is this what taureans look for in a gf/bf

All the taurus females i know want an affectionate+protective guy who also pampers them...is manly and reliable.

All the taurus males i know want someone with a small frame with a sweet looking face who they can adore and protect+care. But she is also classy, loyal with

Is this what REALLY taurus ppl look for? Thoughts?

I'm a Taurus female, and I want a sexy tan woman with a gigantic ass. 😆

ANYWAY, loyalty, reliability, someone who wants to just cuddle, honesty, understanding, supportive, unafraid of public displays of affection, and for me, someone horny at home but behaves like a lady in public. Also, someone I am at peace with because my life and I are chaotic enough as it is. Someone who accepts me and all my bullshit as long as it isn't something that affects the relationship because I am prepared to do that for her. It would be fantastic if she can cook too and smells nice.

I swear, it's like you read me like a book.

Prefer someone who wants to be protected, cared, needs attention.

@Vainth you are a male taurean i suppose? 🙂 so you want someone who is independent but only depends on you...? What is you venus?

Posted by aftershine
@Vainth you are a male taurean i suppose? 🙂 so you want someone who is independent but only depends on you...? What is you venus?

yup and venus is in gemini

second question may need more clarification, ...but yeah I think so 🙂

Hahaha, 2N3R hits close to home with her description.

The second part anyway 😛

I am also looking for loyalty, reliability, honesty and at least a measure of consistency. But the rest that 2N3R mentioned is dead on target. BTW, the minute something like work or whatever does effect my relationship I retaliate against what ever is the cause. My time is my time, and my lady is my lady and my time is hers as well. Rob me of this and I will rip the very thing that makes you tick out of you with out a sweat... no remorse and no stress or worry of the repercussions... Tomorrow cares for its self. But she has a place and that is most likely first.

Sounds weird reading it though... lol

BTW, if she can cook, a great bonus, since she can help me in the kitchen... A great place and time to build up some sexy time later 😉

Posted by Vainth
I swear, it's like you read me like a book.

Prefer someone who wants to be protected, cared, needs attention.

Oh wow, who knew? My friend is a Taurus with gemini venus and I think I had the other two down...letting him protect and somewhat care for me...I kind of felt submissive around the youngin, but I dropped the ball on needing attention. Even if I needed/wanted his attention, I rarely expressed it. The times where i felt i tried he seemed kind of dismissive imho, so I hid that side of me. Maybe thats why he said "sometimes I wonder about you...do you REALLY like me?" or "it would be okay sometimes to send a text and say you miss me, or you want me to come over etc" I just felt he didnt respond in a way Id like when Id somewhat try. *sigh* Ah well.

You Taureans are adorable though. Out of anger I put taureans on my "signs id never date again" list, but deep down id love to marry a mature bull one day, well once I reach my full level of maturity lol.

Not a Taurus, but I can tell what mine looks for/likes in me:

Someone that can 'shelter them from the storm'- a safe haven in someone/makes them feel at "home"

Lots of cuddles

Speaks with eyes

Not demanding

Practical- sees things they do not/can improve the home/work life

Kind to others/cares about humanity

Mine is very spiritual so I'd imagine they need someone that can meet them on that plain as well.

Someone sweet but strong.

110% correct from my point of view 🙂

Posted by OmagaIII
Hahaha, 2N3R hits close to home with her description.

The second part anyway 😛

I am also looking for loyalty, reliability, honesty and at least a measure of consistency. But the rest that 2N3R mentioned is dead on target. BTW, the minute something like work or whatever does effect my relationship I retaliate against what ever is the cause. My time is my time, and my lady is my lady and my time is hers as well. Rob me of this and I will rip the very thing that makes you tick out of you with out a sweat... no remorse and no stress or worry of the repercussions... Tomorrow cares for its self. But she has a place and that is most likely first.

Sounds weird reading it though... lol

Lol no it doesnt 🙂 its rather cute

True for me.

Posted by OmagaIII
Hahaha, 2N3R hits close to home with her description.

The second part anyway 😛

I am also looking for loyalty, reliability, honesty and at least a measure of consistency.

+100

Add lots of affection and intelligence (Gemini Moon....Aqua Rising here) with a twist of lemon.

Newbie here, but yep you hit the nail on the head. My last relationship was with a sweet guy but wasn't much of a stand up kindofa guy...I need a strong man and I need to know he'll be there for me just as I would be for him.

On to greener pastures...

::shrugs::

Posted by aftershine
All the taurus females i know want an affectionate+protective guy who also pampers them...is manly and reliable.

I do not require any pampering. I spoil myself. 🙂

But a man has to be a man!

Weaklings and whiners, please find the EXIT door to your left.

The nurturnig ability of a Taurus woman does have an expiration date.

Taurus in house-breeding IMO

Posted by sandynads
Starting with your 7th house, you??_ve got Taurus on the 7th house cusp, ruled by Venus also in Taurus and in your 7th house. Your Taurus Sun also falls into your 7th house. Taurus, Libra, and Leo types appeal to you. Someone who is stable, sensual, pretty, and agreeable, but is also strong willed, and has a personality that stands out.

:O

how...do you even know that?? OMG thats what i want in a guy...how did you figure it out?!

a femaule bull has caught this virgo eye....ooooowwweee.. man she makes me tick.. Why i didnt nogtice her before, but im enjoying her.. Very slow and patient which is nice!!! NO COMPLAINTS

Kind hearted. Driven. Understands my emotions and does not make me feel psycho/bad for having them. The type of woman when I wake you up at 4 in the morning and say pack your bags we're flying to blank does not bat an eyelash and just does it.

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Posted by OmagaIII
Hahaha, 2N3R hits close to home with her description.

The second part anyway 😛

I am also looking for loyalty, reliability, honesty and at least a measure of consistency.

+100

Add lots of affection and intelligence (Gemini Moon....Aqua Rising here) with a twist of lemon.

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OMW +100 for you too. I forgot that one...

I also look for affection and definitely intelligence. If you can't communicate with me on different plains, and I mean different, then I can't see how it will work. I need that type of stimulation too.

Just to give the rest an idea of this. My recent love interest, a scorpio, was the first one, despite being 4 years younger than me where I could talk about anything, and I mean anything! We could move between topics vastly different at the drop of a hat, and 4 hours later realize; 'OMW look at the time'. I love that, she is the first one, but she connects at every plain.

I am aware of everything, (from your 'that time of the month' goodies and how I could help out with that right through to engineering studies and elements of spirituality) and when you can talk to someone like this, this is what bonds you. I don't need someone to be able to connect on absolutely everything, but she does and it blows my mind (and heart : $ ).

As for affection, this ties in with intelligence for me. Emotional intelligence... I need to be able to drop in and out of different states of affection during conversations etc. Since most people don't like PDA, you need to be able to 'play the game'. Till we get home at least... hehehehe 😉

Posted by braindeadtauro
Kind hearted. Driven. Understands my emotions and does not make me feel psycho/bad for having them. The type of woman when I wake you up at 4 in the morning and say pack your bags we're flying to blank does not bat an eyelash and just does it.

Kudos for the 'make me feel bad about my emotions'. I have that as well...

Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
Newbie here, but yep you hit the nail on the head. My last relationship was with a sweet guy but wasn't much of a stand up kindofa guy...I need a strong man and I need to know he'll be there for me just as I would be for him.

On to greener pastures...

::shrugs::

You know, I like your approach. But... I am the guy that will be there and the one to break through everything to do what it takes for my heart and that of my girl, yet it is rarely appreciated. Your perceived as being too much, too around, too this too that... And frankly it hurts. So I try my best to refrain from that. Only more recently found someone that acknowledges apart of this. I have toned it down A LOT since previous encounters, so I am still very cautious about this. :/

I'm a bull and my......is also a bull.....I fit in everything listed above and he also fits in everything listed above.. i wonder why there's not enough bull couple out there ..I do believe its a perfect match ! one needs to compromise though..
I miss him and we can never be together long distance... bull need affection and without it...there's NOTHING ! * sob*

Posted by SunTauVenGem
I'm a bull and my......is also a bull.....I fit in everything listed above and he also fits in everything listed above.. i wonder why there's not enough bull couple out there ..I do believe its a perfect match ! one needs to compromise though..
I miss him and we can never be together long distance... bull need affection and without it...there's NOTHING ! * sob*

Agreed it seems like since no one likes us bulls, bulls are best for bulls.

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Posted by Vainth

Posted by SunTauVenGem
I'm a bull and my......is also a bull.....I fit in everything listed above and he also fits in everything listed above.. i wonder why there's not enough bull couple out there ..I do believe its a perfect match ! one needs to compromise though..
I miss him and we can never be together long distance... bull need affection and without it...there's NOTHING ! * sob*

Agreed it seems like since no one likes us bulls, bulls are best for bulls.

I wouldn't say that at all! You bulls are very attractive on many levels. You need to find a partner, not necessarily another bull, who recognizes and appreciates the gifts you have to give.

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and patient .......

Posted by OmagaIII

Posted by peaceloveandhappiness
Newbie here, but yep you hit the nail on the head. My last relationship was with a sweet guy but wasn't much of a stand up kindofa guy...I need a strong man and I need to know he'll be there for me just as I would be for him.

On to greener pastures...

::shrugs::

You know, I like your approach. But... I am the guy that will be there and the one to break through everything to do what it takes for my heart and that of my girl, yet it is rarely appreciated. Your perceived as being too much, too around, too this too that... And frankly it hurts. So I try my best to refrain from that. Only more recently found someone that acknowledges apart of this. I have toned it down A LOT since previous encounters, so I am still very cautious about this. :/

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Amen brotha. And wth...is that what we have to resort to? Toning it down? When did being strong and dependable become a bad thing...urg.

Posted by OmagaIII

I need to be able to drop in and out of different states of affection during conversations etc. Since most people don't like PDA, you need to be able to 'play the game'. Till we get home at least... hehehehe 😉

This ^^^^^^^

Great minds think alike...Nothing is sexier than someone who can hold your intellectual interest and entertain flirty conversations.

Bulls seem to be the only signs in the zodiac who don't seem to mind PDA. I could be wrong.

As for myself, I'm programmed and wired to be affectionate. Once I'm mentally stimulated, especially if this individual has a unique intoxicating scent, and made flirtatious eye contact, or a slight gesture with the lips (preferably sliding a tongue over the lower lip) makes me want to chaaaaarge this individual with a Bulldozer!

I lose my senses...and my only option is to be openly affectionate and physically demonstrative with this person.

I'm more susceptible to the sensual aspect of Venus than I am the physical part. The individual does not have to be conventionally attractive or perfectly appealing to the visible eye...but presenting sensual qualities that keeps me intrigued.

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by OmagaIII

I need to be able to drop in and out of different states of affection during conversations etc. Since most people don't like PDA, you need to be able to 'play the game'. Till we get home at least... hehehehe 😉

This ^^^^^^^

Great minds think alike...Nothing is sexier than someone who can hold your intellectual interest and entertain flirty conversations.

Bulls seem to be the only signs in the zodiac who don't seem to mind PDA. I could be wrong.

As for myself, I'm programmed and wired to be affectionate. Once I'm mentally stimulated, especially if this individual has a unique intoxicating scent, and made flirtatious eye contact, or a slight gesture with the lips (preferably sliding a tongue over the lower lip) makes me want to chaaaaarge this individual with a Bulldozer!

I lose my senses...and my only option is to be openly affectionate and physically demonstrative with this person.

I'm more susceptible to the sensual aspect of Venus than I am the physical part. The individual does not have to be conventionally attractive or perfectly appealing to the visible eye...but presenting sensual qualities that keeps me intrigued.

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I love subtle PDA. Don't see anything wrong with it from time to time. More recently me and my Scorp interest actually flirted a bit, but like on this subliminal level. It drove me nuts, because she plays the game without anyone even noticing, and then suddenly we are back in the 'real' world hehehe love it 🙂

You know what, we might be more physical, but I also have this massive charge of sensuality as well. PDA is like a very subtle way of starting it's release. Give me my time and with both physical and sensuality I would blow your mind. And I know I can, probably like most Taurus. You just feel it and know what's gonna happen 😉

However...

It seems that Taureans are severely misunderstood in this regard. We tend to release this energy a long time in advance before making a move. Mostly, if you just scroll through these threads, we are told 'I like you as a friend blah blah blah' and we stop.

And THEN only do people wake up and realize what was happening, turn around and start talking BS about us. 'He doesn't care', 'why is he so slow', blah blah blah. When, as a matter of fact, we probably ply this game a bit faster than most, until YOU slam on the breaks, then we do the same.

Hate that though.... lol

I like the licking of the upper lip and sexy biting of the lower lip. 😆

Posted by OmagaIII
However...

It seems that Taureans are severely misunderstood in this regard. We tend to release this energy a long time in advance before making a move. Mostly, if you just scroll through these threads, we are told 'I like you as a friend blah blah blah' and we stop.

And THEN only do people wake up and realize what was happening, turn around and start talking BS about us. 'He doesn't care', 'why is he so slow', blah blah blah. When, as a matter of fact, we probably ply this game a bit faster than most, until YOU slam on the breaks, then we do the same.

Hate that though.... lol

@_@ lol what? elaborate?

Posted by OmagaIII
However...
And THEN only do people wake up and realize what was happening, turn around and start talking BS about us. 'He doesn't care', 'why is he so slow', blah blah blah. When, as a matter of fact, we probably ply this game a bit faster than most, until YOU slam on the breaks, then we do the same.

Hate that though.... lol

They create the infamous Hot and Cold Thread.
We were warming up and then turn cold abruptly.

There is a reason why our nurturing, affectionate instincts come into play...

But if an individual opts to remain cold without a warm winter coat, who are we to haggle or reason with them.

If you want to freeze.

Then Freeze. (LOL)

With my moon in Gemini, finding another furnace to warm up to shouldn't take long.

Posted by 2N3R
I like the licking of the upper lip and sexy biting of the lower lip. 😆

+1000

I can hand my entire heart to a man on a silver platter if he did this....

*TaurusBull ponders on some nasty thoughts right now*

The Classy Bull in me would state : "It's not ladylike or proper to discuss such things on a public forum."

*Maintains an Audrey Hepburn elegant poise, and drinks Early Grey tea and eat some lighly toasted crossaints.*

*Crosses legs*

Posted by SunTauVenGem
I'm a bull and my......is also a bull.....I fit in everything listed above and he also fits in everything listed above.. i wonder why there's not enough bull couple out there ..I do believe its a perfect match ! one needs to compromise though..
I miss him and we can never be together long distance... bull need affection and without it...there's NOTHING ! * sob*

I love Taurus girls. Always so cold in the beginning though. They have a way of making you feel you are nowhere near their league and I'm not chopped liver!

Posted by TaurusBull1977

Posted by OmagaIII
However...
And THEN only do people wake up and realize what was happening, turn around and start talking BS about us. 'He doesn't care', 'why is he so slow', blah blah blah. When, as a matter of fact, we probably ply this game a bit faster than most, until YOU slam on the breaks, then we do the same.

Hate that though.... lol

They create the infamous Hot and Cold Thread.
We were warming up and then turn cold abruptly.

There is a reason why our nurturing, affectionate instincts come into play...

But if an individual opts to remain cold without a warm winter coat, who are we to haggle or reason with them.

If you want to freeze.

Then Freeze. (LOL)

With my moon in Gemini, finding another furnace to warm up to shouldn't take long.

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Hahaha Spot on! +1000 Again.

Your a wise one hehehe Looks like there are a few of us that can dish out the truths for our brethren hahaha

thank you for all the replies i truly appreciate it 🙂

Tho there is one thing i'd like to know...the reasons why a taurus would have a harem? What is the point?!?! Like you are a loyal person to the core then why bother with other girls when you look for "the one"?

What if you end up finding "the one" but she doesnt take you seriously and walks away with your heart because of your harem? Doesnt that thought frighten you in any way? :/

If a person truly is THE One, I would have no idea what harem you're talking about because it doesn't exist. However, for me, even if I haven't decided if the person in question is THE One, I still have no idea what you're talking about, because the person I'm interested in is the one I have chosen to devote my time and self to. I'm only a slut in my head and only stare at and consider hitting on everyone when I'm single. 😆

Also don't get the harem idea here... We don't string them along.

What probably happens is that these are all the people who woke up to late to realize what we where up to, more precisely, woke up to late to realize that we did show interest and we where there like we said we would be. But you only want friends, that's fine, we slam on the breaks and take the next off ramp.

If there are any 'harem' then it is because they chose to be there, not because we led them there. They made the decision them selves, not us. You push me back, great, now stay your own line...

I like this thread. 🙂
Very honest and insightful comments.

Posted by OmagaIII
Also don't get the harem idea here... We don't string them along.

What probably happens is that these are all the people who woke up to late to realize what we where up to, more precisely, woke up to late to realize that we did show interest and we where there like we said we would be. But you only want friends, that's fine, we slam on the breaks and take the next off ramp.

If there are any 'harem' then it is because they chose to be there, not because we led them there. They made the decision them selves, not us. You push me back, great, now stay your own line...

+100

This is literally how I know all us Taurus think alike.

btw, just finished my last peddle break. Give it few days till another "hot and cold" disappearance act topic comes up.

Yip being a taurus is so simple yet very complex...but more simple lol

It's not complex; maybe for everyone else, but perhaps it's not for them to understand. We are being questioned by people who want there to be an explanation for everything thing. This confusion is brought on by misconceptions that exist courtesy of popular opinion.

The harem question again?

There is no harem. A harem creates gray areas and too many vertical lines intersecting with horizontal lines. We move in a straight line. Only one linear movement. Just a little slower. Traditional. Respectful. Assessing you. Observing you. Taking you all in. Operating a little more quietly. It's instinctual for us. Bulls don't do gray. It's black or white. You're either in a full blown relationship with us or you're not.

If you're in this alleged harem of Bull groupies...you gave yourself that title.

If you want an exclusive relationship with a Bull, start out how you're going to keep out...or you will make things very difficult for yourself.

We're infamously known for our 'fixed' qualities and stubborn behavior.

Posted by 2N3R
This confusion is brought on by misconceptions that exist courtesy of popular opinion.

Very true.

I was strung along for about 2 1/2 years by a Pisces/Aries cusp that couldn't make up his mind. He was the center of my attention, no others, and I gave it my all. Throughout the course of the r/s he would have mood swings where he would friend-zone me so I'd stop talking to him but then he'd start up with the texts and we'd continue on like nothing. But it started getting so obvious toward the end and he just wasn't strong enough to end it, so I of course had to rip that band-aid off. I finally GOT IT - 2 1/2 years later (slow), but I was done...I took that exit ramp. He tried showing up at same places I would be at, i guess thinking we were going to "bump" into each other and start talking again but hey I pumped those brakes - which was his idea right - so...what do you want now? I guess I seem like the cold b@# $ h bcuz I shut you out?? Sorry charlie.