SNOOPiNG -- TAURUS N SAGG

OKE .. OKE .. iM PRACTiCALLY iN LOVE WiTH MY TAURUS .. iM A SAGG BY THE WAY .. HES ALWAYS THERE FOR ME .. WE HAVE A LOT N COMMON .. ALWAYS OUT TOGETHER .. ALWAYS N TOGETHER .. ALWAYS ON THE FONE .. NOT TO THE POINT WHERE IM SICK OF HIM BUT PRETTY OFTEN .. THERES JUS THIS ONE THING.. HE WANTED ME TO FETCH HIS PHONE THE OTHER DAY N I DID BUT WHEN I DROPPED IT I GUESS THE MESSAGES BUTTON GOT PRESSED 🙂 N I SAW SOME TEX MESSAGES .. NOT TO ME !!! ONE SAID .. "I CANT WAIT TO SEE YOU .. HOW WAS YOUR DAY" IT WAS TO A CHIC NAMED --- // IM JUS THINKING.. WHAT GROUNDS TO I HAVE TO BRING THIS UP.. I DONT WANA BREAK THE TRUST N HAVE HIM THINKIN I SNOOP THRU HIS SHT BUT I REALLY CARE ABOUT HIM AND I DONT WANA SET MYSELF UP FOR FAILURE .. ITS BEEN ALMOST 3 MONTHS .. IT BEFORE IT GOES NE FURTHER I NEED TO KNOW WHETHER TO STAY OR RIDE OUT .. I DONT KNOW .. DONT U KNOW WHETHER OR NOT U WANT TO BE WITH SOMEONE AFTER 2 MONTHS .. WE SPEND SO MUCH TIME TOGETHER .. ALL HE TELLS ME IS HOW SCARRED HE IS FRM PAST RELATIONSHIPS .. WE AGREED NOT TO JUMP N ONE BUT AT THE SAME TIME WHAT AM I DOING ? I KNOW WHAT I FEEL N I CANT HELP BUT HINK THAT HE DOESNT TRUST ME ENOUGH TO BE N A RELATIONSHIP .. YET HE CAN PLAY HOUSE AND WE CAN DO ALL THESE OTHER THINGS ...?? N NOW I SEE MESSAGES IN HIS PHONE TO OTHER WOMEN WHEN I THOUGHT WE "WORKING ON US"

PLEASE OFFER HONEST OPINIONS ... IM A HARDHEAD BUT I CAN TAKE IT 🙂

I think Taurus men are horrible. They're childish, have little self control, disrespectful, and stupid. I say do some more investigation. You might be onto something and also be prepared to pull out fast emotionally.

"They're childish, have little self control, disrespectful, and stupid. "

oh, are you a taurus then?..........

are you a drag queen?

no I'm not, so put your pea shooter back in your panties

lmao

HiS ACTiONS SAY HES WiTH ME .. WHEN i ASKED HiM WAS HE SEEiNG OTHER PEOPLE .. HE TOLD ME NO .. HE DOESNT REALLY HAVE THE TiME .. AS i SAiD WE SPEND A LOT OF iT TOGETHER .. i GUESS ALL i CAN REALLY DO iS BE REAL WiTH MYSELF .. i KNOW HOW i FEEL .. AND SO DOES HE .. SHOULD HE BE LEADiNG ME ON .. iT WONT BE LONG BEFORE I CAN SEE iT .. iN THE MEAN TiME .. iM TRUSTiNG HiM .. 🙂

well I'm not mad....as long as you didn't mean me........

I have to agree with atlantic mist [and yes Paul, you too 😉] unless he's a COMPLETE momma's boy and that was his mom texting to say "I miss you, how was your day? can't wait until you get home dear"..... this is no longer a trust issue......

I find when Taurus men are serious about a person, that is what they are serious. Atleast the couple I know who are in a relationship.

Maybe in a relationship, but as friends they treat their own friends with little or no respect. I'll say this much though. If you really need them in a pinch they are reliable, but sometimes I think they do it to be diplomatic.

i mean .. i have male associates but none who i cant wait to see. .. hes that .. i just didnt know how i wood bring it up considering it was a bit sneaky the way i came across the text message .. he has so many good qualities.. none that wood give the impression hes lying to me .. but then again .. the tex kind of spoke for itself.. i dont know.. i said i was jus giving it until at least new years n if im still in suspended animation about the whole thing.. id jus leave it alone ... 😢

Why dont you just skip all the guessing and ask him. If you tell us what you told him then he shouldnt accuse you of snooping and even if he does i think its more important that you confront him about the message....although it takes a couple buttons to get to a specific message and a lot of skill to drop a phone so that any button besides one of the ones on the side are pressed....so if you were snooping maybe you already knew the deal before you found the message.....

honestly .. i didnt expect that.. curiousity got the best of me.. i didnt expect to find messages with other women ... just curious as to who he texes since we dont really tex each other too often ...

Hmm so now the truth of the matter is that you were snooping and didnt accidentally drop the phone....so first deal with your own resistance to honesty, then deal with his.

No.. No.. i did initially accidentallly drop the phone .. im clumsy like that ... 🙂 he has one of those PDAs with one touch access buttons and sOoo.. hence how i stumbled across the messages.. but to Shka2: No i didnt .. but even stl .. i think ill just take some heed frm some post i was reading on another forum.. quotes frm that book the Secret.. how your own negative thoughts manifest situations.. not to be naive but honest with yourself.. what you want and what you dont want.. i know i want him..i know i dont want drama.. so my responsibility to myself be honest with me then with him.. n not seek the latter that i dont want.. at the same time pay attention to what he says .. n more importantly what he does.. i really am crazy about him.. i wood love for us to work out.. ive never been with a taurus before.. truly a different dynamic.. me n all my sagg outrageousness.. 😉 its good energy though.. at least for the most part ....

but i respect what u said. SF.. i must handle my issues before i could even confront his alleged ones...