting a deadline if you are expecting a commitment ie marriage? Is it wrong? Do you just live out the relationship with no regard to the future or do you need to know where it is headed so as not to waste time and perhaps find someone who IS looking for marriage?? Have you ever done this? Experiences?


Ok love!
I told this story before.
I had a young lady customer who was dating a very wealthy man for 7 years when I've met her.
Everyone advised her to dump him and move on.
She was listening and keep dating him.
3 more years past and on 10 years anniversary he proposed!
When she came to us and showed the rock he gave her as an engagement ring - all 'advisers' butter their pants!

She said he needed to make sure it's HIM she wants and not his wealth!

So she put herself into being with him - marriage or just for love because she was willing to sacrifice family and no kids for him - one and only! And luckily he was smart enough to realize - she loved him because she was getting older and risking not to have kids FOR HIM!

It's all depends on how strong your feelings are for that particular person!

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So I dont know how I feel about this? Admire or not, I guess I can respect her decision though. I dont know myself whether I could sacrifice my desire for a family for a man...although I guess if I could not see myself ever being with another it could happen.
Whats your thoughts on putting a deadline if you are expecting a commitment ie marriage? Is it wrong? Do you just live out the relationship with no regard to the future or do you need to know where it is headed so as not to waste time and perhaps find someone who IS looking for marriage?? Have you ever done this? Experiences?
Maybe 2 or 3. Mainly because they totally block the communication and refuse to accept what is trying to be put forth lol (lack of understanding or the desire to)
I don't think you would have to guess. Libra make it very clear when they want someone OUT. So if they have decided for whatever reason they want you to be a part of their life again there will be many attempts to see you, meet up, keeping in touch, them trying to become a part of your daily life again. That is they don't just come out with it.
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Posted by LibraLovesHim
Say your gf left her mobile phone in your presence for the day-would you feel tempted to have a nosey? Have you ever done this? Did you find anything and how did you feel about doing it?


If he's a SCORPIO, YES! Smh..
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Hahahaha! Don't I know it, asked my stepdad (scorp) the same question, he proceeded to tell me a story of the dentist who put his car into my fathers workshop for body work, and left his phone in the car. He decided to have a wee look and found pics of him making clay moulds from his erect chicken! Rather interesting! That was just plain noseyness lol!
Hell no but ive heard of others doing so. I "waited" 5 years for mine, that wasn't for nothing.
Posted by MaxPower
Yes. Every time I see a bully I want to knock his fat teeth down his throat for him.


Lol bullies being top of my list! I mean in relationships :-P

5 days
Posted by IcemanMk
Posted by LibraLovesHim
I sense a dude from a different culture.


Bad culture?
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I didnt say bad. Where are you from?
I sense a dude from a different culture.
Posted by CaramelizedCoffee
I am a liar and a fake. I have a crush on a Muslim man, even though I hate his religion.

My favorite author says "I love you when you bow in your mosque, kneel in your temple, pray in your church. For you and I are sons of one religion, and it is the spirit. Khalil Gibran
"

but i don't love those who kneel in their mosque.

i hate Islam and I don't know why

first background i come from a family of PRIESTS. Grandfather, uncle, cousins...etc..I am an Orthodox Christian.

but i don't follow only in holidays...

so my problem with islam and why i hate it so much, i think has to do with the cultural aspect

How Arabs Treat BLACKS

and How ARABS treat WOMEN

i don't care to see women wrapped in BLACK in 120 DEGREE WEATHER. Like WTF man

i don't like seeing women covered up at all.

I don't like how they keep women DOWN. like DOGS. Like they don't have their own minds. They are anti education for women, etc.

I don't like the brutality of Islam towards its followers...it's very RIGID

honor killings, hands cut off for stealing, etc etc etc


anyway ...that's the background

help me....stop being FAKE and help me like Islam

thank you.


Ummmm where are you witnessing, first hand, all of the above???
Possibly lack depth...
Posted by Centaurian
Any advise on signs to know he is messing with you?


By what he doesnt do. Patience is a virtue with this. If he is serious he'll soon want to be introducing you to fam/friends etc
You havent known him long enough i'd say to consider "throwing the towel in" be realistic. Look at the situation and him subjectively, but also trust your intuition. Learn from the past-you have been in abusive relations previously? That would make me more hesitant and less prematurely enthusiastic. Let it take its course naturally-all will be revealed in time.