Should I or Shouldnt I—??

My taurus man got layed off and was having a lil trouble with unemployment. He actually handled somewhat of his personal business in front of me and asked me a few questions to help him...That was a plus for me :0) The one thing that I have learned is to NOT ask too many questions and pressure HIM (THEM) esp when is comes to personal issues. I have been putting in a few extra hours and I have enough to give him a lil something "just because". I dont want it returned or anthing else in return...just for him to know that I really love him and its not just words. do you think its a good idea? I dont ever want him to feel like I pity him or hes not man enough..Do you think he'll accept?? Please help!!! I love him so much. We havent talked like we usually do in 2 days and I know its becuase he's "handling his business" that prob means hes goin to interview or what not...

ohhh and what too much?? I was thinking like im not trying to pay a bill for you, i just you to have a lil pocket change..is $ 50.00 too much? or TOO LITTLE—?

It's generous of you to give him money. Not expecting anything and only coming from the heart makes it a valuable gift.

Oh man. I think that would emasculate any guy, especially a Taurus. Expect him to be touched, and not take it. It would be better or more practical for you to help him get another job without letting him know...like nudging him in the right direction so he could feel like it was his accomplishment.

Posted by anonymousheart
Oh man. I think that would emasculate any guy, especially a Taurus. Expect him to be touched, and not take it. It would be better or more practical for you to help him get another job without letting him know...like nudging him in the right direction so he could feel like it was his accomplishment.

thanks...i actually have sent him job postings for companies and hes said thank you, not sure if he applied but..im only just trying to help without being all in...ya know!!

Ask him what you can do to help. See what he says.

Posted by anonymousheart
Ask him what you can do to help. See what he says.

ok i will...thanks!!

Don't hand it to him that might make him feel funny. Just leave it somewhere where he will find it and know it's from you.

I would do $ 100.00 but only if you can afford it. In today's economy $ 50 doesn't go very far.

Posted by Nala13
Don't hand it to him that might make him feel funny. Just leave it somewhere where he will find it and know it's from you.

I would do $ 100.00 but only if you can afford it. In today's economy $ 50 doesn't go very far.

wow thanks Nala13, i was actually thinking about putting it on like a visa card..u can pretty much do anything with it. Should i tell him i want to give him something vs it being a secret gift—