Taurus female ex is confusing..

I'm a 20 yr old Libra male and my ex is a 19 yr old Taurus female. We were best friends for our first year of meeting and when we got together, we lived together for a year. we were amazing together. stayed up every night, talked, laughed, feel asleep in each others arms every night.... it was so perfect...

she broke up with me in august cause i guess we just got tired of each other cause we were constantly together. its the end of October now but we still hang out as just friends.. we've had sex once but that was because she called me on a drunken night locked out of her house so i picked her up and i guess it lead from there when we got home. she said so many things about her feelings 'i miss you' etc. all that stuff (she said she was drunk and didn't remember what she said so i guess she was denying it)

shes been seeing this other guy but she doesn't know i know about him. guess shes keeping him a secret from me. but we're broken up so idk why she won't tell me. we still hangout and what not but i get this strong feeling she is flirting or trying to make me make a move or whatever... its confusing the **** out of me

i want her back so badly... i think she knows that but why doesn't she make the move if she wants me? is she still confused? does she keep that other guy around cause she's not sure to get back with me? or vice versa?

I've read up on Tauruses... if its true as they say that they usually never get over their Tauruses... then she must miss me or still loves me since she is keeping me around and hanging out.... i know that's what it is.... i can feel it in my stomach but idk how to approach this since she won't admit any feelings... I'm about to leave for Colorado at the end of November.. she doesn't know it tho and idk if I'm right or not but i feel like she will be devastated when i tell her I'm leaving out of state. if i told her, will she reconsider or at least keep me in her heart for something to workout in the future?

then one of my friends saw that she is in a relationship now BUT she customized the status so i cant see it... why would she do this? plus i'm pist. we just got out of a 1 yr relationship of living together and she is alreaqdy with someone after 2 months and maybe it started less... but i still have this gut feeling she still loves me... why won't she admit it?! or am i wrong... HELP ME PLEASE—?

I don't want to say she's playing you, but that's what it sounds like. It sounds like she's holding onto you by a thread, while she has this other guy too. If she was a real woman, she would let you know how she truly feels. I know you care about her, but the situation doesn't look to good. Think about if. Do you really want to be with her, not knowing where you stand? Knowing she has the potential to go back to the other guy. I don't know, it sounds like she's playing games.

she has to love me tho... right? i mean, why else would a Taurus keep their ex around... lately she hasn't been answering my texts but i think that's because last time we hung out.. my emotions took over and i said some things... like "i can't be doing this.. you're torturing me.. we can't be around each other like this". My other friend said that my ex took that as something i wanted to do... which made me think.. maybe SHE doesn't? then when i mentioned "maybe i should move to Colorado" i swear i saw her eyes get sad... i know my girl.. she looked hurt.. that's why i keep thinking, maybe she still does love me but doesn't want to admit it cause of her pride/stubbornness... my gut is tellin me something but idk what and i always go with my gut.

its just so weird... we both actually really thought of a future together. family, kids, old ppl sittin in the chair on the porch making fun of the current generation. we fell in love... we both said that.. why do i torture myself by telling myself "i know she still loves me. i know it. why won't she admit it?" i hate it..

The Charmer8,

When I was 20. I don't bother having a bf. Now I am 34, yes I am now bothered. lol

You are just a young boy darling. Come on. Take your time.

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she has to love me tho... right? i mean, why else would a Taurus keep their ex around... lately she hasn't been answering my texts but i think that's because last time we hung out.. my emotions took over and i said some things... like "i can't be doing this.. you're torturing me.. we can't be around each other like this". My other friend said that my ex took that as something i wanted to do... which made me think.. maybe SHE doesn't? then when i mentioned "maybe i should move to Colorado" i swear i saw her eyes get sad... i know my girl.. she looked hurt.. that's why i keep thinking, maybe she still does love me but doesn't want to admit it cause of her pride/stubbornness... my gut is tellin me something but idk what and i always go with my gut.

its just so weird... we both actually really thought of a future together. family, kids, old ppl sittin in the chair on the porch making fun of the current generation. we fell in love... we both said that.. why do i torture myself by telling myself "i know she still loves me. i know it. why won't she admit it?" i hate it..

Why do you just ask her how she really feels about you before you leave? And if you're leaving, how are you going to have a relationship with her anyway? Long distance? Do you just want confirmation that she still cares about you? If she's with some other guy, maybe she didn't love you all that much.

Honestly.. i would love to get back together but i don't think thats an option. I just want her to tell me how shes feeling. Not once have we really shared our feelings since the breakup. I'm not saying shes IN love with me but i just have this feeling she still loves and cares for me but won't admit it. we've hung out plenty of times since the breakup. She's slept over my house willingly. been to parties drunk. She had to have known something might have sparked between us when we hung out all these times. I am also confused why she won't tell me about the other guy...

plus... i honestly don't know how to approach her with this thing about me leaving to Colorado. She knew my family was leaving when i told her a few months ago but she didn't think i was going. i just have this feeling it will devastate her but i know she'll try and hide it. so do i make this an emotional time of talking to her when i tell her or argumentative about the other guy or what... i have no clue