taurus fem in love w pisces man

hmm im over 40 ready to comit? pisces man and i get along wonderfully,,, sex,.conversation likes dislikes,, but we too freindly and no talk of romance or love,,, just heavy duty friendship,, do I corner him and give an ultimatum?
times a wasting! w are so good together but i speak of l;ove he backs right up.. he moved in my small complex
HELP!

What kind of committment you want? Marriage? If so you went about it the wrong way. You let him move into your space before having the "TALK" about your relationship. How come he was able to move in without any type of discussion pertaining to your relationship with him and where it is going in th efuture. oving in without someone is a big step in itself. You say he backs away when you mention "LOVE" "COMMITTMENT". Well dear that's because he has what he wants a roof over his head, food in his belly, and coochie that's available to him when need be. The saying goes "why buy the cow when the milk is for free". Sorry for being so blunt.

I'm sorry I meant moving in with someone is a big step in itself.

I'm sorry I meant moving in with someone is a big step in itself.

I'm sorry I meant moving in with someone is a big step in itself.

sorry , he moved in downstairs,, i live upstairs,,, he doesnt live with me,, we are freinds and slowly became more intimate.. know him since oct 01 and in feb things got thicker,,, but i need to see where its all going,,, if anywhere..
we talked bout friendship, but he wants to see me 24-7,,, and its not just bout sex, many days we just hang out,,,??

Have you let him know how you feel? Ask him want he is wanting out of all this or something along those lines. You may have to push him along, Taureans are slow moving generally. I have a pisces friend who I was seeing when we first met but now we are just friends. It never went anywhere becuz neither of us made the initiative, we both still have a crush on each other but it has gone nowhere! I don't know why, maybe we're both too scared to go any further although I know that we both wanted it to go further, could this maybe be what's happening with your situation? Maybe you need to make the initiative becuz he might not, even if he actually wants to. Ask him, or tell him what's on your mind. A Taurus will always give you a straight answer when asked.

Taurus Female///

Taurus Male here:

It is strange sometimes when feelings are obvously there, but the freinds relationship just does not seem to progress to intimacy. If he is single or not persuing someone else, then maybe he is just hesitant. When you two are together, and the mood is right, you may have to give him some definite physical signals to handle.

That first kiss is the toughest, but it usually is a breeze after that. So, see what happens. Otherwise, just be content with a friendship, but don't deny yourself intimacy, even if you must get it from another.

This is a toughy of a situation, especially when you are neighbors (and when you may be seeing others).

Just don't let it deny the intimacy one needs to have happiness. (with him or another).

Taurus Male

to taurus male,,
we are intimate,,, but this is so DIFFERENT than iv ever experienced,,, he has been very burned and he knew if he moved in downstairs we both be cutting off other folks,, he got very angry once when i said he was looking
for another,,, its like hes testing,,
making sure i dont flip like others in his life..his 1st wife he courted 6 yrs! and she still did him in,,so? he has to know Im different, but how long until he feels sure? if i press he may run,, anyhow we got a weeeknd planned out of town,,, this might be the "right time' we are both very scared,, just though there might be a special way to do this?

Taurus Male here:

Thanks for clearing up the situation for me. I guess I did not read you right. Fear is definitely working against this thing... Just because he was in a 6 year love that crapped on him (or he crapped on it), doesn't mean that he can not learn to trust in love again...this fear is only working against happiness for you both, if that is in the cards.

Being scared is only going to undermind it all. If you make the decision to get into it, then just do it without fear of something that may not be there.
But, for some reason, if it does not work out, then you can just know that at least you were not afraid to try.

"Better to have loved and lost, than to have never loved at all"...still is one of my favorite expressions.

Hope it works out.

Taurus Male

My favorite ecpression too Taurus Male, but sometimes it's hard, I know what she's saying when shesays their both scared. "The fear of the unknown". In one hand you're afraid that if you go beyond friends and things don't work out, you'll lose the friendship as well, especially if you really love the person. and the hand is that you don't want to be hurt, especially if you have been hurt before. I'm a Taurus and my male "friend" is a Taurus. We love each other, have made heavy contact, but no sex yet (3 years) and we both I guess is waiting for the other to start. We're both slow, you know the Taurus thang.

So girlfriend, I guess when you go away this weekend with him, maybe this is the time to talk about going further, especially if you have made love to him already and you live in the same complex. Get the cards out on the table before, you get hurt by seeing him with another or vice versa. At least you'll know where you stand with him and find out where his head (BRAIN....that is..🙂 is at.

ya i think the trip will be in the cards, but the trip is at the end of august,, iv been noticing though, he seems to be more approchable,, more closer,,, i wonder if HES is thinking too!i heard pisces like to surprize? is this so?

Taurus Male here:

Don't want to appear "tackey", but it sure is possible you are going to find out totally where his head is at, too.

Make Hay while the sun shines is also another phrase I like, as well.

Fear Not

Taurus Male

dear 205.128,
i think you should juss tell him.i kno how you feel. i used to be in a realtionship with a taurus man and we never bought up the subject 'luv'or anything simila to it.i wish i would have told him how i felt.tell him!!hes needs to wake up and get real!!!tauru are in their own world!!

i already told him, i loved him,, i show him,, and he just enjoys it all i guess,,, but due to curcumnstances,,he knows the 'time ' is ripe,, i in a new part of my life due to job changes,, poss. residence changes,, so,, soon! and taurus male u know we too down to earth to see tacky,,, thanks for the advice!

Taurus Male here:

I am sure that he does enjoy it....Just be sure you get to enjoy it as well...

Taurus Male

oh yea!(:}) ,, if not i wouldnt be hanging on so long and all that patience !!

Do not give your Pisces an ultimatum. He/she WILL swim away.

no way i figure to make it seem like his idea! pisces may love taurus,, but still hate commitments,,,
i never push just plant ideas,,,

You are a crafty little devil, indeed.

Hope it works out. (commitment or Bust)

Taurus Male