Moon Cap/Scorp ascen/Venus Lib

Posted by ValleysofNeptune
Usually like this



lol jk, if I decide to give someone money I'm willing to part with it forever and just expect that I'll never get it back. If I do it's just a bonus


It was sort of taken from me lol! Thats why i'm pissed. We have mutual friends, i'm just hoping she does the right thing. The amount was little but the principle is eating me up-coming into my home, hoodwinking then snaffling something from under my nose doesn't go down well with me. Although I should have been smarter.
Posted by Nightcap-
Generally my rule is that I don't give/lend money to people unless they're close enough to me that I don't care if they pay it back. They'll usually say they will but I don't expect it or say anything. I'm not talking a lot; maybe 2 or 3 hundred. I'm happy to help..and it always seems to come back to me in the way of good fortune. It happened to me last weekend in fact. The day after my scorp brother called me for some assistance, I got a 600 dollar bonus from a client that I didn't know I was getting. I also found 5 pages of stamps that day in the Post Office parking lot lol. If I can believe in astrology somewhat, I can also believe in the law of attraction that comes along with generosity.


Oh most definately agree with you here. I have lent out a LOT of money and never asked for it back from friends, paid for countless lunches, picked up numerous tabs etc.
This one she walked out from a garage sale with a brand new pair of boots without paying. LOL! She is Cap btw-and also Morrocan, self confessed "business woman" lol - not that this should make a difference but been totally fooled by them a couple of time. May need to put a ban. TRIFLIN!
I like it and want to take his last name, essentially I am leaving one family (my fathers name) to start my own family (in his name) I am not a raging feminist though so it bothers me not at all.
Hard working
Goal orientated
Savage
Needy
Affectionate
Thoughtful
Nutty (not always with it lol, have a tendency to push their body's limits-brain power, muscle power etc so can become fatigued)
Energetic
Loyal
Protective
Silly
Giving
Impatient
Quick to temper-quick to cool
Hungry
Fashionable
Sensitive
Family orientated
Ever see someone on vid/pic and they look beautiful, then in real life you are totally stumped they aint all that. Aries are the opposite. They have "something" I don't really know what it is.
Yeah all true, nothing new here
Sounds like you you dont need either at this time in your life. Sort out yourself first before bringing another around such an unstable/confused energy-it will never end well.
So in the very early stages of my Aries and us "seeing each other" I mean after one month-another guy asked me to dinner and I asked Aries how he felt about it-his Q was, is this a friend or does he have more serious interest in you-which the guy did, I told him the truth and I think he wasnt approving, instead he said let ME take you for that dinner
From that day forward I never did go out to dinner with guys interested in me in that way.
BUT I was treading very carefully with him, I impressed myself with how I managed at the beginning-I dont give such things much thought.

Back to the Q. I think he would have accepted it, ONCE had he realised I had no intentions with other guys. But if I was doing this continually after us speaking about it, NAH! Not one to be taken for a ride, or be a pearl on that pearl necklace
Do you eventually just forget about it?
I've never owed anyone as I think its pretty shameful.
Thoughts?
Posted by Toti
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Just don't take it as "oh he is wonderful" he is just being a Virgo. He has the same issues as all other men, possibly even more. It jus takes time to get exposed to that side. Great at the beginning, but once the going get tough-its get really damn tough with this dude.


Heaven in the beginning indeed. Later, the downfall starts... Every single time. My best friend is a virgo and she can't form a relationship, my cousin- great successful guy but disastrous emotional life. I would see why is that. I love Virgos but I can't always understand them well. As a Scorpio I know how to dig deep but with these guys nothing works. I wish to meet a person who has a successful long term relationship with a virgo, male or female.
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I know of one married couple, friends of my mothers. She is the Virgo-its unconventional and she just "sort of ended up with him and that was that" (he sounded like the fallback guy) -maybe thats what works for them.
I do wonder, as beautiful as Virgo women can be, is this what happens in the end. When they are older and dried up and lost many a decent guy-they just sort of end up, unsatisfied? Sounds pretty crappy. Maybe they have an inability to count their blessings, and water their garden.
Just don't take it as "oh he is wonderful" he is just being a Virgo. He has the same issues as all other men, possibly even more. It jus takes time to get exposed to that side. Great at the beginning, but once the going get tough-its get really damn tough with this dude.
Posted by Gemitati
He takes her for a VD date.
AGAIN! She isn’t dressing up OR making up her face...
They go right from work.

Like...wtf child?
She seems doesn’t give a butter what she looks like for him!

Does she feel pretty enough and confident that he is ok as long as she SAID YES?

We ALL in a family confident about our looks except her! Used to be!
NOW she seems at 23 took it as ‘he will survive spinach in mybteerh’...

Does she feel he is in love? Or she doesn’t care about him?

They seem strangely connected but she says ‘mom...I don’t know...’

Man drives at 9am to pick her up hangovers from girls party. Makes her breakfast and she is at our home by 10am...

Should I be pulling my hair out or be happy?


I'm confused. So you want her out face full of make up smelling like a just like me house? Mmmmm aint gonna interest Virgo man anyway. Was same set up with me an 16yrs elder Virgo-he liked me because I appeared innocent Liked less make up, and my "shyness" Is there a problem he is feeding her then dropping her home or should she be getting her hole also? I'm confused. lol!
Yes I liked your explanation and I agree. Everything that maybe makes one feel alive-drugs, alcohol, ego feeding ways, money, materials etc etc let it go

I think mankind is going through an interesting transition and we will get more enlightened, history says. Things usually get worse right before they get better though. Here and there. But overall there will be change for the better.
I think my aunt Taurus is still on a break from her Libra husband-lemme get back to you...
Posted by Impulsv
I’m just honestly curious how e one girl you got the she doesn’t deserve this but not the rest. What was the difference.why was she ur changer?


I think the change was in him first, then the next girl came along wasn't cheated on. Not vice versa. They say the same when a man decides to settle, the guy decides he wants to change, the next woman in line whoever she is gets the best of him. Makes sense.
Posted by Senorita_LL
Posted by LibraLovesHim
Depends how one defines "best gift" 1st bf, I believe he was a Taurus-4 day trip to Paris.

My current and I hope last (Aries), though got me this yr a gold chain with 2 little crosses running along the chain and it was to "protect me in our new life together in Italy"

Paris was nice, at 18, but I am happier with this from this particular man, at this time in my life.


That sounds cool. Tbh, for me, I would prefer hand made gifts or just a card with some written words. That would mean a lot more than those expensive gifts.

I still kept all of the cards my friends and kids gave me on my birthday. Even one, from a Leo gf and that was when I was 19 years old. She even put a picture of me on that card. And now...I am 35 years old. Urghhh
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Yes I love cards, written words, communication. I guess that's why the necklace meant all the more, the words it came with-it wasn't just "happy V day", he had thought about it-that's what's sweet. Its easy to spend money.
alpha male
noun
the dominant male animal in a particular group.
"two of them trotted over to greet the alpha male, a black wolf with a greying muzzle"
a man tending to assume a dominant or domineering role in social or professional situations.
"most alpha males need to control the women in their lives"

I was going to say Aries, but I have to disagree. Based on this i'd say Cap.
Depends how one defines "best gift" 1st bf, I believe he was a Taurus-4 day trip to Paris.

My current and I hope last (Aries), though got me this yr a gold chain with 2 little crosses running along the chain and it was to "protect me in our new life together in Italy"

Paris was nice, at 18, but I am happier with this from this particular man, at this time in my life.
Girls feel free to ask your guys!

I was going for homemade lasagna, garlic bread and a nice side salad? I may bake a cake also if i'm feeling adventurous!
Do not stay long in "msging" phase.