
Are we really that stubborn —


Posted by BikerCh1ck
Oh yes! If there is a thought in your mind that you think is right, even if the whole world think is wrong you will stick with it.
For example my best mate in primary school decided when she was 16 that a woman should get married to her first boyfriend. And when my first boyfriend broke up from me she stopped talking to me. She was only 19 when she decided that and until now that she is 31 she still believes this. It is insane but that doesn't change her mind.
Another example, I had a taurus housemate and she decided that the house was too warm to put the heater on. So in the middle of the winter and while there was snow outside and all the roads were closed she had kept the heater OFF for everyone in the house. NO matter how much I was telling her that I was freezing she was not changing her mind. Isn't THAT stubborn?

Posted by BikerCh1ck
Well these were extreme people haha! I don't know if she is married or just a girlfriend but they are together since they were 13-14 years old. I saw her facebook, I went and added her, we haven't spoken 10 years since my ex broke up from me and she cancelled my friend request.
The other one yeah she wanted to save up money so she was a complete bitch. She made up though at the end defending me to get back my deposit on the rent. I don't hold grudges but I wouldn't be her friend either.
Yeah you guys are stubborn but you are nice to have around.

Posted by TaureanAries
I'm only stubborn when I know I am absolutely right...if there is any shade of grey then I will compromise.
If there's something I want I will go after it like a woman possessed and won't be moved from my mission.
So the stubborness only comes into play when things are important. As for the rest? I am cruisy as.

Posted by Mythical
I'm stubborn at times. If i really don't want to do something, i wont do it, no matter what the consequences may be. When i'm involved in a debate, it's a case of "i'm right, you're wrong & there's nothing you can do about it" (bit of a Matilda quote there 😉 lol)


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